Throw in the towel?

[Jifto]

Does anyone else feel burned out with women? There's a bunch of work and I feel like now that I know red flags, I tend to disqualify most women pretty early on. I'm spending a lot of effort and thought on 'The Game' and while I know a ton more than I did before (and I think I'm doing better with women overall), I can't figure out if the juice is worth the squeeze.

Maybe I'm just tired.

 

[cola]

You take this sh*t way too serious.

Women should be like number 5-6 on your list of priorities.

1. God/faith/religion
2. Family
3. Gym/health
4. Career
5. Getting layed(bachelor)/ Girlfriend(If you prefer relationships)
6. Sports
7. PlayStation 4.

That's my list..

Once you internalize that and have similar priorities, game gets easier, because you aren't faking not caring.. You really don't.
And they can sense the difference.

And they love the fact that you don't, because now they have the challenge of trying to make you.


Establish attraction + Provide attention
+ Withdraw attention to focus on priorities + Make them earn attention by doing things that are pleasing to you + Withdraw again.

Get them addicted to you, like a drug.

Wash, rinse, repeat.
No 250 page book neccessary.
Simple.

 

[Urbanyst]

The only thing you should put WORK into in your life is making as much MONEY as possible and good health/physical fitness. Outside of that, everything is just a hobby.. including women.

Women are work when you allow them to be. It usually means you are trying too hard to appeal to them and follow their rules instead of just doing what you want. Meeting women is pretty easy, and once you get a number the "work" is over. You just invite girls out (or in) and try to put them in situations where you can sleep with them. Not really "work" unless you get a lot of resistance. That's your cue to move on, not to work harder lol.

 

[Meektrop]

I would only call it work if you were making money of them and you probably can if you want to

 

[Bingo-Player]

I’m 25 and I’ve already had a couple of periods in my life where I’ve gotten fed up of the nonsense with them

I’m arguably in one now after splitting from a girl who I thought would have gone the distance with me but turned out to be a fraud

Whenever I get to one of these points I withdraw from women completely no OLD, no cold approaches minimal nights out etc etc

Withdrawals can last anything from 3 – 9 months and I usually use that time to recharge, rest, relax and improve other areas of my life

Once I feel I am well rested and relaxed I will slowly start looking at building a new plate rotation and see where I go from there

The truth is Women are tiring bro even for the best of us , listening to they’re sh1t , fvcking them , the mind games / power struggles etc etc it all takes it out of you

That’s why married men of 20/30/40 years are like zombies

 

[Urbanyst]

I’m 25 and I’ve already had a couple of periods in my life where I’ve gotten fed up of the nonsense with them

I’m arguably in one now after splitting from a girl who I thought would have gone the distance with me but turned out to be a fraud

Whenever I get to one of these points I withdraw from women completely no OLD, no cold approaches minimal nights out etc etc

Withdrawals can last anything from 3 – 9 months and I usually use that time to recharge, rest, relax and improve other areas of my life

Once I feel I am well rested and relaxed I will slowly start looking at building a new plate rotation and see where I go from there

The truth is Women are tiring bro even for the best of us , listening to they’re sh1t , fvcking them , the mind games / power struggles etc etc it all takes it out of you

That’s why married men of 20/30/40 years are like zombies

The woman of today's market are high risk and low reward.

I've never had a relationship last longer than a year because I never had patience for the nonsense, games, sh*t tests and power struggles. That energy is for making MONEY not dealing with women's horse sh*t. So I either get dumped or I cut them loose.

I've never had a relationship last long enough to badly damage me and I feel lucky for it now.

 

[Bingo-Player]

The woman of today's market are high risk and low reward.
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dont think iv'e seen a more accurate way to describe them