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I wasn't sure which one was which and after i checked the interwebs for the answer i couldn't edit it anymore. Thanks for correcting me.
I know it does affect all people i didn't said the opposite .
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Women "don't need a man".
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I know it does affect all people i didn't said the opposite .
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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No worries 
xstang77
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Funny one if the last times I saw my ex she was crying and hugging me as I was leaving to go home,later that night on the phone she said how it scared her how emotionally attached she was getting to me and it should be like her counselor says "I should want a man not need one" I told her it sounds like her counselor was trying to make her an average low quality woman lol. A few days later she started getting distant and dumped me in text. Anyways I think this attitude is just going to increase unfortunately especially with all the single mom trash out there getting food stamps etc they don't value us as much anymore.
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Women don't need a man because they can have 50 of them any day of the way that will give them anything they want because they are desperate.
But those aren't the ones they want...so what they need and what they want are 2 different things.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.