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''Friend'' talking behind my back to my plate-EVERYONE MUST READ

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Met this girl with my friend a couple of months ago. His collegue was sitting with her friend at a bar and we randomly ran intoo them and I met this girl my friend already knew.

Chilled, drank had fun and number closed that girl.

We dated twice and she came over to my house. Made out, played my DJ thing and she blowed me. Sky high interest level, refused cex because she got hurt in the past and she doesnt want to come over as easy. She texts me a lot and always makes a way to meet up with me even though shes busy. This is a 10/10 interest plate.

So I went to the gym with my ''friend'' today and we had a small clash because he told me to do stuff and I declined. After a while I was so done with him that I told him to walk home instead of me dropping him off. He followed me we talked and I dropped him off, had a protein shake and then he told me that he was meeting his girl ''Eva'' a girl that has nothing to do with his collegue and my plate.

I texted my plate tonight to meet up. She says alright and drives to my house, I asked her what she was doing.

She was having drinks with ''MY FRIEND''!! ???

I acted really cool and aloof to that news. I told her why? She told me that he texted her (while we were at the gym) that he had to tell her something important so she went to meet him.

He told her that she shouldnt trust me that im a liar to girls. I f8ck girls and use them only for cex. He told her that im not worth it. That I will hurt her eventually and that she should date him. He told her that hes great and cool and trustable and that he would never hurt her. She even told me that he saw me texting her and that he told her not to answer. He also told her that I have a black heart and I only use women for pleasing. Ofcourse I teached him all this stuff and I really do this but ofcourse we are DJ's that's the game until we want to settle and even then we don't lose frame. He also followed her to her car and she freaked out because he did. He told her like 50 times NOT to tell me anything. (ofcourse)

But hes using this knowledge against me. My friends told me to drop this guy, I always pick him up to lift, I borrowed him money, he ate at my house, we work out for almost a year togheter and he does this sh*t to me. Little jealous mofo.

I deleted him on whatsapp, on facebook everywhere.

I acted really calm and chill towards my plate and I didn't became mad but I told her hes lying ofcourse and that hes only saying that to lay her. (He told me that I shouldnt break her heart, shes not worth that, he told me that I should go in a LTR with her because she wanted that with me, he tells me that everyday for 2 weeks now)

Ok so its obvious what happened her... He even followed her to her car, she had to be a bit rude to get him to get lost and then she drove to me to tell me everything.

Problems here: Her collegue is a friend of my ''friend'' and a very good friend of her. She advices her on phone not to trust both of us and to keep wait it all out.
She didn't know that I was hearing everything and my plate wants to trust me in all this and we made out and I told her to forget all this sh*t and that she should trust me ofcourse. Didn't become mad, only told her that I really couldn't believe what my friend did and all that.

Another problem: Tommorow Im going to a outdoor festival with a chick that got me on this forum in the first place, shes engaged but a real dime. Shes obviousley fed up with her guy and reaches out to me to hang out lateley.

Guess what ''my plate'' will be there too. She knows that the girl from above is engaged.

How should I play this? Keep in mind my plate is a solid 7 the rebound chick is a 9,5, and has a model carreer.

But my plate is 100% really interested in LTR and everything. Don't want to screw up and let my ''friend'' have the joy of seeing me losing her and her knowing that im the liar he described.

I hate drama but its part of the game we play.

One thing is for sure: I deleted the guy from facebook blocked him on whatsapp and I will never contact him again, no bro code in this guy, what a mess.
 

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This is how women work:
Your friend saying all that stuff about you have a black heart and use women for sex and yada-yada only would PEAK a woman's interest. If her interest was 10/10 before it's 50/10 now.

That's the fun part of game for women. Trying to "tame" the wild beast man who sport f*cks women.
& then you are going to be around her with your 9.5 model ex???!!?
She is going to be obsessed with you if you play this right..

This is gold. So now you know women are competitive right? So now the ex's IL will mostly raise too.
Your friend didn't hurt you he helped you more than he knows lol.

The only thing you did wrong:
Deny what he said. You should have played it off or said "maybe some of that's true but I really like you" or something along those lines.

Cut ties with that guy because he's a vagina wearing a man suit,
but he definitely didn't hurt your game. He solidified it.
All you gotta do is play it cool and you're gold bro.
 

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Hes harassing my plate and her collegue on Facebook text and phone calls asking them if they told me anything... she texts me now ..
 

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Your "friend" basically niceguy'd you. That's a really nasty tactic that you'd probably score points on calling out to her.
 

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Your "friend" basically niceguy'd you. That's a really nasty tactic that you'd probably score points on calling out to her.
I dont understand your comment. Why did he niceguy me? He blackened me not knowing that would probably only stronger my position
 

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Never verbally admit you only use women for sex though. You can use women until the cows come home. Just never actually admit it. Once you say it, you become a known douchebag predator. Then people go on witch hunts to destroy you.

