"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Has a man who relentlessly badgers a woman for sex until she finally gives in committed rape?

MatureDJ

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According to this women, it seems so:

https://medium.com/@emmalindsay/whose-pain-counts-6e6b3dd287f5
Many years ago, I had sex with a man when I didn’t want to. I said no a thousand times, then said yes once, so I consented. It’s not rape.

At least, I think I said yes. It was so long ago I’m not even sure at this point. But, I must have, I told my therapist. I’m sure I did.

Who are you trying to convince? she asked me.

Every time I call him a rapist, in my head, I hear the voice of a thousand men protesting. But you said yes! You’re a hypocrite! You consented, so it’s your own fault.

My own fault. I said yes so it’s my own fault.

At least, I think I said yes. I don’t actually remember saying yes. But, I must have, right?

Let’s assume I said yes.

Why does one little yes undo a thousand nos? End of the day, he knew I didn’t want to have sex with him. Because I said no. Repeatedly. Over and over. So, why did he keep asking? And, why did I “say yes?”

Because, in that moment, I believed the pain he would experience if he did not get sexual release was more important than the pain I would experience by having sex I didn’t want. Because he kept asking me. Why would he keep asking me if he wasn’t going to feel a lot of pain?

I was wrong though. That sexual encounter has haunted me for years. I can’t imagine having to jack off would have caused him anything more than a night of irritation.
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I see — so if a woman repeatedly asks a man to buy her an expensive piece of jewelry, and he declines every time, but finally gives in because he’s become tired of the nagging, by your heuristics, that woman has robbed him.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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According to this women, it seems so:

https://medium.com/@emmalindsay/whose-pain-counts-6e6b3dd287f5

This response is great:
It's a wrap, western civilization is done. More anecdotal evidence and research shows that the minute feminism is allowed to run amok, those civilizations fall. So essentially then, all of the stories you've heard about women who told the man no and eventually ended up with him because he was persistent equates to rape? What the f*ck kind of screwed up logic is that? That's the only reason we've ever gotten anywhere as a society, because men kept at it until something was created, built or f*cked!!!!
 

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"Until she finally gives in." Is consent. If she didn't give in, and it happened then that would be rape.
 

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This woman regrets having sex with this man
Nothing more. Regret isn't rape.

Reminds me of the william kennedy smith trial in the 90's where he was having consentual sex with a girl. Hours into their session he called out the wrong girls name, she told him to stop. He stopped, she then has him charged with rape. Only for it to come out in court that she consented to everything and got upset after he called out the wrong girls name.

They labelled it regret. And the judge told her point blank "regret isn't rape." And the case was dismissed
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Who cares? A person like that could be committing sexual harassment, or call 911 and says she feels threatened (especially if it's a white woman). Why would someone badger a lady like that for sex, isn't that humiliating because you are being rejected? How would that same person feel if that girl threw herself at someone she liked?
 

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One things for sure, the guy has no dignity.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well if he doesn't spend much time at it and pesters all the girls you know it's kind of jerk game. If he enjoys doing that he should marry her
 
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