You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
LMAO!!!I'd tell her I voted for Hillary, and even donated 10K to her campaign, then I'd rail her and sneak on a big red "Make America Great Again" hat on right while I nutted.
lmao. I mean if you actually voted for Hillary.I'd tell her I voted for Hillary, and even donated 10K to her campaign, then I'd rail her and sneak on a big red "Make America Great Again" hat on right while I nutted.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
None of the chicks I've banged voted for Trump, but it's not on you to bring it up. Avoid politics until you know she's in the same camp as you.If you knew some chick smoking hot, cool, voted for Hillary would you admit you did too? Possibly to share even more common ground?
Rhetorical question. I voted for Trump. But not for nothing if some chick voted Hillary I'm telling her I voted Trump. Don't care if she's a 10+ if she didn't like it she can keep it moving. I wouldn't really care who she voted for unless she winds up being a rabid liberal lunatic. Nor should she care who I voted for. If she did and it caused an issue? We just go our separate ways.None of the chicks I've banged voted for Trump, but it's not on you to bring it up. Avoid politics until you know she's in the same camp as you.
Only 41% of women voted for Trump, the majority of them being over 45. This is a pickup forum about maximizing your closes. There is no advantage on a date to volunteering that you voted for Trump.But not for nothing if some chick voted Hillary I'm telling her I voted Trump. Don't care if she's a 10+ if she didn't like it she can keep it moving.
Contradictory statement.I wouldn't really care who she voted for unless she winds up being a rabid liberal lunatic.
That's why it should not be a topic the man should bring up, ever.Nor should she care who I voted for. If she did and it caused an issue? We just go our separate ways.
Point being I ain't pandering to some chick. If the topic comes up she has her choice, I have mine. We can agree to disagree. If not. We go our own ways. You can "maximize" your pandering to hopefully get some. Others such as myself can take them or leave them knowing there's many more chicks out there.Only 41% of women voted for Trump, the majority of them being over 45. This is a pickup forum about maximizing your closes. There is no advantage on a date to volunteering that you voted for Trump.
Contradictory statement.
That's why it should not be a topic the man should bring up, ever.
There is no "hopefully getting some" with me. I close deals because I know what the hell I'm doing. Stay off politics and religion.Point being I ain't pandering to some chick. If the topic comes up she has her choice, I have mine. We can agree to disagree. If not. We go our own ways. You can "maximize" your pandering to hopefully get some. Others such as myself can take them or leave them knowing there's many more chicks out there.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Lol. okThere is no "hopefully getting some" with me. I close deals because I know what the hell I'm doing. Stay off politics and religion.
it's called the trump is it?I'd tell her I voted for Hillary, and even donated 10K to her campaign, then I'd rail her and sneak on a big red "Make America Great Again" hat on right while I nutted.
Yes but a lot of you seem scared af to not do anything that might "rock the boat" of getting some p.since I'm not a complete moron I'd dodge serious topics like politics, religion, etc. and anything either of us are passionate about (passionate enough to argue I mean)
you don't get pvssy by being a yes man, nor do you get pvssy by sh!tting on her long held dumb ass beliefs with logic.
she doesn't need to find out how much you hate communists if she's got a hammer and sickle tattoo, but that sure as hell doesn't mean you should read che guavara's biography to impress her
Your ego is costing you lays. Carry on.Lol. ok
You dance to the tune of vagina. I do what I want regardless. Big difference.
You're missing the point. You're not much of a salesman. If someone walks into the dealership ready to buy one of the **** models from you with recalls, do you tell them or just keep your mouth shut and get the sale? It's common sense.Yes but a lot of you seem scared af to not do anything that might "rock the boat" of getting some p.
the dude that doesn't put puss on a pedestal will state his own opinion on topics if they come up while a pandering chump will head nod in agreement with her or stay quiet.
a lot of chicks dig when you have your own opinion and can sense when a dude is just a yes man hoping to gain puss points
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
that's precisely it, don't fvck it up. you don't have to be a yes man to know not to tell your hard liberal art major date about how much you support trump and hate immigrants.Yes but a lot of you seem scared af to not do anything that might "rock the boat" of getting some p.
i uh, I just said that:while a pandering chump will head nod in agreement with her or stay quiet.
a lot of chicks dig when you have your own opinion and can sense when a dude is just a yes man hoping to gain puss points
you don't get pvssy by being a yes man
but that sure as hell doesn't mean you should read che guavara's biography to impress her
As if just agreeing with chicks = getting laid.Your ego is costing you lays. Carry on.
You're missing the point. You're not much of a salesman. If someone walks into the dealership ready to buy one of the **** models from you with recalls, do you tell them or just keep your mouth shut and get the sale? It's common sense.
Keeping your mouth shut is not agreeing. It's keeping your mouth shut.As if just agreeing with chicks = getting laid.
Nor is expressing your own opinion to some chick regardless if she's a "9".Keeping your mouth shut is not agreeing. It's keeping your mouth shut.
You just don't get it. Your opinion does not matter. Women don't care about your opinion until they actually care about you.Nor is expressing your own opinion to some chick regardless if she's a "9".
I'm not talking about going off on some chick or getting into a political etc. argument. Simply being a man enough to express your own opinions and viewpoints whether or not the both of you agree wholeheartedly on every topic.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.