Well 6 months (30 weekends) and it's over,experienced DJ'S what would you have done?

[Red Legg]

I met a single mom HB 8 on Tinder December 7,she was very pretty blonde,blue eyes and showed very high interest.She had two young kids that were very loud and she was not a very good disciplinarian ,she also drinks quite heavily.We talked on Tinder for 10 days then she invited me over for drinks ( she lives 90 miles away) I showed up and we had sex after 10 minutes of talking I spent the night there.We would rotate every week with her coming to see me for the weekend then me coming to see her.We agreed to be exclusive in January.3 weeks later I stayed over and looked at her phone and she was talking to four men on there one of them she was flirting with and had started a conversation with he is also a co worker.I got mad but kept it too myself and did not say anything because she was cooking me dinner,driving too see me and I had sex on tap.We did not miss one weekend for 30 weeks.Then one night (July 4) I asked her about it.She said they were just friends and asked me if I trusted her, I said no she then cried and said there was no reason to hang out anymore then.So when I got home I sent her a breakup text and she un-relationshiped me on Facebook.The weekend is fast approaching and it is her turn,what should I do? just remain NC?try and smooth it over? what would you DJ's do? Keep her as a plate?

 

[Tenacity]

I met a single mom HB 8 on Tinder December 7,she was very pretty blonde,blue eyes and showed very high interest.She had two young kids that were very loud and she was not a very good disciplinarian ,she also drinks quite heavily.We talked on Tinder for 10 days then she invited me over for drinks ( she lives 90 miles away) I showed up and we had sex after 10 minutes of talking i spent the night there.We would rotate every week with her coming to see me for the weekend then me coming to see her.We agreed to be exclusive in January.3 weeks later I stayed over and looked at her phone and she was talking to four men on there one of them she was flirting with and had started a conversation with he is also a co worker.I got mad but kept it too myself and did not say anything because she was cooking me dinner,driving too see me and I had sex on tap.We did not miss one weekend for 30 weeks.Then one night (July 4) I asked her about it.She said they were just friends and asked me if I trusted her, I said no she then cried and said there was no reason to hang out anymore then.So when I got home I sent her a breakup text and she un-relationshiped me on Facebook.The weekend is fast approaching and it is her turn,what should I do? just remain NC?try and smooth it over? what would you DJ's do? Keep her as a plate?

Yup, classic woman of this market with no quality, integrity, nor morality. She is a single mom for one, where is the Father (or Fathers) of the 2 kids? In jail?

She's a slvt who likes dyck, that's why you fvcked fast. But she has no morality in fvcking you while still fvcking other men on the side. The MOST this chick should have been is just a fvck buddy, that's all she is to the other guys. Like I tell other guys, IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT. You have no control over this market of women having no integrity, no morality, and no quality.

 

[Glassguy]

No contact. You got laid for 6 months hopefully it was a good piece of @ss.

Start swiping again. Plenty more chicks out there.

Tinder, pof, match, etc are for plates and fvck buddies. Mission accomplished. 6 months of steady pvssy is a record lol. Good job. Keep your eyes open for real life girls with higher value along the way if you want more down the road.

Until then, keep swiping and keep smashing.

 

[Red Legg]

No contact. You got laid for 6 months hopefully it was a good piece of @ss.

Start swiping again. Plenty more chicks out there.

Tinder, pof, match, etc are for plates and fvck buddies. Mission accomplished. 6 months of steady pvssy is a record lol. Good job. Keep your eyes open for real life girls with higher value along the way if you want more down the road.

Until then, keep swiping and keep smashing.

She definitely messed with my "abundance mentality" I mean how many women do you know of that pay for 80% of the dates? free booze,sex on tap.driving to see me ect...? made me second guess myself..

 

[Red Legg]

Yup, classic woman of this market with no quality, integrity, nor morality. She is a single mom for one, where is the Father (or Fathers) of the 2 kids? In jail?

She's a slvt who likes dyck, that's why you fvcked fast. But she has no morality in fvcking you while still fvcking other men on the side. The MOST this chick should have been is just a fvck buddy, that's all she is to the other guys. Like I tell other guys, IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT. You have no control over this market of women having no integrity, no morality, and no quality.

The "father" never married her but lived with her for 6 years then left from what I gather,I know he pays no child support.

 

[stovepipe]

I woulda just kepty my mouth shut about the other guys and kept smashing, but get her to do huamitaling things in bed for what she did. I get tho, steady pu$$y for that long=some kind of emitions.

At this point, going NC really is the best option imo. The fact you're keeping track of how many weeks and crap shows you had some really deep feelings for her. If you think you can separate your feelings for her to keep her as a plate go for it. But if you try to smooth things out and it backfires, guess who looks like the weak one? The ball is in your court, if you miss the shot, it will sting!

 

[hockeyfreak79]

No no no you lost me @ single mom. 90 miles bro that's crazy. 20 miles radius at the max man, that's it!

I'd go straight no contact, if you struggle with ghosting broads this the perfect scenario to become better at it. The more you pratice the discipline the the easier it is to do.

NC, now go find local prospects!

 

[Red Legg]

I woulda just kepty my mouth shut about the other guys and kept smashing, but get her to do huamitaling things in bed for what she did. I get tho, steady pu$$y for that long=some kind of emitions.

At this point, going NC really is the best option imo. The fact you're keeping track of how many weeks and crap shows you had some really deep feelings for her. If you think you can separate your feelings for her to keep her as a plate go for it. But if you try to smooth things out and it backfires, guess who looks like the weak one? The ball is in your court, if you miss the shot, it will sting!

