Best way to flake on a first date

[BeTheChange]

Women just haven't been the main focus at all last few months - which has corresponded with probably the most productive and positive period of my twenties. Content with how things are going. However this has brought with it the necessity of flaking on women.

Tomorrow I arranged to meet three chicks, but then I got a last minute client meeting (money before h0es). I like the look of the girls enough to want to rearrange the dates for a better night. What's the best way to flake and keep the "player" alarm bells from ringing in their ears?

 

[sazc]

Tell them you got a last minute client meeting with a very important client and you want to reschedule. Same idea that, if a chick is going to flake on a date with a dude, she should go in with a counter offer, otherwise she really isnt interested.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Something came up at work + counter offer in the same message.

 

[El Payaso]

Something came up at work + counter offer in the same message.

This.

 

[Urbanyst]

Money before h0es. Got that right!

I agree with @EyeBRollin

Plus once you are the high value person, flaking becomes pretty normal. I do it a lot. I was supposed to grab brunch with a plate this past Saturday. I ended up over sleeping and woke up to several texts asking me if I was still coming. Didn't respond until Sunday.

I think back to my younger days when women would flake on me like I was dirt. Now that I can turn it around, I don't feel bad at all.

 

[devilkingx2]

. I was supposed to grab brunch with a plate this past Saturday. I ended up over sleeping and woke up to several texts asking me if I was still coming. Didn't respond until Sunday.

it breaks my heart when guys lose sight of the goal

 

[Urbanyst]

it breaks my heart when guys lose sight of the goal

Which is?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Which is?

Get laid

 

[Urbanyst]

Get laid

I did.

Was talking about a plate I flaked on, not a girlfriend. When we say plate we mean one of several women we sleep with.

 

[devilkingx2]

Which is?

not going out with a chick who wants to go out with you should be seen as more of a missed opportunity than a thing to be proud of (unless there's something wrong with her)

 

[BeTheChange]

not going out with a chick who wants to go out with you should be seen as more of a missed opportunity than a thing to be proud of (unless there's something wrong with her)

Wrong. The end goal is not to get the girl but enjoy life. Would you rue a decision to stay in, rather than watch a film at the cinema a "missed opportunity"? I think not. It's simply preference.

At the moment, women just really are a more sentient form of entertainment.

 

[devilkingx2]

Would you rue a decision to stay in, rather than watch a film at the cinema a "missed opportunity"? I think not. It's simply preference.

Yes actually, I've regretted staying in almost every time I've ever done it, granted im closer to a shut in than a party animal

 

[bigneil]

"Something suddenly came up"
- Greg Brady

Actually, don't give a reason, just say "Darling, I won't be able to make it tomorrow as planned but I will make it up to you".

 

[BeTheChange]

Yes actually, I've regretted staying in almost every time I've ever done it, granted im closer to a shut in than a party animal

Then I suggest you find yourself a good book.

 

[Urbanyst]

not going out with a chick who wants to go out with you should be seen as more of a missed opportunity than a thing to be proud of (unless there's something wrong with her)

I'm the missed opportunity. Not her.