Should valentine's day just be called women's day?

[Tenacity]

Taking life seriously is how you get far in life.

Sir, I don't need you to preach how to "succeed in life" to me lol.

You want to see what it looks like when you don't take life seriously? Come to my city and I will show you all the homeless people on the street who thought life was one big joke.

The women are fvcked up sir. The market has changed. The unicorn/high quality woman is a DYING BREED, she's been replaced by the strong, independent, feminist, "I don't need a man for shyt" woman who only sees you as some sort of APPLIANCE she can "use".

- 1 guy is her thug sick em dog appliance

- 1 guy is her "gimme the ring/gimme the wedding day" appliance

- 1 guy is her "he makes me laugh so hard" appliance

- 1 guy is her "he pays my bills" appliance

- 1 guy is her "his dyck is so good" appliance

The women are fvcked, either adapt or remain frustrated sir. Either become one of her appliances or go MGTOW by sitting on the sidelines....jacking off...talking about how you have "gone your own way" but yet you sit on the internet discussing women all day.

 

[Urbanyst]

The women are fvcked up sir. The market has changed. The unicorn/high quality woman is a DYING BREED, she's been replaced by the strong, independent, feminist, "I don't need a man for shyt" woman who only sees you as some sort of APPLIANCE she can "use".

- 1 guy is her thug sick em dog appliance

- 1 guy is her "gimme the ring/gimme the wedding day" appliance

- 1 guy is her "he makes me laugh so hard" appliance

- 1 guy is her "he pays my bills" appliance

- 1 guy is her "his dyck is so good" appliance

The women are fvcked, either adapt or remain frustrated sir. Either become one of her appliances or go MGTOW by sitting on the sidelines....jacking off...talking about how you have "gone your own way" but yet you sit on the internet discussing women all day.

You are the frustrated one.

I'm not dumb enough to believe in unicorns. Another thing about me is I'm not desperate.

 

[Tenacity]

You are the frustrated one.

I'm not dumb enough to believe in unicorns. Another thing about me is I'm not desperate.

Then what's your solution to the madness?

 

[Urbanyst]

When I was in the military I took the nexting approach too because most chicks were insecure attention wh0res who thought they were all that just because of all the validation they got on base. After nexting literally every chick, I realized a grim reality. I was either going to have to be celibate and lonely, or play the status game, become popular, have attention wh0res seek my validation, and then game them for sex. This was the beginning of my game.

Now that I am in the real world, nothing has changed. It's the same game, but on a macro, city wide level, and not a small community like a military base. You simply find what can validate women, offer it, and have women chasing after you. Either that, or keep nexting until oblivion. The product of the American woman is not all that high quality. You either tolerate them, go celibate, or move out of the country to greener pastures. Don't know what else to tell you guys.

Sure.

Doesn't mean you throw all your standards out the window and become a desperate tool.

There is a grey area here.

 

[resilient]

Just a few more days until V-day is behind us. . .

 

[Urbanyst]

Then what's your solution to the madness?

Same approach you take with friends and all other things in life. You decide where you will draw the line on tolerating crap.

Everything line life has its upside and its down side. You have to have a breaking point. Think about your job. You might make good money and enjoy the work, but there is still stress to deal with. You will have a limit to how much sh*t you will take before you quit.

Women are no different. You know they will give you some level of stress. But you have to decide where to draw the line based on the value that woman brings. Personally, a lot of women these days don't bring much value. That is why I've had 12 girlfriends and none lasted longer than a year.

I'm not against settling down one day, but I need to feel like the value a woman brings is worth the level of crap I have to tolerate. So far no luck. You are telling me to tolerate more crap so that I can make these relationships last longer? I don't see the point of doing that if the woman makes me miserable.

 

[Urbanyst]

That grey area is game. Sooner or later you're gonna have to play the game.

Dude.. you're talking to me as if I have no experience.

I've had 12 LTR's and slept with over 60 women.

 

[l_e_g_e_n_d]

When I was in the military I took the nexting approach too because most chicks were insecure attention wh0res who thought they were all that just because of all the validation they got on base. After nexting literally every chick, I realized a grim reality. I was either going to have to be celibate and lonely, or play the status game, become popular, have attention wh0res seek my validation, and then game them for sex. This was the beginning of my game.

Now that I am in the real world, nothing has changed. It's the same game, but on a macro, city wide level, and not a small community like a military base. You simply find what can validate women, offer it, and have women chasing after you. Either that, or keep nexting until oblivion. The product of the American woman is not all that high quality. You either tolerate them, go celibate, or move out of the country to greener pastures. Don't know what else to tell you guys.

If you are NEXTing women based on incompatibility and netting zero, this is an indication you need to improve.

Men of high value select a/k/a pick and choose.

Men who are valueless must succumb to ALL.