Hey...I kept it inside for 4 months..lol It just started to "eat" at me...I knew if I said something that would be it...but it just came out..I think she was embarrassed though because she introduced me to her family,and heavily invested,I have a little bit of feels but not much because I kept her at a distance after I read her texts.

 

[RangerMIke]

The only advice I have for you is to not get into relationships with chicks... Other than that I don't think you did anything wrong. I never expect women I am seeing to be exclusive with me... I always expect they are fvcking other dudes... I really don't care, I wear condoms. That way I don't expect anything and I never have to deal with negative emotions like anger and jealousy.

 

[stovepipe]

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Hey...I kept it inside for 4 months..lol It just started to "eat" at me...I knew if I said something that would be it...but it just came out..I think she was embarrassed though because she introduced me to her family,and heavily invested,I have a little bit of feels but not much because I kept her at a distance after I read her texts.

I get it man, its hard to keep that chit in. Seems snooping in a girls phone almost always leads to catching shady behavior. I just had a good friend who was in love with his GF of a year go through her phone while she was in the shower. To his surprise, she was phuking not one, but two other guys.. He left her right away, but is absolutely crushed. He started crying like a baby while telling me the story.

What makes it more surprising is he is an Alpha male. A hardened ex felon who fears nothing. This guy stepped up to 20+ guys in fight and told them all he will fight them one by one. After beating the 4th guy in a row the cops came. To see this same guy cry like a baby over a women really is a reminder to be very cautious investing ones emtions in a women.

Pu$$y.......the most powerful weapon on the planet!

 

[marmel75]

I met a single mom HB 8 on Tinder December 7,she was very pretty blonde,blue eyes and showed very high interest.She had two young kids that were very loud and she was not a very good disciplinarian ,she also drinks quite heavily.We talked on Tinder for 10 days then she invited me over for drinks ( she lives 90 miles away) I showed up and we had sex after 10 minutes of talking I spent the night there.We would rotate every week with her coming to see me for the weekend then me coming to see her.We agreed to be exclusive in January.3 weeks later I stayed over and looked at her phone and she was talking to four men on there one of them she was flirting with and had started a conversation with he is also a co worker.I got mad but kept it too myself and did not say anything because she was cooking me dinner,driving too see me and I had sex on tap.We did not miss one weekend for 30 weeks.Then one night (July 4) I asked her about it.She said they were just friends and asked me if I trusted her, I said no she then cried and said there was no reason to hang out anymore then.So when I got home I sent her a breakup text and she un-relationshiped me on Facebook.The weekend is fast approaching and it is her turn,what should I do? just remain NC?try and smooth it over? what would you DJ's do? Keep her as a plate?

I'm wondering why you even bothered. You arleady knew what was going on. You should have already been spinning other women sicne you knew this wasn't going anywhere. I just think this was pointless.

 

[Glassguy]

I'm wondering why you even bothered. You arleady knew what was going on. You should have already been spinning other women sicne you knew this wasn't going anywhere. I just think this was pointless.

Turn down decent ass? Take what the deck gives man.

 

[Red Legg]

No no no you lost me @ single mom. 90 miles bro that's crazy. 20 miles radius at the max man, that's it!

I'd go straight no contact, if you struggle with ghosting broads this the perfect scenario to become better at it. The more you pratice the discipline the the easier it is to do.

NC, now go find local prospects!

I actually think that the 90 miles distance saved my azz emotionally because it created kind of a buffer zone..she gave me the key to her house in April and said I could come up whenever I wanted,I only used that privilege once.I think that she was trying to get me to move in.

 

[marmel75]

Turn down decent ass? Take what the deck gives man.

No no...I am saying he should have just kept his mouth shut and kept fvcking her...

I am saying it was pointless to even bring this up to her, and pointless to pretend there is some exclusvity going on.

 

[Glassguy]

No no...I am saying he should have just kept his mouth shut and kept fvcking her...

I am saying it was pointless to even bring this up to her, and pointless to pretend there is some exclusvity going on.

Agreed.

Immediately (and secretely) demoted her to plate. No more driving her direction, etc. She either drives to him to smash or who cares lol. No more hanging out all weekend. Smash and dash

 

[hockeyfreak79]

She definitely messed with my "abundance mentality" I mean how many women do you know of that pay for 80% of the dates? free booze,sex on tap.driving to see me ect...? made me second guess myself..

That's pretty much the standard for single mommies. Especially if she has 2.

 

[ubercat]

Yep what messed with u was the b/f experience love bombing. We get a lot of guys here saying there r no rules. But 80 % when things get sketchy one of the basic rules was ignored. And here s a seasoned campaigner having angst.

Don't get exclusive before 3 months or 10 dates. How else r u gonna know what yr getting into.

 

[Red Legg]

No no...I am saying he should have just kept his mouth shut and kept fvcking her...

I am saying it was pointless to even bring this up to her, and pointless to pretend there is some exclusvity going on.

And miss my unicorn? surely you jest...

 

[Tenacity]

The "father" never married her but lived with her for 6 years then left from what I gather,I know he pays no child support.

Yup, he's a deadbeat/thug/jailbird.

Again, typical woman of this market. But guys on this forum will say it's because you didn't wear a certain suit, a certain tie, use a certain line, use a certain brand of toothpaste in the morning, or (insert some other non-relevant shyt here that has absolutely nothing to do with the FACT we are having to date retarded a.ss women)

 

[bigneil]

The next time you see a woman you love, ask yourself: "Would I like to have sex with her for 30 weekends in a row?"

My date tonight turning her cheek after a $105 dinner tab would make you miss your ex.

Anyhow, anything over 13 weeks (3 months) is a successful relationship, especially in this day and age.

30 weeks is like a 30 year marriage used to be.