"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HB9 wants to join me and my buddy in Vegas

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HB9 I met a few months ago, wants to join me and my buddy in Vegas. I hooked up with her a few times but didn't show much interest because I'm spinning like 4 plates already which is a handful. So she asked me what I was doing this summer and I said I'm going to Vegas with my buddy.

She surprised me when she said she wants to come as well. The thing is do I let her come and treat her like another buddy or just say no and go with my buddy. I don't mind her company but it might get awkward if we go to strip clubs and stuff.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She may be trying to lock you down.
 
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HB9 reacting to your news of going to Vegas with your buddy:



It's DEFCON 5 for her :lol:
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm going to Vegas this summer so if you don't end up going with her just send her with me
 
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mikey2012 said:
HB9 I met a few months ago, wants to join me and my buddy in Vegas. I hooked up with her a few times but didn't show much interest because I'm spinning like 4 plates already which is a handful. So she asked me what I was doing this summer and I said I'm going to Vegas with my buddy.

She surprised me when she said she wants to come as well. The thing is do I let her come and treat her like another buddy or just say no and go with my buddy. I don't mind her company but it might get awkward if we go to strip clubs and stuff.
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basically let her know how it is, say something like "only come if you can't handle it, if you aren't snorting coke off stripper's asses, losing $50,000 in blackjack, getting into foursomes with me and two hookers, etc. then I'm sending your ass home early! :p"

absolutely do not bring her if she's not the kind of girl who knows how to have fun
 
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mikey2012 said:
HB9 I met a few months ago, wants to join me and my buddy in Vegas. I hooked up with her a few times but didn't show much interest because I'm spinning like 4 plates already which is a handful. So she asked me what I was doing this summer and I said I'm going to Vegas with my buddy.

She surprised me when she said she wants to come as well. The thing is do I let her come and treat her like another buddy or just say no and go with my buddy. I don't mind her company but it might get awkward if we go to strip clubs and stuff.
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I see a threesum in the horizon here. Find another hot chick and enjoy the double secks my man.
 
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Fuk that biatch . I ain't no babysitter . Don't worry I will get plenty of secks without the albatross
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fair enough, OP. She covers her expenses, fine by my book.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AlexKaiser said:
"Hey I'm beautiful, can you bring me to Vegas for free? ;) ;)"

Don't give that ***** any freebies. She can get her own ride.
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True dat. Even if I was fking her I would still think twice but given she's not ... fk that . She is pretty coz she's a model . She can find some other sucker
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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