"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Chick Profile From POF - Look How Ridiculous This Is

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Guys, just read this chick's profile:

Edited by bradd80 to protect the OP upon request.

Now I know you guys have your different tastes, but I believe the highest Looks Tier is 7 and Higher, I don't go by 7, 8, or 9 because it honestly depends on how much a woman "fixes herself up", but I put the 7 and Higher as the top Tier.

This girl is in that Top Tier, but just READ her god damn profile and look at how ridiculous this chick is, who already (mind you), has kid(s) from another god damn man.

But Legend will say that this is somehow MY FAULT if I go out with this chick and we don't end up married, in an LTR, etc. Legend will say I didn't wear an Armani Suit and that's the cause of it.....instead of the flat out ridiculous nature of these insane pieces of shyt on this market.

This is why the fvck I'm having episodes and anger issues. All the fvck I'm looking for is a basic, decent, BYTCH....and this is the shyt we have to deal with out here. I swear I want to just Elliot Rogers a bytch sometimes, urghhhhhhhhhh. Yes, I know, doing Elliot Rogers on a bytch won't solve shyt, but it might make me FEEL BETTER while I sit in Hell!
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She's cute. Sounds like she's had a LOT of dudes lie to her about where they were in life so they could try to fvck her. It also sounds like she doesn't do a good job of screening. That's why she is probably so bitter. She's looking for the opposite of what she's called out. If you are that man, why are you not messaging her?
 

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I would say, dont invest your time on online dating. Sure, you might send out a couple of messages, but chicks like this are pointless, and on the looks department (yes I know its subjective) she is a 5 or below for me.

Anyway, not all women are THIS entitled like this silly b*tch.
 

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She's cute. Sounds like she's had a LOT of dudes lie to her about where they were in life so they could try to fvck her. It also sounds like she doesn't do a good job of screening. That's why she is probably so bitter. She's looking for the opposite of what she's called out. If you are that man, why are you not messaging her?
I messaged her and told her that she was out of her god damn mind lol.

For example, taken from her profile:

I get on average 100 messages a day. If all you have to offer is sex don't waste your time messaging me. If you aren't looking to get to know me, hang out, laugh.... DONT MESSAGE ME.
So let's add this up. She gets 100 messages PER DAY, there are 30 days in most months, so that's 3,000 messages PER MONTH.

Out of 3,000 messages per month, this bytch has not found ONE dude to:

- Commit to
- Marry/Settle Down/Be In An LTR With
- Have His Kids
- Support/Be Loyal To Him

3,000 god damn messages a month and she hasn't found this yet?? But Legend says this is all my god damn fault. I don't wear Armani Suits and I don't make $5 million per year flipping real estate in NYC, so that's why I have to deal with stupid bytches like this.

Furthermore, she doesn't want dudes messaging her about SEX but she's a "Bra Specialist" and has a seductive/sexual pic with all of her damn legs out .
 

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You think she's in the upper tier of looks? to each his own I guess.

She's cute. Sounds like she's had a LOT of dudes lie to her about where they were in life so they could try to fvck her. It also sounds like she doesn't do a good job of screening. That's why she is probably so bitter. She's looking for the opposite of what she's called out. If you are that man, why are you not messaging her?
She's never going to find the man she thinks she wants, because going along with a woman's bossing of the frame to get her approval turns her off the man. She can yap about respect and manning up all she wants, but what she's really going to respond to is still the same kind of guy that led to her becoming a single mom in the first place years ago. Those guys don't give a sh!t about what she wants, which makes her more bitter and add more filters, making her more and more turned off the guys who would actually take her sh!t seriously, and the cycle continues.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=120359910

But Legend will say that this is somehow MY FAULT if I go out with this chick
IMO, I would agree with Legend (if he did say that).
My personal opinion, I WOULDN'T TOUCH THAT WOMAN WITH A 100 FOOT POLE. Are you kidding me?
Her profile is just down right jaded and negative. You can't do better than that???

