You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bayta much!!!
You dudes claim you lay super hot women yeh crap all you want is authority, tell guys do this do that bull ****, money makes game so easy full stop money power fame. I'm out
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Noone really denies it. But I clearly see that I'm not going to become a millionaire in next years, if ever, so I just have to pull without piles of cash in my pockets.but a lot of guys are in denial about it
I think every guy calling himself red pill needs to acknowledge the truth about the position he holds on the food chain. Even if you will never be rich or never have much money at all.. you still need to know women care about MONEY. Otherwise you'll delude yourself into believing you can game your way into abundance when you can't. Then you will become frustrated and angry when women dump you for someone better down the road.Noone really denies it. But I clearly see that I'm not going to become a millionaire in next years, if ever, so I just have to pull without piles of cash in my pockets.
Of course, if I had as much money as that guy from op's video, I would be surrounded by elite hookers.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Whatever helps you sleep at night.Whoever trusts in his riches will fall, but the righteous will flourish like a green leaf.
Yes, the Lord helps!Whatever helps you sleep at night.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
In that case, give me all your money and let the Lord handle the rest.Yes, the Lord helps!![]()
Don't you know riches give you something to have actual confidence in?Whoever trusts in his riches will fall, but the righteous will flourish like a green leaf.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.