Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bayta much!!!
You dudes claim you lay super hot women yeh crap all you want is authority, tell guys do this do that bull ****, money makes game so easy full stop money power fame. I'm out
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Noone really denies it. But I clearly see that I'm not going to become a millionaire in next years, if ever, so I just have to pull without piles of cash in my pockets.but a lot of guys are in denial about it
I think every guy calling himself red pill needs to acknowledge the truth about the position he holds on the food chain. Even if you will never be rich or never have much money at all.. you still need to know women care about MONEY. Otherwise you'll delude yourself into believing you can game your way into abundance when you can't. Then you will become frustrated and angry when women dump you for someone better down the road.Noone really denies it. But I clearly see that I'm not going to become a millionaire in next years, if ever, so I just have to pull without piles of cash in my pockets.
Of course, if I had as much money as that guy from op's video, I would be surrounded by elite hookers.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Whatever helps you sleep at night.Whoever trusts in his riches will fall, but the righteous will flourish like a green leaf.
Yes, the Lord helps!Whatever helps you sleep at night.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
In that case, give me all your money and let the Lord handle the rest.Yes, the Lord helps!![]()
Don't you know riches give you something to have actual confidence in?Whoever trusts in his riches will fall, but the righteous will flourish like a green leaf.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.