"Spinning Plates" what's the actual definition of it.

[9Volt]

It's easier to do when the women have their own lives, careers, money, hobbies, etc. At my age, women only have time to meet up 1-2 times per week. This works perfect for me because I'll get sick of someone if I see them more than that. I like my space to do my own thing. Working out is a priority of mine. I remember one relationship that lasted almost a year a while back. I was in the best shape of my life, lookin better than ever. Then halfway through I just stopped working out. Just months later I looked and felt like crap lol. Never again will I let that happen.

I don't know how old you are. I'm guesing you're young. If you're focused on improving yourself much more than you are interested in women, then you are on the right track. Women can be a dream killer to a man in his 20s.

Nah im older and pretty frigging busy. fam, friends, going out, visiting new places, working out, work, relatives, hobbies etc. most people who's lives are already improved ain't worried about chasing chicks constantly as if they're trying to fill a validation void.

"spinning plates" which imo means constantly trying to get new chicks and sleep with them and or keep a stable around is for dudes not doing much else. yeah they may work, work out and go out to get chicks but that's not much of a life.

I'm born and raised in nyc. tons of chicks here. been to Vegas many times, A.C., South Florida, Cali, many other states, Canada, and a few other countries, the islands etc. Always finding new shyt to do. places to go or idiotic shyt with friends to do that's besides fam and relatives, working out, work, hobbies etc.
chasing chicks constantly is for dudes with not much else going on that just talk improvement.

meeting new chicks has never been an issue for me. whether it's in the states or elsewhere. all the try hard mental masturbation and obsession with spinning plates sounds like dudes with not much else to do.

 

[BlueAlpha1]

Nah im older and pretty frigging busy. fam, friends, going out, visiting new places, working out, work, relatives, hobbies etc. most people who's lives are already improved ain't worried about chasing chicks constantly as if they're trying to fill a validation void.

"spinning plates" which imo means constantly trying to get new chicks and sleep with them and or keep a stable around is for dudes not doing much else. yeah they may work, work out and go out to get chicks but that's not much of a life.

I'mean born and raised in nyc. tons of chicks here. been to Vegas many times, A.C., South Florida, Cali, many other states, Canada, and a few other countries, the islands etc. Always finding new shyt to do. places to go or idiotic shyt with friends to do that's besides fam and relatives, working out, work, hobbies etc.
chasing chicks constantly is for dudes with not much else going on that just talk improvement.

meeting new chicks has never been an issue for me. whether it's in the states or elsewhere. all the try hard mental masturbation and obsession with spinning plates sounds like dudes with not much else to do.

I'll admit back in like 2012 at the young age of 22 I first learned of game after a blue pill upbringing. I was fascinated by "The Game" by Neil Strauss. I tried "PUA" with some success, then a blog called solvemygirlproblems.com. All of it was really cool (like an underworld) for a year or 2, but after that I grew out of it pretty damn quickly.

Now this crap just makes me laugh. I have a friend from an old job who started a "life coaching" website where he's calling himself a "relationship guru". In one video he and a little 5'4" Indian dude with a unibrow talk for 45 minutes about "sarging" (mass approaching women in bars.) While my friend did get girls, I'm convinced his Indian friend was a virgin at the time of that video.

All this stuff looks really, really goofy now. Any men over 25 still using phrases like "sarging" are just goofy overgrown frat boys. There are "hundreds" of guys trying to capitalize on this stuff now, all with different styles that appeal to different kinds of desperate men - this desperation to be perceived as successful with females, whether a man actually is or not. After all, you've had FAKERS on this very forum create entire alter-egos to give that impression to total strangers.

As for me, I've traveled to 21 US states and 15 countries by age 27, and met girls that put these North American hoes to absolute shame. After that, I see no reason to go clubbing and "sarging" much anymore. Part of the reason is it's not an underworld anymore. Girls have been onto "game" for over 10 years now. PUA lines are expired, so you're much better off just being interesting. Knowing the nature of women, I'm focusing on improving my already nice pad and bettering my career, so the confidence is natural and women just come naturally instead of dancing to their tunes while I'm not yet at my best.

 

[9Volt]

I'll admit back in like 2012 at the young age of 22 I first learned of game after a blue pill upbringing. I was fascinated by "The Game" by Neil Strauss. I tried "PUA" with some success, then a blog called solvemygirlproblems.com. All of it was really cool (like an underworld) for a year or 2, but after that I grew out of it pretty damn quickly.

Now this crap just makes me laugh. I have a friend from an old job who started a "life coaching" website where he's calling himself a "relationship guru". In one video he and a little 5'4" Indian dude with a unibrow talk for 45 minutes about "sarging" (mass approaching women in bars.) While my friend did get girls, I'm convinced his Indian friend was a virgin at the time of that video.

All this stuff looks really, really goofy now. Any men over 25 still using phrases like "sarging" are just goofy overgrown frat boys. There are "hundreds" of guys trying to capitalize on this stuff now, all with different styles that appeal to different kinds of desperate men - this desperation to be perceived as successful with females, whether a man actually is or not. After all, you've had FAKERS on this very forum create entire alter-egos to give that impression to total strangers.