 

[l_e_g_e_n_d]

I was responding to the following:

You simply find what can validate women, offer it, and have women chasing after you. Either that, or keep nexting until oblivion.

Do both.

 

[The Duke]

I've had 12 LTR's and slept with over 60 women.

So fast forward 10-15yrs. What motivates you to keep chasing new women after the thrill of hunting new pu$$y is no longer there? What happens when you have "been there, got the trophy"? Eventually every hunter/warrior grows tired after many successful hunts/missions.

And Urbanyst, you and Tenacity are kind of talking about the same thing just coming from different angles. Come back in a few days and reread it and you may see. No need to bicker like a bunch of women, you guys both have valid points.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

When I was in the military I took the nexting approach too because most chicks were insecure attention wh0res who thought they were all that just because of all the validation they got on base. After nexting literally every chick, I realized a grim reality. I was either going to have to be celibate and lonely, or play the status game, become popular, have attention wh0res seek my validation, and then game them for sex. This was the beginning of my game.

Now that I am in the real world, nothing has changed. It's the same game, but on a macro, city wide level, and not a small community like a military base. You simply find what can validate women, offer it, and have women chasing after you. Either that, or keep nexting until oblivion. The product of the American woman is not all that high quality. You either tolerate them, go celibate, or move out of the country to greener pastures. Don't know what else to tell you guys.

Dude. Your RIGHT. And that "popular" and "in the game" vibe will be more attractive even if you are a bf or husband. And you HAVE to have that to be consistently successful with "hot girls". They are ALL like those army girls on the base where there is a 5 or 10 to 1 ratio. That's how they operate, out of a position of ABUNDANCE. Just like a DJ.

 

[Tenacity]

Same approach you take with friends and all other things in life. You decide where you will draw the line on tolerating crap.

Okay and I just said.....EVERY woman is going to throw crap your way.....so either you learn to tolerate "some levels of crap" or you go MGTOW, which to go MGTOW today means you sit on the sidelines bytching about women all day on Forums without having actually "gone" your own way.

Everything line life has its upside and its down side. You have to have a breaking point. Think about your job. You might make good money and enjoy the work, but there is still stress to deal with. You will have a limit to how much sh*t you will take before you quit.

Right, but every job is stressful and every job has BULLSHYT that you have to take. What you Manosphere guys preach is to not tolerate ANY bullshyt, that's where I come in with my disagreement because every woman is fvcked up and every woman is going to give you bullshyt.

I'm not against settling down one day, but I need to feel like the value a woman brings is worth the level of crap I have to tolerate. So far no luck.

EXACTLY......keep trying to find your unicorn sir, she doesn't exist.

You are telling me to tolerate more crap so that I can make these relationships last longer? I don't see the point of doing that if the woman makes me miserable.

I'm telling you to either continue to NEXT every chick to try to find the unicorn that doesn't exist....or try to find a way to "fit in/handle" the chicks that are actually ON the market.

 

[Urbanyst]

My bad. You just come across as a bit of an idealist. Either that or you live in a city where 80% of women aren't insecure attention wh0ring sluts. The older I get the more I am able to accept that
most relationships are "I'll trade you this for that." Sex for validation, validation for validation, sex for resources, resources for validation, etc.

No doubt. That is totally true.

I'm just saying a lot of men want a relationship so bad they tolerate anything. That's not a healthy or smart way to live.

I'm ok with women being a little f*cked up. I'm a pretty low maintenance guy anyway and I don't need a whole lot. My relationships always end because women change up and start pushing or forcing me to give them more without upping their value to me. I don't believe in working harder and harder if I'm not getting anything extra.

I'm open to settling down one day, but not if the price is too high. I can stay single too.

 

[Urbanyst]

Okay and I just said.....EVERY woman is going to throw crap your way.....so either you learn to tolerate "some levels of crap" or you go MGTOW, which to go MGTOW today means you sit on the sidelines bytching about women all day on Forums without having actually "gone" your own way.



Right, but every job is stressful and every job has BULLSHYT that you have to take. What you Manosphere guys preach is to not tolerate ANY bullshyt, that's where I come in with my disagreement because every woman is fvcked up and every woman is going to give you bullshyt.



EXACTLY......keep trying to find your unicorn sir, she doesn't exist.



I'm telling you to either continue to NEXT every chick to try to find the unicorn that doesn't exist....or try to find a way to "fit in/handle" the chicks that are actually ON the market.

Dude... I really don't give a sh*t.

I respect myself and I'm not desperate. If the only way to have relationship is to be with a toxic woman, then I don't know what the appeal is.

I'm ok to just be casual and sleep around. Its not a big deal.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You got it my man. You actually said it better than I could have.

