"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Cumshot Selfies" are now a thing apparently?? WTF???

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Saw some chick on facebook post one and I was like WTF??
The craziest part was women were coming to her defense saying there was nothing wrong with it, blah blah blah and one of them posted this link...apparently a place where chicks post their "selfies"

https://cumshot-selfie.tumblr.com/

Young chicks today are out of control...I'm sure most of their parents are too busy chasing that almighty dollar working a combined 175 hours a week instead of spending anytime parenting them...guess that falls to their friends who are in the same boat, their boyfriends, their dealer, and whoever else they decide to spend time with...

Unbelievable...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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um, that just sounds like amateur porn, you know that has existed for decades right? don't be so puritanical

www.reddit.com/r/gonewild/
That's great...facebook isn't the place to be posting sh!t like that...

There is a certain..say decorum, that young people are totally clueless about.
 

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That's great...facebook isn't the place to be posting sh!t like that...

There is a certain..say decorum, that young people are totally clueless about.
yeah that's really more of an instagram/snapchat kind of thing. don't know what kind of idiot would post that on facebook where their family or potential employers could see it (though it would make sense if they have their stuff set to friends only and don't have any family or professional contacts)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Saw some chick on facebook post one and I was like WTF??
The craziest part was women were coming to her defense saying there was nothing wrong with it, blah blah blah and one of them posted this link...apparently a place where chicks post their "selfies"

https://cumshot-selfie.tumblr.com/

Young chicks today are out of control...I'm sure most of their parents are too busy chasing that almighty dollar working a combined 175 hours a week instead of spending anytime parenting them...guess that falls to their friends who are in the same boat, their boyfriends, their dealer, and whoever else they decide to spend time with...

Unbelievable...
Broads willing to do anything for attention. I'd love to see these pictures come up at a work interview.
 

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Just another way for woman to brag about how they are dating alpha men
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't get what makes someone alpha. If I started a company that made $300,000/year, I still wouldn't be alpha. While there are broke guys who are?
[A]lpha {b}eta, A comes before b

Alpha males have the intangible traits of being able to dominate; social situations, workplace situations and domestic situations. In these situations, the Alpha male comes first, and everybody else comes second.

Women are social creatures so it makes sense for them to yearn for a man who is able to dominate in these hunting grounds. Women compete with their peers, and a woman's value is largely based off the man she is able to attract. In essence, the higher value women (Women's value is derived by youth, beauty, fertility) will attract the higher value man, a woman is valued by the man she is able to attract, the higher value the man, the higher value the woman.
 

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That's great...facebook isn't the place to be posting sh!t like that...
I don't know. If they keep posting those "cumshot selfies", this Facebook thing might just take off.
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[A]lpha {b}eta, A comes before b

Alpha males have the intangible traits of being able to dominate; social situations, workplace situations and domestic situations. In these situations, the Alpha male comes first, and everybody else comes second.

Women are social creatures so it makes sense for them to yearn for a man who is able to dominate in these hunting grounds. Women compete with their peers, and a woman's value is largely based off the man she is able to attract. In essence, the higher value women (Women's value is derived by youth, beauty, fertility) will attract the higher value man, a woman is valued by the man she is able to attract, the higher value the man, the higher value the woman.
So how could a broke guy be more alpha then a successful business owner?
 

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Which is why romance stories for women are centered around war heroes, fearless cops and adventurers instead of programmers, engineers and car dealers.
Christian Grey was a CEO, but he was also into BD$M.

Didn't realize that was censored.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How can that be?

So then what does?
every group has a leader, the most alpha person is the leader, even if they would be the most beta person in another group of way more manly men.

basically, your alphaness can be described like so, if your friends throw an event your alphaness is where you are on the scale of:

if you're not coming they cancel it <------------------------------------------------------------> nobody wants to invite you because your presence would ruin the fun.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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