“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BackInTheGame78

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Ended up in a tough situation last weekend and lost my hottest plate because of it...

Backstory...main plate and I were actually leaving out of town to spend the weekend together on Friday night...I set it up by telling her I couldn't leave til 11:30 at night or so and she was cool with it. Had a date with the hot plate(our 4th...things had progressed very nicely up til this point but hadn't sealed it yet) at 7pm...well, we were supposed to go out to grab a bite and then figure it out from there, but when I got there to pick her up, she was just finishing up her nails so I chilled on the couch and then she ended up sitting next to me and we started making out and ended up staying in to watch netflix and have a few hard lemonades while doing it. I made sure I let her know that I was going out of town for the weekend and had to leave by 11 ish...

Started watching a movie...during the movie she laid her feet across my legs, so I picked her up and pulled her closer and sat her on my lap...this led to a hard makeout session as she apparently loved that masculine move. Made out a few more times while the movie was going on, but she wanted to watch the whole thing...didn't get over til about 10:30 or so, I knew I had to be quick...started making out hard and grabbed her hand and put it on my c0ck...she was getting really into it...started rubbing her up and down, she started breathing heavy...got her pants off, started rubbing her pvssy with her panties on then stuck my hand down there and started fingering her...

She starts stroking my c0ck and then she gets up on her knees to come closer to me and I start spanking her bare ass and she was like "What are you doing? No...I don't like that... don't like having my hair pulled either" So I'm like Ok whatever and we go back to making out...I get up to slide inside her and she was like "No...I don't want to right now...I'm nervous"...So I'm like Ok, LMR, whatever, but then I look over and its 11PM and its a 45 minutes drive to this where I am supposed to be meeting this other plate. DAMMIT!!!

So I lay down a little more with her and we are making out and I tell her " I really wish I could stay longer but I have to go" and she says "I know you do...I want you to stay too"...she gets me like 3 bottles of water and kisses me goodbye...

I go meet up with the other plate, we end up banging like 15 times over the next 2 days. Th hot plate texts me the next day and everything seems normal...she tells me again that she wishes I hadn't had to leave and I expressed the same. Let it ride Sunday and then set up plans Monday to see her Friday, she texts me Tuesday saying she might have to work OT that day(she's a nurse) so I was like OK, let me know. Didn't hear anything else about it, so I text her midday Friday and tell her I was planning to meet around 7pm. Didn't hear back from her until 6 or so and she says I can't, I'm working...

I tell her Ok, have fun. And that was the last time I heard from her.

I knew there was a large chance that things could get weird after what happened, but I had hoped the fact she had shown very high interest this whole time would prevent it...it apparently didn't. Looks like its over. It sucks because I know for a fact if I would have been able to spend another 30-45 minutes there I would have banged her and not had to worry about the aftermath...but that's life.

Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose...

Gotta replace my hottest plate now, which definitely sucks, but what can you do. Guess try not to schedule double headers when you have a definite place to be at a definite time...
 

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TMI. Seriously, is this the girl from the date writing this?
 

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Whenever a girl gives you last minute resistance like this, always start over from the beginning.

So if you start out slowly kissing and caressing, and then you try and grab her ass and get resistance, go back to slowly kissing and caressing. Women are all about the build up. You're also inn rush if you get this far.
 

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Whenever a girl gives you last minute resistance like this, always start over from the beginning.

So if you start out slowly kissing and caressing, and then you try and grab her ass and get resistance, go back to slowly kissing and caressing. Women are all about the build up. You're also inn rush if you get this far.
Yeah I know this. If you actually read the post I made it very clear I did NOT have time to "start over". I had to leave.
 

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She starts stroking my c0ck and then she gets up on her knees to come closer to me and I start spanking her bare ass and she was like "What are you doing? No...I don't like that... don't like having my hair pulled either"
LOL.

BackInTheGame78]I go meet up with the other plate said:
. Didn't hear anything else about it, so I text her midday Friday and tell her I was planning to meet around 7pm. Didn't hear back from her until 6 or so and she says I can't, I'm working...
Not sure why you would tell her you are meeting her at 7, given she had already informed you that she might be working. I would gotten in touch with her the following week.

Much nuances and rapport have been left out, but based, on your history, I don't see this as absolutely over. Wait two weeks, initiate, and ask for the date.
 

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Dude... she said she had to work OT -_____- ... what exactly did you lose here?
 

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UPDATE:

Apparently everything is good with the hot plate...she said she broke her phone and had no way of contacting me, she said she was disappointed I only sent one msg to her after I didn't hear back, said "it's like you have all these other women and it didn't even bother you"...Lmao...

Said she wants to see me ASAP...planning to meet tomorrow...I don't have to leave early this time
 
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