"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Woman does "s**t tests" to check for genuineness?

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I've heard of women who admitted , in order to weed out the players, to purposely not return phone calls so many times, (let's say 3), to check a man's TRUE genuine interest in her.

She figures if he calls once, her purposely ignores it, and he doesn't call him back...she figures "He's only interested in one thing."

But if he calls 3 times, after 2 unreturned calls, that's the time when she'll call him back (after 3 times)

I recall some guy who did only the 1 phone call, and was told by female friends, "You give up too easily!"

I knew of a woman, currently in a relationship that said it took her boyfriend to ask her out 3 times before she said yes.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i dont play fuk fuk games. if some sloot wants to waste time playing phone tag and taking days to respond to texts...well sorry ***** i dont have time for you..she would be right in that im only after one thing. and the fact is, im above her. i own all my own chit, luxury vehicle, physically aesthetic an jacked and im much higher calibur then any of these hoes.

NEXT

case in point that BF who asked her 3 times to go out is just a CUCK in waiting. once some chad comes around with higher value she will rocket jump to the new dudes c0ck in a instant
 

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These are things either women with low or average IL do. Once a woman perceives a guy as high value, she will become like a little puppy. No rules, she answers the phone when he calls. Anything else is just women trynna make guys lower their head and obey to the all powerful ***** power.
 

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I've heard of women who admitted , in order to weed out the players, to purposely not return phone calls so many times, (let's say 3), to check a man's TRUE genuine interest in her.

She figures if he calls once, her purposely ignores it, and he doesn't call him back...she figures "He's only interested in one thing."

But if he calls 3 times, after 2 unreturned calls, that's the time when she'll call him back (after 3 times)

I recall some guy who did only the 1 phone call, and was told by female friends, "You give up too easily!"

I knew of a woman, currently in a relationship that said it took her boyfriend to ask her out 3 times before she said yes.
If I called three times I'd get nexted for being a desperate AFC. Calling that many times means you have no options. You need to be a high value man. If you're high value you'll never deal with **** tests.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This woman was being honest.

Women don't deliberately say "I'm going to sh!t test you" so much as during the course of their lives they simply make observations that can be called that.

For example, she goes away for a week with her dad and shuts her phone off. When she gets back one guy hasn't replied since his last message last week, while three other guys are freaking out and asking whether she is mad at them. In the process, she tested all of the men and one passed.

One of the biggest such tests is the first breakup test (which is why it can be a good thing for a relationship). Many men, when they get dumped, will say things like "I never liked you, you dirty slvt! You're ugly and you have that stupid expression whenever you laugh, and you're fat!! I'll kill you!!" Then he texts four times... Fail. But if you just say "I'm sad things are really over for us, you know I always loved you the most..." and then walk away... Pass.
 

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Sh*t tests exist mostly when she has little to no interest in you. You think she'd wait for Lebron James or Kevin Durant to call her 3 times? Nope, she'd answer on the first ring, barring an emergency.

An interested woman won't play games that would run a man off.
 

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Sh*t tests exist mostly when she has little to no interest in you. You think she'd wait for Lebron James or Kevin Durant to call her 3 times? Nope, she'd answer on the first ring, barring an emergency.

An interested woman won't play games that would run a man off.
False. An interested women will ALWAYS test her men, forever.

And seriously, what's with two tattooed black men as examples? Freudian slip?
 

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Sh*t tests exist mostly when she has little to no interest in you. You think she'd wait for Lebron James or Kevin Durant to call her 3 times? Nope, she'd answer on the first ring, barring an emergency.

An interested woman won't play games that would run a man off.
Yeah, I know of this one woman that I stopped paying attention to. Didn't see her for a year, and I went to a friend's B-day party. She was there and she gave me s**t for not staying in touch. lol
 

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Yeah, I know of this one woman that I stopped paying attention to. Didn't see her for a year, and I went to a friend's B-day party. She was there and she gave me s**t for not staying in touch. lol
A woman won't give SH!T to a man she is attracted to, but she will sh!t test him forever. As Coach Corey Wayne says "They can't help it". Also, it's simply how women screen lots of men.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah, I know of this one woman that I stopped paying attention to. Didn't see her for a year, and I went to a friend's B-day party. She was there and she gave me s**t for not staying in touch. lol
And did you wind up dating and banging after?
 

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Counter sh1t tests with your own test: put up or shut up.
 

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Counter sh1t tests with your own test: put up or shut up.
Nope, don't. Have standards. You set your own standards. But most guys are desperate so they have no standards. For example, for the time being, I am becoming more and more ruthless. Meaning, if before I extended convos and situations with low IL or average IL or questionable IL women in 2-3 weeks, I now go complete ghost in a middle of a conversation EVEN IF IT'S GOING WELL. I wanna see if she will initiate. It is very easy to get lost in an interesting conversation and be all like "oh, I got this, she likes me, she writing long". I say cut it off, she what she does without you initiating. Have standards, weed out the low life, low IL or confused and damaged women. A lot of guys don't do this cause these women I mentioned in my last sentence are most women! So you're left with a very low number of these better raised women, but that's the cherry on the top, man. You get to have one of those women, you will be disgusted by yourself that you were looking at that HB6 that acted bitchy and was full of ****e.
 

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Nope, don't. Have standards. You set your own standards. But most guys are desperate so they have no standards. For example, for the time being, I am becoming more and more ruthless. Meaning, if before I extended convos and situations with low IL or average IL or questionable IL women in 2-3 weeks, I now go complete ghost in a middle of a conversation EVEN IF IT'S GOING WELL. I wanna see if she will initiate. It is very easy to get lost in an interesting conversation and be all like "oh, I got this, she likes me, she writing long". I say cut it off, she what she does without you initiating. Have standards, weed out the low life, low IL or confused and damaged women. A lot of guys don't do this cause these women I mentioned in my last sentence are most women! So you're left with a very low number of these better raised women, but that's the cherry on the top, man. You get to have one of those women, you will be disgusted by yourself that you were looking at that HB6 that acted bitchy and was full of ****e.
I meant you should have the attitude that the woman should give up sex or shush. No entertaining her crap.
 
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