If you are a good, educated, fit and financially successful man you shouldn't be struggling with women at all.

Tenacity, have you ever considered moving to a major metropolitan city which can give you so many options
in the dating scene. It just feels like that a town in central Michigan isn't doing the trick....
 

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I messaged her and told her that she was out of her god damn mind lol.

For example, taken from her profile:



So let's add this up. She gets 100 messages PER DAY, there are 30 days in most months, so that's 3,000 messages PER MONTH.

Out of 3,000 messages per month, this bytch has not found ONE dude to:

- Commit to
- Marry/Settle Down/Be In An LTR With
- Have His Kids
- Support/Be Loyal To Him

3,000 god damn messages a month and she hasn't found this yet?? But Legend says this is all my god damn fault. I don't wear Armani Suits and I don't make $5 million per year flipping real estate in NYC, so that's why I have to deal with stupid bytches like this.

Furthermore, she doesn't want dudes messaging her about SEX but she's a "Bra Specialist" and has a seductive/sexual pic with all of her damn legs out .
lol, yea, I guess I'm not the brightest bulb in the box when it comes to deciphering female POF posts. I have always been intrigued about them because I heard so much about them from POF'ers I would meet for dates. But, being female, I have no access to the female POF profiles. Heard they are an interesting bunch, that is for sure.
 

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Tenacity, have you ever considered moving to a major metropolitan city which can give you so many options
in the dating scene. It just feels like that a town in central Michigan isn't doing the trick....
I agree. you have a lot to offer, including sanity. a change of scenery might do the trick. I realize the issue is that you would be moving away from family, but you can always find a good woman, and move back.
 

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IMO, I would agree with Legend (if he did say that).
My personal opinion, I WOULDN'T TOUCH THAT WOMAN WITH A 100 FOOT POLE. Are you kidding me?
Her profile is just down right jaded and negative. You can't do better than that???

If you are a good, educated, fit and financially successful man you shouldn't be struggling with women at all.

Tenacity, have you ever considered moving to a major metropolitan city which can give you so many options
in the dating scene. It just feels like that a town in central Michigan isn't doing the trick....
I just honestly don't want to move to somewhere like NYC with a very high cost of living. If I move it will be somewhere in Texas, which has a great economy for people my age, low cost of living, and a higher population. I am seriously thinking of leaving Michigan within the next 5 years though.

But yes man, THAT CHICK is the AVERAGE chick in this area that's somewhat "decent". This is why I'm losing my god damn mind mannnn.
 

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You think she's in the upper tier of looks? to each his own I guess.



She's never going to find the man she thinks she wants, because going along with a woman's bossing of the frame to get her approval turns her off the man. She can yap about respect and manning up all she wants, but what she's really going to respond to is still the same kind of guy that led to her becoming a single mom in the first place years ago. Those guys don't give a sh!t about what she wants, which makes her more bitter and add more filters, making her more and more turned off the guys who would actually take her sh!t seriously, and the cycle continues.
I agree. No one wants to read all this negativity. In fact it probably overtly communicates "I've been hurt a lot and I am vulnerable, come take some more advantage of me"
She needs to do a better job of learning how to screen the ones she meets. She needs to tighten her game on that end.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I just honestly don't want to move to somewhere like NYC with a very high cost of living. If I move it will be somewhere in Texas, which has a great economy for people my age, low cost of living, and a higher population. I am seriously thinking of leaving Michigan within the next 5 years though.

But yes man, THAT CHICK is the AVERAGE chick in this area that's somewhat "decent". This is why I'm losing my god damn mind mannnn.
I'm in Texas! We can e friends, and we can drag @bigneil (kicking and screaming) into our friendship circle.

lol ;)

Texas is not a bad choice. I've managed to do really well for myself here. I miss my family, but im going to be able to retire well. (they wont)
 

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I agree. No one wants to read all this negativity. In fact it probably overtly communicates "I've been hurt a lot and I am vulnerable, come take some more advantage of me"
She needs to do a better job of learning how to screen the ones she meets. She needs to tighten her game on that end.
You don't understand the depth of what I mean, but you're a woman so no surprise there.
 

