Women who hold out for sex after marriage?

[lizardking82]

Are they crap? Are they good? I say they're what the **** cause sex is quite important in a relationship and if you don't know whether you're compatible with your partner in bed or not, I think it could lead to a really ****ed up marriage then.

 

[Billtx49]

If it's not for religious reasons that you both believe in, then don't buy into it. Would you buy an expensive new car you planned to keep awhile without a test drive or six?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Are they crap? Are they good? I say they're what the **** cause sex is quite important in a relationship and if you don't know whether you're compatible with your partner in bed or not, I think it could lead to a really ****ed up marriage then.

Even if your religious I believe you should now whether you can live together and also that you are compatible in the land of intimacy. It's a huge problem if you are not.

 

[amazingswayze]

How can the sex be good if they're virgins? No kinks, no experience....

 

[lizardking82]

How can the sex be good if they're virgins? No kinks, no experience....

That is not the point. If you;re good in bed and she sees you as high value enough, she will quickly learn what you teach her and will become a solid partner to you sexually. But these women holding out without sex... I mean, if you're such a woman, you're gonna get one of two guys: the ones that are super desperate and are willing to wait a long time without sex or the ones that just want to wife you up and will go all around the place ****ing other women while you think they're waiting for you. Either case, you should be quite a sorry ass woman if you want to have one of these guys as a partner cause that means you got no self love and appreciation anyways.

 

[CMNILS87]

Step 1: don't get married. Most women think they can slut it up in college and have 30 ****s but also settle with beta bob and get his security once they hit the wall. The only way to keep her yearning to lock you down. Is to add value and not sign over your bank account.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Step 1: don't get married. Most women think they can slut it up in college and have 30 ****s but also settle with beta bob and get his security once they hit the wall. The only way to keep her yearning to lock you down. Is to add value and not sign over your bank account.

What are your thoughts on prenuptials and cohabitation?

 

[devilkingx2]

have you ever had sex with a woman and thought "man that was so great that I'd have waited 5 years, severely and almost irreversibly committed for it, and been able to live with only that for the rest of my life"? no? well you're normal.

dating overly religious girls is a bad idea anyway, and I'm a christian who tries to pray everyday, I just know not to let religion affect my QoL for no reason.

also you're setting yourself up for a frigid wife who only wants to have sex once a week or once a month, or a prudish wife that doesn't like anything. (what other kind of woman would want to go years without sex other than a woman who doesn't like/want sex?)

 

[btownbuck2012]

In my opinion it's got nothing to do with the actual sex itself if I really liked her and was wanting marriage because if she truly was a virgin the chances of her cheating or blowing up the marriage would statistically be a-lot lower if I was the only man she had ever been with. Sexual compatibility can increase over time as you two get to know each others bodies and you could even "break her in" in a way you really like. I'd much rather have that over some woman who's been with other men before me, although again that's if I was actually considering marriage which these days I'm not.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

How can the sex be good if they're virgins? No kinks, no experience....

Their level of interest and effort... So if she "tries" and has a strong DESIRE to please you, she will and it will end up being the way YOU like it done, not several dozen other guys. You train her to take care of your c0ck.

 

[wifehunter]

Really?!?...someone who is not a wh0re?!?

sign me up!

 

[wifehunter]

How can the sex be good if they're virgins? No kinks, no experience....

That's like Christopher Columbus saying:

"How could America be any good, if no one has been there??

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Would it be a heresy to suggest that sex is only one good to be balanced by others.....

 

[dude99]

What are your thoughts on prenuptials and cohabitation?

Prenup should be mandatory. Whether you are getting married for the first time, the 10th time or just living together. Make them sign that prenup.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Prenup should be mandatory. Whether you are getting married for the first time, the 10th time or just living together. Make them sign that prenup.

Cohabitation requires no prenuptial. But my main concern with prenuptials is that I'm told they can get thrown out of court.

 

[CMNILS87]

What are your thoughts on prenuptials and cohabitation?

1. Do a private marriage
2. Cohabitating... always hold the trump card or get the better deal. Always be willing to kick her out due to bad behavior. I wouldn't live together if you both lease an apartment. I'd say only live together if you own a house and mortgage and she contributes some money to help you with bills. That way if things go south, you can tell her to move out

 

[dude99]

Cohabitation requires no prenuptial. But my main concern with prenuptials is that I'm told they can get thrown out of court.

I understand cohabiting doesn't require one but You can make yourself require one.

They can be contest it just like wills and other legal documents, but yes still HAVE one.

It will show the true colours and true character of the woman when you present it to her.

 

[dude99]

1. Do a private marriage
2. Cohabitating... always hold the trump card or get the better deal. Always be willing to kick her out due to bad behavior. I wouldn't live together if you both lease an apartment. I'd say only live together if you own a house and mortgage and she contributes some money to help you with bills. That way if things go south, you can tell her to move out

And the document you make her sign before she even moves a toothbrushe in says your house is your house and under zero circumstances does she have any claim to it or any of its value should she leave/get kicked out/ or you decide to sell.

If she balks to this Next !

 

[Masculinity]

If she's giving you sex and you're giving her marriage, youre getting the short end of the stick and she's getting a whole lot of benefits including financial and legal.

 

[Urbanyst]

Absurd in 2017.

I would tell her to get into her time machine and come back to the present.

Unacceptable.