Your friend doesn't sound like a friend. Any friend who would take the side of some hoe you're f*cking over you is worthless.
 

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Man your friend is a fking AZZHOLE thats all i can say lol!


these bros aint loyal


you seem to be on the right track tho..ur playing with fire with the engaged chick..you cucking her husband like that might cause him to go crazy on you and possibly kill you. be careful brother.
 

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You have two problems here. First of all, your friend is c0ckblocking you. Second, your plate is making your friend an orbiter.

DROP BOTH OF THEM and move on.
Kinda agree.
I had à guy recently doing that..on me
Hé was inviting himself to nights i had with girls who were friends of mine. Except hé did it in my back (facebook adding them than girl would text me hey this guy wanna come).

Some of your "friend" are just pretending and are toxic. Also, they aim at certain specific girls.. the girl might not be right either.

Best way is just to politely back away and drop them.

Never reply back on the stuff that was said cause you'll just dig your grave.

Go to your event with the girl and act cool.

Let the others dig their own grave
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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I dont understand your comment. Why did he niceguy me? He blackened me not knowing that would probably only stronger my position
He told her that she shouldnt trust me that im a liar to girls. I f8ck girls and use them only for cex. He told her that im not worth it. That I will hurt her eventually and that she should date him. He told her that hes great and cool and trustable and that he would never hurt her. She even told me that he saw me texting her and that he told her not to answer. He also told her that I have a black heart and I only use women for pleasing.
He basically told her you're an asshole and he's not. To try to appear as if he's saving her, as if he's so much nicer. This is typical niceguy tactics.
 
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I think you could play this off. Do whatever you want to do to that dime piece and whatnot, and if the 7 gets mad at you, just say that it's because of all the drama associated with her and that you don't think it would work out between you and her, at least not right away anyway. Or something to that effect.
 

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We dated twice and she came over to my house. Made out, played my DJ thing and she blowed me. Sky high interest level, refused cex because she got hurt in the past and she doesnt want to come over as easy. She texts me a lot and always makes a way to meet up with me even though shes busy. This is a 10/10 interest plate.
Juuuuuuuust curious.... she wont sleep with you because she doesn't want to come off as easy but she will suck your d1ck.....

isnt she coming off just as 'easy' by doing that? I would think that if she will suck you off that easily, the assumption is that she probably has been easy and free with $ex in her past. Giving head quickly doesnt make her seem slvtty? Or does it and she's just fooling herself?
 

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Juuuuuuuust curious.... she wont sleep with you because she doesn't want to come off as easy but she will suck your d1ck.....

isnt she coming off just as 'easy' by doing that? I would think that if she will suck you off that easily, the assumption is that she probably has been easy and free with $ex in her past. Giving head quickly doesnt make her seem slvtty? Or does it and she's just fooling herself?
I'm not sure, but she saw me with super hot dimes yesterday on a party and on snapchat and she came over to my house without even asking for permission.

She s8cked me for hours, we had cex, I see fire in her eyes when she looks at me.

BTW: first time I had to talk to her for an hour before she would s8ck it. Make her h0rney and all that until she couldnt resist it anymore.
 

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Sometimes life hands us $hitty situations like these - where we think we are happily travelling one path and then we come to that fork. @Desdinova has the least painful solution, drop them both.

At this point you need to absolutely refuse to engage in the drama, take a hard step back from the chick and see if she comes to you. There is a good chance that the female will be more drawn to the drama of the situation and will gravitate towards the other dude, but you need to chalk that up to timing and circumstance. It wasnt meant to work out.

The best thing we can do for ourselves is keep ourselves out of the drama and find like minded people. That's how you create a peaceful life and stress free relationship. When people get all dramatic around you, they are immature. Consider dropping it all and walking.
 

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I'm not sure, but she saw me with super hot dimes yesterday on a party and on snapchat and she came over to my house without even asking for permission.

She s8cked me for hours, we had cex, I see fire in her eyes when she looks at me.

BTW: first time I had to talk to her for an hour before she would s8ck it. Make her h0rney and all that until she couldnt resist it anymore.
This whole thing sounds like it is going to be a headache, but good luck!
 

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This whole thing sounds like it is going to be a headache, but good luck!
Abundance is key sacz, I will keep digging until I find the girl that got everything I want to settle with.
 

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Abundance is key sacz, I will keep digging until I find the girl that got everything I want to settle with.
plate the rest and dont get emotionally invested. you'll find one eventually.

esp with a chick that sucks you off early, claims she doesn't want to be seen as easy, and then the whole situation turns into riddic drama.... PLATE!
 
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