"Spinning Plates" what's the actual definition of it.

[9Volt]

Do you define "spinning plates" simply as approaching as many chicks as you can regardless if they all shot you down?

Or is it getting numbers only? Talking to different chicks only?

Or actually getting sex and having repeat customers?

Seems the "spinning plates" means "whatever you want it to mean".

 

[foreverAFC]

i was under the impression that it meant dating multiple girls at once so that you dont get too hung up on one particular one

 

[El Payaso]

Having a rotation of different women to have sex with.

 

[9Volt]

i was under the impression that it meant dating multiple girls at once so that you dont get too hung up on one particular one

Some may date multiple chicks but I thought most DJ's who "spin plates" aren't dating but seeing multiple chicks instead or just hitting and quitting.

"spinning plates" could mean anything. It's like a generic throw away term. For one dude it might mean dating multiple chicks, another seeing multiple chicks, another just getting numbers or simply approaching multiple chicks. If a dude is simply approaching multiple chicks then I wouldn't consider that "spinning plates" but just approaching as he's doing nothing but approaching.

Seeing multiple chicks the dude might not be getting sex from all of them. If his goal is sex. Then he's not really "spinning plates" unless he's banging all of them if that's his definition.

Dating multiple chicks could be "spinning plates" but then again it could also depend on if the dude is spending money on each of them or just one.

Or some dude could be going to hookers and paying for sex and count that as his version of "spinning plates" and to others he's not spinning plates at all but just soliciting escorts.

IMO "spinning plates" could mean anything as every dudes definition of it will vary.

 

[9Volt]

Having a rotation of different women to have sex with.

Which would be my definition of "spinning plates" (for as long as they last). There's never as far as I know been a timeline for how long one should spin plates, how long the chicks last with the dude till they drop off to count as a plate or if he should spend his life looking for a certain number of chicks that will have sex with him for a specific time period.

Is it just having ONS with multiple chicks for a certain amount of time? Or keeping a certain number of chicks to have continuous sex for a certain amount of time while always looking for new chicks to add?

And if so how does one even have a life or improve themselves for themselves by spending X amount of time chasing X amount of women to have sex with them for X amount of years etc?

 

[zekko]

You're right that people have different definitions. I've seen some guys here say that a hobby could be a plate, because it takes your attention away from a girl. Some say a plate is a girl whom you could ask out as an option, even if you've never actually even talked to her yet. I don't agree with those definitions.

To me, spinning plates means seeing multiple women that you have either slept with, or have the intent to sleep with. Or have romantic intent toward, for the more chaste. How long you keep them around doesn't enter into it.

 

[El Payaso]

Which would be my definition of "spinning plates" (for as long as they last). There's never as far as I know been a timeline for how long one should spin plates, how long the chicks last with the dude till they drop off to count as a plate or if he should spend his life looking for a certain number of chicks that will have sex with him for a specific time period.

Is it just having ONS with multiple chicks for a certain amount of time? Or keeping a certain number of chicks to have continuous sex for a certain amount of time while always looking for new chicks to add?

And if so how does one even have a life or improve themselves for themselves by spending X amount of time chasing X amount of women to have sex with them for X amount of years etc?

It can be ONS or continuous sex.

Timeline would be until she starts wanting something more serious and starts pushing for exclusivity (unless that's what you want) or her behavior changes or you/her get bored of each other or it stops being fun. The timeline isn't set in stone.

You can have a life and still have multiple women. The two are not mutually exclusive.

 

[9Volt]

It can be ONS or continuous sex.

Timeline would be until she starts wanting something more serious and starts pushing for exclusivity (unless that's what you want) or her behavior changes or you/her get bored of each other or it stops being fun. The timeline isn't set in stone.

You can have a life and still have multiple women. The two are not mutually exclusive.

Spinning plates can effect your life if that's all you do. It's like hanging out with as many friends as you can all the time or as much as you can because the one friend you like most isn't working out. There's dudes that aren't doing much in life but hanging out with friends, trying to make new ones continuously to hang out with because they have nothing else going on. You either spin plates and go all out for it or you have other things to do besides trying to juggle chicks continuously. If your life revolves around trying to constantly find new chicks to have in a rotation to sleep with you're not improving your life. You're just trying to validate yourself off others.

Family, friends, work, school, hobbies, sports, going out, vacations etc. would have to take a lower priority if you're told "spin plates" as in constantly be trying to get new chicks to have sex with or keep having sex with visit them, they visit you. You're doing nothing more than replacing spending time doing productive shyt replacing it with trying to spend time having sex with as many chicks as you can continuously.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

I make a distinction with 'spinning plates light'. This is where you just have the women on the radar, and showing romantic interest. You are not sleeping with them all, rather looking for one to gravitate into a relationship. 'Spinning plates heavy' seems to me like a hell of a lot of work and effort. In my opinion, women, in the generic sense, are simply not worth the time and effort you would have to put into that.

 

[9Volt]

I make a distinction with 'spinning plates light'. This is where you just have the women on the radar, and showing romantic interest. You are not sleeping with them all, rather looking for one to gravitate into a relationship. 'Spinning plates heavy' seems to me like a hell of a lot of work and effort. In my opinion, women, in the generic sense, are simply not worth the time and effort you would have to put into that.

Seriously.

I was positive "spinning plates" meant try to get as many chicks on a constant rotation to have sex with you as if you have nothing else going on in life. Might as well be a "PUA" spending your life going to bars, clubs, day approaching, and using OLD while claiming you're "improving" your life for "you". (And there's AMPLE evidence that PUA's aren't improving squat in their "lives". As if just using words is going to get the chicks you specifically find to your standards will mean you are up to theirs to just go back to your place constantly to have sex. You have to be tops in looks, physique etc which would mean you spend a good amount of time at the gym, work hard to make good money to get nice things, groom etc. all while putting family, friends, hobbies, sports etc as lower priority because you're too busy trying to get chicks in a constant rotation.

