jboyd5
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 5, 2017
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- Age
- 29
Girl I work with has been showing a lot of interest in me at work.
I would catch her looking, and this would start a staring contest while both of us grinned ear to ear.
She initiates conversation and greetings. Always laughing at stupid stuff I say. "Diagon Alley" in an English accent was the most recent.
When I asked her for her number, she gave no hesitation what so ever. Got it on a Tuesday and texted her Friday morning.
Me: "Hey NAME, what are you up to?"
Three hours later..
Her: "Hey whats up, sorry I was hiking"
About two hours later
Me: "Ah. You free next Tuesday for a drink?"
No answer.
I know from Corey Wayne that a late text message is a sign of low interest, but I didn't understand because she had been showing signs of interest ever since we met.
My texting game also isn't the best, but I doubt that this could have had a big enough impact to cause this.
At work tonight, she acted like everything was normal and was thinking to myself "yea fookin right. Im the prize". I didn't want to reinforce this behavior by giving her my attention as much as I usually would. Including eye contact.
I was trying to convince myself that she was probably testing me to see if I would send another text. But another thought that came to mind was, I was being used for validation.
I am unsure.
I would like the forums thoughts on this and how I am handling this situation. How should I continue with this girl?
I would catch her looking, and this would start a staring contest while both of us grinned ear to ear.
She initiates conversation and greetings. Always laughing at stupid stuff I say. "Diagon Alley" in an English accent was the most recent.
When I asked her for her number, she gave no hesitation what so ever. Got it on a Tuesday and texted her Friday morning.
Me: "Hey NAME, what are you up to?"
Three hours later..
Her: "Hey whats up, sorry I was hiking"
About two hours later
Me: "Ah. You free next Tuesday for a drink?"
No answer.
I know from Corey Wayne that a late text message is a sign of low interest, but I didn't understand because she had been showing signs of interest ever since we met.
My texting game also isn't the best, but I doubt that this could have had a big enough impact to cause this.
At work tonight, she acted like everything was normal and was thinking to myself "yea fookin right. Im the prize". I didn't want to reinforce this behavior by giving her my attention as much as I usually would. Including eye contact.
I was trying to convince myself that she was probably testing me to see if I would send another text. But another thought that came to mind was, I was being used for validation.
I am unsure.
I would like the forums thoughts on this and how I am handling this situation. How should I continue with this girl?