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I messaged her and told her that she was out of her god damn mind lol.

For example, taken from her profile:



So let's add this up. She gets 100 messages PER DAY, there are 30 days in most months, so that's 3,000 messages PER MONTH.

Out of 3,000 messages per month, this bytch has not found ONE dude to:

- Commit to
- Marry/Settle Down/Be In An LTR With
- Have His Kids
- Support/Be Loyal To Him

3,000 god damn messages a month and she hasn't found this yet?? But Legend says this is all my god damn fault. I don't wear Armani Suits and I don't make $5 million per year flipping real estate in NYC, so that's why I have to deal with stupid bytches like this.

Furthermore, she doesn't want dudes messaging her about SEX but she's a "Bra Specialist" and has a seductive/sexual pic with all of her damn legs out .
Honestly, I think she sounds pretty fair. She didn't rule anyone out for not having a lot of money or being small. She came up with alternatives ideas. She is just stating what she is tired of and what she is looking for. But what she is looking for doesn't sound unreasonable. Though, I get what you're saying. I don't want to reach out to someone who complains on their profile. Make yourself look good and just ignore what you don't like. It's what I do.

Check this one out.
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=104960022
 

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I just honestly don't want to move to somewhere like NYC with a very high cost of living. If I move it will be somewhere in Texas, which has a great economy for people my age, low cost of living, and a higher population. I am seriously thinking of leaving Michigan within the next 5 years though.
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Don't let the cost of a city deter you (whether it's NY, Texas, etc.) especially with your education background. You don't have to live in the city itself which is expensive but live in the suburbs which is much more affordable and be 10-20 min away from midtown like everyone else.

But seriously YOU ARE SELLING YOURSELF SHORT if you don't explore your options while your still young.... You're single, fit, educated with no baggage and struggling with getting decent options?? Ask yourself a difficult question....IS IT YOU OR YOUR DEMOGRAPHICS?
 

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Don't let the cost of a city deter you (whether it's NY, Texas, etc.) especially with your education background. You don't have to live in the city itself which is expensive but live in the suburbs which is much more affordable and be 10-20 min away from midtown like everyone else.

But seriously YOU ARE SELLING YOURSELF SHORT if you don't explore your options while your still young.... You're single, fit, educated with no baggage and struggling with getting decent options?? Ask yourself a difficult question....IS IT YOU OR YOUR DEMOGRAPHICS?
I have been saying it's a market problem this entire time, but people like Legend keep saying I'm the SOLE cause of it because if I would just put on more Armani Suits........the chick in the POF profile I referenced would all of a sudden not be a bytch and turn into the best WIFE a man can ever dream of!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My opinion, I would at least check out some cities this year while your at it to get a feeling of what's out there. I think it would do you a great good.
 

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You don't understand the depth of what I mean, but you're a woman so no surprise there.
Actually, I do 'get it', but it's just too damn easy to put me down, isnt it? Feel better about yourself now? Good :)
 

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Actually, I do 'get it',
Your reply doesn't show that.

but it's just too damn easy to put me down, isnt it?
I don't care how the truth affects you.

Feel better about yourself now? Good :)
Because guys here have been getting confused lately by all the female and pro-female posting, yeah I do, thank you.
 

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Interesting thread. I just got off POF a few minutes ago, and after peeling through 5 pages of women, there's not a single one I'd write a "Hi" to, much less anything else. Nothing but an melting pot of damaged very low quality women. The top dog on there was about a 2 and no HB attached to that 2. If you enjoy tattoos, lard, lots of kids, pipe dreams, and drama that makes no sense, then POF is for you.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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