Then talk about how you're "improving" your life for you.

And let the cartoon network tell it they're accomplishing everything. Chicks just line up continuously at their door to have sex. You never go out except to pick up new ones, never travel to their place, never take them out, you just sit at home having chicks come over for sex and these of course are all 9's and quality at that.

Telling some dude to "spin plates" might as well tell him to be a try hard thirst bucket because he and the dude telling him to never actually had chicks come up to them, and act as if getting sex is their ultimate goal in life because something is lacking besides sex itself in their life.

 

[El Payaso]

Spinning plates can effect your life if that's all you do.

Exactly. If that's all you do.

Like I said, you can spin plates and still have other things going on in your life. They're not as mutually exclusive as you're making it out to be. When you're doing it right, it simply gels into your lifestyle.

 

[9Volt]

Exactly. If that's all you do.

Like I said, you can spin plates and still have other things going on in your life. They're not as mutually exclusive as you're making it out to be. When you're doing it right, it simply gels into your lifestyle.

So how does one do it right while maintaining a lifestyle?

 

[Roober]

To me, it is having multiple women you are having sex with. I have come through realize, I don't really have time for more than 1 or 2 without sacrificing time to do things I want/need to do. Even making the effort to get plates takes time I don't really have nor am really wanting to spend. Spinning plates is really about vetting for quality women. You let some fall and put a new one in its place. Since you are not committed, you can essentially see as many women as you would like. A new one comes in, you can swap it out with a current one.

 

[9Volt]

To me, it is having multiple women you are having sex with. I have come through realize, I don't really have time for more than 1 or 2 without sacrificing time to do things I want/need to do. Even making the effort to get plates takes time I don't really have nor am really wanting to spend. Spinning plates is really about vetting for quality women. You let some fall and put a new one in its place. Since you are not committed, you can essentially see as many women as you would like. A new one comes in, you can swap it out with a current one.

Exactly. Unless you have nothing else going on in your life but spending the majority of it trying to lasso and corral chicks. It's like with friends. If you have a lot who the hell has time to entertain them all constantly? People move on with their lives. This "spinning plates" gets thrown around as if you have a constant supply of chicks that stay or are looking for a constant supply while supposedly maintaining a busy life for yourself.

Sounds like PUA dreams for dudes with nothing much else going on but trying to fill a void in their life through chicks. Yea you can meet chicks, get ONS etc but trying to keep some "harem" for X amount of time and say you have a "busy life"? FOH

Who has time to travel to this one in that location, that one over there, text this and that one, have them over, make them leave, find new chicks etc. These dudes got families and friends? Hobbies? Jobs? Gym? Sports? If you got nothing else to do but chase chicks, try to entertain them all etc you ain't doing much else in your life and your priorities are severely screwed up.

Between working a full time job, family, friends, hobbies, going out, vacations, gym, sports, going to the store etc. nobody with a life has time to run around wasting gas, effort on chicks trying to pick them up, keep them, BS through text on the phone, hang out with them etc. unless you again don't have much else going on.

 

[SkrooU]

To me It's about ensuring you have options so that you can be picky and not settle for the wrong person. Eventually one comes along that makes me not want to bother with anyone else. But it's this point where I get extra critical because I know I'm in danger of becoming the frog in a pot of water slowly being brought to boil.

 

[El Payaso]

So how does one do it right while maintaining a lifestyle?

The same way people multi date.

 

[9Volt]

The same way people multi date.

There's only so much you can multi date before you areally spending more time validating yourself off others than actually improving your life.

if you're a teen who prefers to spend more time with chicks than do well in school and or work and don't have much responsibility they could spin plates if they're able to continually get chicks.

or if you become some "pua" that lives his life in clubs. etc.

the majority of people with lives, friends, family, relatives, places to go, work, bills, gym, sports etc don't have time to run after and maintain multiple chicks. they might do it for a while but that shyt gets old.

 

[El Payaso]

There's only so much you can multi date before you areally spending more time validating yourself off others than actually improving your life.

if you're a teen who prefers to spend more time with chicks than do well in school and or work and don't have much responsibility they could spin plates if they're able to continually get chicks.

or if you become some "pua" that lives his life in clubs. etc.

the majority of people with lives, friends, family, relatives, places to go, work, bills, gym, sports etc don't have time to run after and maintain multiple chicks. they might do it for a while but that shyt gets old.

Okay. It's not for you then. That's cool.

 

[9Volt]

Okay. It's not for you then. That's cool.

When you're actually busy in life with multiple things to do you don't have much time to spin plates. But for dudes to be chasing plates constantly while claiming to be improving their lives in all aspects is a pant load.

 

[SkrooU]

When you're actually busy in life with multiple things to do you don't have much time to spin plates. But for dudes to be chasing plates constantly while claiming to be improving their lives in all aspects is a pant load.

It's easier to do when the women have their own lives, careers, money, hobbies, etc. At my age, women only have time to meet up 1-2 times per week. This works perfect for me because I'll get sick of someone if I see them more than that. I like my space to do my own thing. Working out is a priority of mine. I remember one relationship that lasted almost a year a while back. I was in the best shape of my life, lookin better than ever. Then halfway through I just stopped working out. Just months later I looked and felt like crap lol. Never again will I let that happen.

I don't know how old you are. I'm guesing you're young. If you're focused on improving yourself much more than you are interested in women, then you are on the right track. Women can be a dream killer to a man in his 20s.