Why even bother with a long relationship?

[btownbuck2012]

OP,

I give you props man. It's refreshing to see someone thinking in terms of honor and integrity as opposed to just getting his.

Regardless of how easily led astray women are, those who cheat on their boyfriends are *****s. period. Low character, skanky trash.

On top of that you never know if the guy she's dating is the type to, gee I don't know, murder someone over this kind of thing? There's literally a new news story daily about some guy losing his sh*t and killing his ex gf and the guy she banged on the side without him knowing.

Tons of single women out there to pursue. You don't need the drama that this ***** will surely bring into your life if you keep involvement with her.

 

[Juanto]

Tons of single women out there to pursue. You don't need the drama that this ***** will surely bring into your life if you keep involvement with her.

In a nutshell, this is it.

 

[Juanto]

Only that isn't it. Because he didn't choose to abstain for that reason.

He made that decision, because he is letting other people's weakness dictate his behaviour.

I meant it is, for me. For him, maybe he had other motivations as you said.

 

[logicallefty]

Kind of stupid to deny yourself pleasure to protect some dude you don't even know.

Her BF could be cheating on her too for all you know. None of your business really. Your business is your penis and your time. Why are you worried about some other dude's penis and time?

I know I sound like a d*ck, but its not my job our yours to be the relationship police for some hoe.

Where I come from we call this having empathy.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Are you sure she has a boyfriend and its not just a lame excuse for her to follow some kind of fvcked up plan?
Sometime I tell girls I have a gf too mostly when I want nothing to do with them than just sex.

 

[Urbanyst]

Where I come from we call this having empathy.

So what do you get out of that? Less sex? Being able to call yourself a good person?

Sounds awesome.

 

[Urbanyst]

This really isn't true. Women are easily led astray and men historically did not try to seduce other men's wives. It's one of the ten commandments.

Incorrect.

We are not talking about wives. No one is married here. Therefore, no one is anyone else's property.

 

[bigneil]

Incorrect.

We are not talking about wives. No one is married here. Therefore, no one is anyone else's property.

It's the same thing. If you respect the other man you won't hit on his girl. If you don't respect him you might try to steal her away.

 

[Urbanyst]

It's the same thing. If you respect the other man you won't hit on his girl. If you don't respect him you might try to steal her away.

No man. You cannot "steal" a human being. People have free will and people are not property.

If your girl wants to suck on my nuts that's on her, not me.

Dudes who want to fight other dudes over some slut need to do some soul searching. Yeah, if your girl is cheating she is a slut and you are a loser if you want to stay with a slut.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

People that do not, or can not, 'deny themselves pleasure' are often addicts of some sort, whether a sexual addict or a drug addict. It is a very positive quality to deny yourself, or abstain, from indulging yourself in indiscriminate pleasure. It is what builds character, and what enables us to pursue worthy goals.

 

[bigneil]

No man. You cannot "steal" a human being. People have free will and people are not property.

If your girl wants to suck on my nuts that's on her, not me.

Dudes who want to fight other dudes over some slut need to do some soul searching. Yeah, if your girl is cheating she is a slut and you are a loser if you want to stay with a slut.

So you go around making girls sluts and making their guys losers and call that success? You reap what you sow. See Instant Karma.

Just like with paying for dinner, beating up another man is a function of how easy it is for you. People who have a hard time earning money or displaying power will try to dismiss the importance of being wealthy and strong, but the two most important things a man can be are a good earner and a good fighter.

 

[devilkingx2]

So what do you get out of that? Less sex? Being able to call yourself a good person?

Sounds awesome.

society as a whole would ****ing crumble and we'd be spearmen in mud huts if everyone's only concern was direct personal gain regardless of expense to others.

 

[logicallefty]

So what do you get out of that? Less sex? Being able to call yourself a good person?

Sounds awesome.

Easy not to get so tuned into one woman when you have multiple options.

 

[Red Legg]

I have been in an ltr with a single mom for the past three months.She is a hot blue eyed blond owns her own home and is a professional,and younger than me.I have not been in an ltr for years and usually am happy just spinning plates like I have been doing for decades.But there are exceptions, She drives hours to see me and is an awesome cook.She pays for almost all of the dates.At this point it would be stupid to spin plates as all of my needs are being met including on demand hot sex.I don't know how you determine "long term" but three months is long term for me.

 

[bigneil]

I've been dating a girl for 5 months now. The sex has gotten more and more intense - way more than I ever imagined it could. I'm excited to see how intense things can get. There is something to be said for staying with one girl for a while.

 

[Roober]

Sometimes it is about being comfortable. With new chicks, you never know what to expect when trying new things (sexually or nonsexually). With an LTR, you have the comfort of knowing if you want to do something, she is likely along for the ride. It is that mutual understanding of each other's wants and needs. If your a good match, LTRs are easy. No good relationships require work.

For example, going to the movies... Some people talk a lot or laugh way to loud, or anything else annoying. In an LTR, you are used to her antics and accept them. Or she knows what you like, and will stay quiet or not laugh too loud. She may even leave to go get the popcorn, and red vines while you stay and watch...

Another example is watching a sunset/sunrise or standing in the rain or taking a hike... watching alone is okay and relaxing. Watching it with a meaningless plate doesn't carry any weight. For two people who care about each other, it is just a different experience. Not really sure how to explain it. It would be like me trying to explain the joys of parenthood to someone without kids.

 

[Urbanyst]

Easy not to get so tuned into one woman when you have multiple options.

That's a topic switch.

What we are talking about is if a woman is into you and wants to sex you up and you turn her down because you are worried about her bozo BF. What I'm saying is if she is ready to cheat it means her BF either cheated already or she doesn't respect him. Neither of these things are my problem or your problem. Hope I'm making sense.

 

[Urbanyst]

society as a whole would ****ing crumble and we'd be spearmen in mud huts if everyone's only concern was direct personal gain regardless of expense to others.

We are talking about having sex with hot women dude. Society isn't going to fall apart because some slut sucks my balls.

 

[Urbanyst]

So you go around making girls sluts and making their guys losers and call that success? You reap what you sow. See Instant Karma.

Just like with paying for dinner, beating up another man is a function of how easy it is for you. People who have a hard time earning money or displaying power will try to dismiss the importance of being wealthy and strong, but the two most important things a man can be are a good earner and a good fighter.

No dude. I have nothing to do with a man being a loser and his cheating hoe GF being a slut.

Those people's relationships have nothing to do with me. The karma is on the girl for being a cheating slut.

 

[bigneil]

The karma is on the girl for being a cheating slut.

One way karma?? You're a hypocrite. What goes around comes around.