"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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IOI's from very hot girls, still don't know what to do

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Last week, I was down town barhopping by myself.

Literally, the hottest girl in the whole city came up to me and said "you look really nice." I had seen her a few times before and she has seen me, too. She was not serving me so she was not just after a tip. I still didn't know what to say. My conversational skills are horrible.

At another bar, there was a song on that goes "I'm not a player, I just crash a lot." And the bartender came up to me and said "are YOU a player?" I guess I was giving off that vibe.

I just said some thing about "nah, I'm too old." And she told me I'm not old. Then, I didn't know what to say.

Even when very attractive women basically directly hit on me, I am still at a loss of what to do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Taco tuesday!!!

Go!
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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RichardTheFrog said:
Last week, I was down town barhopping by myself.

I still didn't know what to say. My conversational skills are horrible.

(So work on them )
How ? By talking with people men and women and getting comfortable with them, yourself and the situation.


I just said some thing about "nah, I'm too old." And she told me I'm not old. Then, I didn't know what to say.

( why do you not know what to say?)
Is it because you get nervous?



Even when very attractive women basically directly hit on me, I am still at a loss of what to do.

You know what to do come on. At the very least just mirror back what they say till you can think of something else.

Example:
Woman: wow aren't you cute I love your hair.
You: you look beautiful in that dress it fits you well, it really makes your hair look amazing.

By then you should have another subject to talk about unless she carries the conversation. But don't mirror her twice in a row or too many times unless your going to turn it into a joke and tease her.
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Little Richard would like to have a word with you. Then you whip out your d!ck and spin it helicopter style. Works everytime 66% of the time.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Drake Remoray said:
Why are you all giving him a hard time? He's a new guy asking an honest question.
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Ok, the reason I suggested Taco tuesday is because its a normal thing you do...invite her to do normal stuff...go get a steak, ask her to join you and help you eat it!!! (Insert tubesteak joke here)

Women are here to help, let her fulfill her function.

Do I need to write a frickin book???o_O

Oh yeah, it's already written!:rofl:
 
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Drake Remoray said:
Why are you all giving him a hard time? He's a new guy asking an honest question.
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I did not give him a hard time. He's either really young or a 40 year old virgin. Either way it's going to take him some trial and error. Now go out there and be somebody.
 
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RichardTheFrog said:
Literally, the hottest girl in the whole city came up to me and said "you look really nice."
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I would've followed this up with "Aw that's kind of you.....What are you upto now?"

Or "What are you doing later?"

Or "Thank you. Fancy grabbing a coffee/drink/protein shake/smoothie?"

Ask questions, always be closing.

She put herself into your orbit, she approached you and threw an obvious IOI at you.....She wanted you mate!
 
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RichardTheFrog said:
Last week, I was down town barhopping by myself.

Literally, the hottest girl in the whole city came up to me and said "you look really nice." I had seen her a few times before and she has seen me, too. She was not serving me so she was not just after a tip. I still didn't know what to say. My conversational skills are horrible.

At another bar, there was a song on that goes "I'm not a player, I just crash a lot." And the bartender came up to me and said "are YOU a player?" I guess I was giving off that vibe.

I just said some thing about "nah, I'm too old." And she told me I'm not old. Then, I didn't know what to say.

Even when very attractive women basically directly hit on me, I am still at a loss of what to do.
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Just come up with something ridiculously funny. You can't make these lines canned, so you'll have to improvise. But here's an example, when she said "are YOU a player?" you could've said "I'm actually a spy and I'm here to make sure you're behaving *smirk* I'm NAME. What's your name?
"

For the girl who said you looked nice, you could've said "I was wondering why it took you so long to come say hi *smirk*. I like your (something she's wearing), I can tell you're a woman of style. I'm NAME. What's your name?"

You get the point. Be playful, misinterpret her behavior as if she's treying to make a pass on you but be FUNNY while you do it. Give her a compliment on a personality trait or something she's wearing (not on beauty) and then say you aren't sure about her (something). It's all a big game. You win by having fun, smooth and not being outcome dependent.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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phil2015 said:
I would've followed this up with "Aw that's kind of you.....What are you upto now?"

Or "What are you doing later?"

Or "Thank you. Fancy grabbing a coffee/drink/protein shake/smoothie?"

Ask questions, always be closing.

She put herself into your orbit, she approached you and threw an obvious IOI at you.....She wanted you mate!
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Yea I wish I would have said "Thanks! Want to come over later?"

Or got her Snapchat and told her about my collection of flavored lubricants that can make her **** taste like raspberries.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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