As for me, I've traveled to 21 US states and 15 countries by age 27, and met girls that put these North American hoes to absolute shame. After that, I see no reason to go clubbing and "sarging" much anymore. Part of the reason is it's not an underworld anymore. Girls have been onto "game" for over 10 years now. PUA lines are expired, so you're much better off just being interesting. Knowing the nature of women, I'm focusing on improving my already nice pad and bettering my career, so the confidence is natural and women just come naturally instead of dancing to their tunes while I'm not yet at my best.

Bingo.

never been into "game". never needed it. as long as you keep fit, groom, and dress your best, and have good free minded social skills talking to and meeting chicks is no big deal.

Vegas, A.C, Montreal, South Beach, Italy, the islands, many of the state's you just go out with friends that have no problems talking either and it's easy. when you not only grew up with lots of dudes who are very good looking, can talk about anything, are just out having fun and not concerned with retarded try hard acts or lines acting like robot retards chicks start talking to you.

dudes who spew "game" are pretty much giving a "tell" that they need to put in serious work to try to get chicks.

there are those of us who don't need to. let alone have nothing better going on in life but chicks validation.

 

[Roober]

If you have a regular job and commit to yourself, it doesn't leave a lot of time to spin plates.

Hours in a week = 168

Work = 40 hrs (most real careers require more)
Commute to/from work = 5 hrs
Sleep = 8hrs/night = 56 hrs (some can make it by with less. But if you are taking care of yourself, you should at least get this)
Gym/exercise = 6 hrs (at least)
Laundry = 1 hr
House cleaning/chores = 2 hrs
Eating/cooking/etc. = 7 hrs (I will say at least an hour extra a day

Without any extra activities, traveling, anything, this leaves you with 51 hrs a week. I have my boys half the time, so it drops me to 25.5 hours, and add in things I do for them after school activities, extra cleaning, etc. I get about 20 hours a week.... Still seems like a lot, but it never seems like enough. For example, I have to spend a couple hours looking for a babysitter, need to change oil/brakes on my car, need to get car fixed. So, on average, I would say I have 15-20 free hours a week, which could be eaten up by many things.

Hang out with the guys once or twice and that time is down to 10 hours or less. To be honest, I don't know where that 10 hours go... That is likely enough to spin plates to some extent...

 

[9Volt]

If you have a regular job and commit to yourself, it doesn't leave a lot of time to spin plates.

Hours in a week = 168

Work = 40 hrs (most real careers require more)
Commute to/from work = 5 hrs
Sleep = 8hrs/night = 56 hrs (some can make it by with less. But if you are taking care of yourself, you should at least get this)
Gym/exercise = 6 hrs (at least)
Laundry = 1 hr
House cleaning/chores = 2 hrs
Eating/cooking/etc. = 7 hrs (I will say at least an hour extra a day

Without any extra activities, traveling, anything, this leaves you with 51 hrs a week. I have my boys half the time, so it drops me to 25.5 hours, and add in things I do for them after school activities, extra cleaning, etc. I get about 20 hours a week.... Still seems like a lot, but it never seems like enough. For example, I have to spend a couple hours looking for a babysitter, need to change oil/brakes on my car, need to get car fixed. So, on average, I would say I have 15-20 free hours a week, which could be eaten up by many things.

Hang out with the guys once or twice and that time is down to 10 hours or less. To be honest, I don't know where that 10 hours go... That is likely enough to spin plates to some extent...

And that's not bothering with family, friends, doing other shyt for yourself, relaxing, sports etc.

if dudes have nothing else going on but "spinning plates" they don't have much of an "improved" life

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Having a rotation of different women to have sex with.

I'd go one step further and say polyamory; simply for the fact I can't regularly bang birds I don't like.

 

[RangerMIke]

I don't like the term 'spinning plates' it indicates that casual dating is hard. It is not. As long as you are up front and honest with the women you date you just stay in your frame and it is no more difficult than managing a calendar. You drive the train on when you see them and it's just making sure you don't lose your life in dating.

Of course you will run into women that want more than to see you once or twice a week, and when this happens they move on. Where guys have a hard time with this is that they TRY to figure out ways to keep women around that want things different than they do.... this is when it becomes work. Dating should be fun, when it isn't fun anymore why would anyone do this?

 

[nikkisixx]

13 is not an unlucky number-- they dont cheat and they tell you to.

 

[SuckItUp]

The problem here is that spinning plates is a result of taking care of yourself socially, which comes with the implied contract of taking care of your ****.

Spinning plates is about networking with women/ social groups when you are out and about so that you are meeting lots of people and avoiding the trap of oneitis where you can lose sight of your health, financial health and social health.

The key is to do you and if a woman comes into your sphere connect with her, but don't then fall prey to worrying about what she is doing but rather expand your sphere by going to new places and meeting new woman so that when the weekend rolls around you have the option to get together with the connection you've made or even enlist them to help you.

Hot pivots are like gold.