Plate Wants Equality, Power Play?

[soulforge]

Which is a fancy way of saying nothing. Get into a relationship with her so she can cheat on you as soon as she gets bored? After having wasted much of your time.

Yeh man, this girl was so easy... banged within one hour.. relationship with a girl like this is STUPID

Strong likely hood of cheating

 

[EyeBRollin]

Two simple fixes:

Stop texting her completely. Only respond if she hits you up.

Stop listening to what she says. She's a ****ing plate. She's there for sex. Gotta be willing to drop her or commit to her. Plates have an expiration date.

 

[CMNILS87]

Dude you're working yourself into a tizzy about nothing. You already stated you don't want a relationship with her, but now you're worried about her texting patterns which shows you're took hooked on the outcome of possibly losing sex from her.

Stop talking the bull**** dom/sub stuff and tell her you just want to casually date. She'll either stick around or find another dude. Stop worrying so much, it's just sex. Doesn't sound like you really care for her nor she's getting her emotions filled.

From her eyes, you're a dude she bangs to get kinky with, she doesn't know where she stands with you. You act total alpha or fake alpha, then you run over here and ask all worried about her texting patterns. Quit being a girl and try not to care, go do something you else and fill your day with less women worrying. If you're worrying this much about one plate cracking, you need to stop spinning plates and work on your inner game.

Christopher

 

[Masculinity]

I can tell she is already playing games with the texting..

She intentionally takes her time to text back.. waits for me to text her first...

Think she wants to hold some power...

I don't want a relationship with her... so would it matter to make it an equal playing field aslong as I am just banging her...

Could this be a chit test??

Any sane girl will only let you hit it and quit it for a limited time. Remember, your plates time with you is leased. You don't own her time and shecan leave anytime.

If she's giving you what you want, reward her. Give her some attention, a meal here and there, a compliment that melts her. You can't expect to pump and dump, have her text you, have her initiate stuff and have a woman be generally happy with you; that's simply a delusional expectation.

 

[soulforge]

Any sane girl will only let you hit it and quit it for a limited time. Remember, your plates time with you is leased. You don't own her time and shecan leave anytime.

If she's giving you what you want, reward her. Give her some attention, a meal here and there, a compliment that melts her. You can't expect to pump and dump, have her text you, have her initiate stuff and have a woman be generally happy with you; that's simply a delusional expectation.

I think you are right about this man... I banged her last night, but showed her a little effection too..

I still do believe she is on a power trip now, because i have given her some flexibility.

She got a little ****y with me last night, but I immediately dealt with her..

Regarding her here and there, might be the way forward

 

[AJ84]

Well she mentioned to me, that sex is not everything to her..

I agreed with her, and said... no it is not.. i guess it's about having a good balance..

I only said that chit to keep her sweet, she probably feels i have too much power over her, or all i care about is fuking her..

So maybe play it cool.. bang her and kinda show some caring too...

But reality is.. this chick is not worth anything more than a plate..

She is too sexual, she banged me within one hour of meeting.. she came straight to my house from POF

And immediate bang.. only worth keeping for sex, even then risky

Yeah she doesn't sound like girlfriend material if she slept with you an hour after meeting.
But she seems to want more and is testing you. Instead of pretending to care about more than sex, just let her know you're not looking for anything other than casual and let her decide if she's in or out. Cards are on the table then so she can't hold you accountable for any feelings she develops when you made it clear where she stands. If you start pretending to care and lead her to believe it's more than the sex she's just going to up all her tests and your interactions with her will start to feel like work. Just don't waste her or your time putting up a fake front.

 

[AJ84]

You need to elaborate more, but my guess is she feels like this relationship is all about you. Her needs aren't getting met is what she means by things not being equal. She likely feels all you want her for is sechs and she wants more. You know chics are kind of "relationship" minded. She has handed out the sechs in order to get a relationship and you haven't given anything back to her.

She handed out the sechs an hour after meeting. Most women do not do that. She would have to be pretty dense to think that putting out less than 24 hours after meeting someone would lead to being seen as girlfriend material. But from what OP is saying she thinks that. Maybe if she had a few dates with him, got to know him a bit before jumping into bed. But the tone was set for casual hook up right from the beginning so for women who do that, it's not that easy to try to rewind some plate role they have established with a guy.

 

[Masculinity]

I think you are right about this man... I banged her last night, but showed her a little effection too..

I still do believe she is on a power trip now, because i have given her some flexibility.

She got a little ****y with me last night, but I immediately dealt with her..

Regarding her here and there, might be the way forward

How did she respond to the affection?

I think you yourself may be the one framing it as a power situation. If it actually is that situation though, you can always put her in check with diplomacy. And if she's still being a brat then you just find another girl.

She got a little what with you last night? The word got blanked out. And how did you handle it?

 

[soulforge]

She is looking for comfort, which is likely a grasp at a potential relationship with you.

She is testing your interest by seeing if you will text first or more. And also backing off the sex talk a bit.

This is exactly what it is man... she was lowering the sexual tone down, because she KNOWS i am only interested in banging her...

The change of texting pattern, is just get me to do some chasing, commitment BS...

Anyhow i will just bang and not give a fuk about the outcome..

It is true... A plate can come or go... they are not keepers, and at some point you have to come off the ride.

 

[soulforge]

How did she respond to the affection?

I think you yourself may be the one framing it as a power situation. If it actually is that situation though, you can always put her in check with diplomacy. And if she's still being a brat then you just find another girl.

She got a little what with you last night? The word got blanked out. And how did you handle it?

Ok so basically i was just a little nicer to her than usual, didn't jump onto the whole sex thing... cooked some food, and took her to a bar for drinks, music etc..

Her attitude changed, even wanted to give me BJ at the bar.. girl is kinky and likes the risk factor..

Later that night, i was trying to watch a movie at my house, and she was playing music on her mobile phone..

Her music was disturbing me, so i told her to turn it off, as I am watching a movie... she totally ignored me..

In a firm voice.. I told her straight , in my house as my guest, you do as i tell you.. now put the phone down.

She immediately turned that chit off, and put her phone away.

 

[Masculinity]

Ok so basically i was just a little nicer to her than usual, didn't jump onto the whole sex thing... cooked some food, and took her to a bar for drinks, music etc..

Her attitude changed, even wanted to give me BJ at the bar.. girl is kinky and likes the risk factor..

Later that night, i was trying to watch a movie at my house, and she was playing music on her mobile phone..

Her music was disturbing me, so i told her to turn it off, as I am watching a movie... she totally ignored me..

In a firm voice.. I told her straight , in my house as my guest, you do as i tell you.. now put the phone down.

She immediately turned that chit off, and put her phone away.