You just helped me! I was being stubborn in looking at my "worth" and "value", but it's just not how they do it. I need to get in the game, love it, appreciate it!

They go by their feelings and all the things you mentioned. If you are good on base, you'll be a beast off of base... Never thought of it that way. I used to hate the monkey shines that these over inflated girls on base where able to have these guys doing...

 

[Tenacity]

I respect myself and I'm not desperate.

I completely understand........

If the only way to have relationship is to be with a toxic woman, then I don't know what the appeal is.

Lol, now we are getting somewhere! There is no APPEAL, other than sex and companionship lol! That's why I told you earlier to not take women seriously anymore. There's no "deep connection", there's no soulmate, there's no unicorn, there's no high quality woman............they are ALL toxic in some form or another.

Just enjoy the sex, enjoy the companionship and enjoy the good times UNTIL that bytch starts to get too unbearable, then you filter her out for the next chick...then when she gets too unbearable...filter her out...and rinse, wash, repeat. DO NOT do any marriage, children creation, and don't move them into your place. Keep them as "friends", that's either Friends with Benefits, Girlfriends, or Dating/Talking To Stage.

That's the TRUTH lol.

 

[Urbanyst]

So fast forward 10-15yrs. What motivates you to keep chasing new women after the thrill of hunting new pu$$y is no longer there? What happens when you have "been there, got the trophy"? Eventually every hunter/warrior grows tired after many successful hunts/missions.

I'll cross that bridge when I get there I guess.

I'm not too worried about it. I'm going well financially and have a lot of attractive women to choose from. There are bigger problems in the world to worry about than making bad relationships with sh*tty women work out long term.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I completely understand........



Lol, now we are getting somewhere! There is no APPEAL, other than sex and companionship lol! That's why I told you earlier to not take women seriously anymore. There's no "deep connection", there's no soulmate, there's no unicorn, there's no high quality woman............they are ALL toxic in some form or another.

Just enjoy the sex, enjoy the companionship and enjoy the good times UNTIL that bytch starts to get too unbearable, then you filter her out for the next chick...then when she gets too unbearable...filter her out...and rinse, wash, repeat. DO NOT do any marriage, children creation, and don't move them into your place. Keep them as "friends", that's either Friends with Benefits, Girlfriends, or Dating/Talking To Stage.

That's the TRUTH lol.

What about you run into that DEEP version of you in a female? Did all the monkey shines, WANTS a connection, WANTS to do right by you, WANTS to cater to her man... They exist.

 

[Urbanyst]

I completely understand........



Lol, now we are getting somewhere! There is no APPEAL, other than sex and companionship lol! That's why I told you earlier to not take women seriously anymore. There's no "deep connection", there's no soulmate, there's no unicorn, there's no high quality woman............they are ALL toxic in some form or another.

Just enjoy the sex, enjoy the companionship and enjoy the good times UNTIL that bytch starts to get too unbearable, then you filter her out for the next chick...then when she gets too unbearable...filter her out...and rinse, wash, repeat. DO NOT do any marriage, children creation, and don't move them into your place. Keep them as "friends", that's either Friends with Benefits, Girlfriends, or Dating/Talking To Stage.

That's the TRUTH lol.

I see what you mean. Sounds like you're MGTOW though. Are you?

Seems we were talking about the same thing. I take the same approach. I date women until they get too ridiculous to tolerate.

 

[Tenacity]

What about you run into that DEEP version of you in a female? Did all the monkey shines, WANTS a connection, WANTS to do right by you, WANTS to cater to her man... They exist.

Where do they exist at lol? Tell me the place bro and I'll book a fly out there lol.

I see what you mean. Sounds like you're MGTOW though. Are you?

Seems we were talking about the same thing. I take the same approach. I date women until they get too ridiculous to tolerate.

I'm a guy who KNOWS the Red Pill, but isn't MGTOW.

- MGTOW means you opt out of the game. You sit on the sidelines and fvck escorts or jack off for the rest of your life. At least that's the way it's supposed to be, like I said, you see many MGTOW that still sit around discussing women all day when they supposedly have "gone their own way".

- I'm what you would call, probably, a Player. I don't spit out stupid "player lines" or anything, but I'm basically in full awareness of how fvcked up women are and I'm literally just "going through the motion" because that's the only way to get access to their SEX and companionship which are the ONLY TWO remaining benefits that this market of women have left.

- The high quality woman is dead. That model is dead. Once feminism was created in the 1970's, ALL American women upgraded to that shyt, black women, white women, asian women, latino women, etc.

- If you find a high quality, traditional, unicorn woman out in the market TODAY....I honestly wouldn't "trust" that she will remain that way going forward. I would see her as a piece of technology within an industry experiencing HIGH amounts of obsolescence. In other words, I would LEASE her a.ss just like I'm leasing the other chicks!