When a woman wants your validation, that's really when the game starts. You have to learn how to reward her for good behavior and withdraw your attention for bad behavior. You also need to learn how to use a woman's need for your validation against her, by flirting with other women and creating jealousy plotlines.
I would even say 80% of the time when you get ioi's, women just want your validation. You might think it's actual high interest. But there is a reason why guys are jaded.
20% of the time, women want actually hook up with you. That's just reality.
My point is valentine's day is not national hook up day. It is national women's validation day.
It might as well just be renamed to validation day. It sounds almost the same anyway!
If you are smart, you can exploit this. Of course, it doesn't mean going to a sausage fest.
I actually pulled an hb9 from online dating. And another from the streets. But of course, I am an actual experienced seducer, so I am not one of those guys who think night game is the only game in town.
In fact, night game is ridiculous no matter what holiday it is. Night game for the most part is valentine's day on steroids.
Infinite validation with 0% effort for women. That's most night clubs. Some may vary.
Whenever I talk about game, guys think I am only talking about whatever comes out of your mouth. That is like 5% of game. The entire spectrum of game includes knowing where to find desperate women. Knowing how to turn the odds in your favor. And knowing how to use women's need for validation against them. You might even call it "frame game."
An example of full spectrum game would be me going to a yoga studio on a friday night where I am surrounded by women. Most guys go to clubs. I go to social tribes where the women heavily outnumber men. In this reality, the game dynamics reverse itself and suddenly, women are trying to seduce me! I can also go to the bar and get rejected by every woman. I'm still the same guy. The thing that changed was supply and demand.
I've been in social tribes where the women heavily outfavor men and have gotten treated like a king. You would think it's all high interest, but it's not. Only to the untrained eye is every ioi the same.
Even in an extremely favorable situation, 80% of women giving me ioi's only want validation. And maybe 20% are genuinley interested. And then there are women who want my validation and don't even know it! They think they actually like me until they discover there is no connection after sex! Not every woman who wants your validation is playing a game. It's not always black and white.
A lot of women don't even know the difference between validation and genuine interest. Some think the word validation has to do with parking your car.
In my experience, the only way you can become a pimp is to play the game better than the women. And the first step is to get rid of the idea inside your head where you think night game is the only place to get laid.
That's what I meant when I said "getting laid on valantines day is easy, if you know where to find them.....and exploit their need for validation."
