She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Nobody ever does anything "just because."Some women will just cheat just BECAUSE.
The decisions are not always rational, guy. What if they did it to look "cool" to their peers. That's a reason. It might set you back in life, but that is one reason these things happen.Nobody ever does anything "just because."
No animal has a "random behavior generator" in their brain.
Is the sociopath black because he cares only for himself and cannot care for others?There is nothing 'Black" about a woman's soul. Is a Tiger 'black' because it kills baby animals to survive? Nope, it is their nature. Women are women, it is their nature. It does not serve the tiger to be concerned with the morality of killing: it does not serve women to be concerned about loyalty.
No... the sociopath does not know any better. They might be a pox on humanity, but a sociopath isn't violating their morality by uncaring behavior... uncaring behavior is their morality. If a man that knows better, picks up a gun and murders another, then their soul, if you believe in such things, is 'black'. If a toddler picks of a gun and kills someone, they don't know any better.Is the sociopath black because he cares only for himself and cannot care for others?
....yes
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Exactly my point. Not "just because." They ALWAYS have a reason. It's not random. And any reason, regardless of how rational or irrational, is based on "cost benefit" even at the subconscious level.he decisions are not always rational, guy. What if they did it to look "cool" to their peers. That's a reason.
Yes and no. Male and female evolutionary tendency is for survival. Men in prehistory only survive when the collective group survives. It is in the best interests of men to fight with your tribe, to the death, because if you lose you are dead anyway. So men have a stake in the maintenance of society as long as society serves their needs. Women can and have survived throughout history by just following behind whomever wins. So you are correct, they survive by passive submission to authority.Their evolutionary tendencies are first and foremost submission. Before being emotional or observing or anything. They just are mentally sick because no is there to bring out their submission.
Man. We have painted women as the "anti Christ".... Thing is, many men even in the bible where taken down by women. The bible warned men against being seduced by the seductress lures and she will take you down into the bowels of hell and steal your life from you... Without a single feeling...Yes and no. Male and female evolutionary tendency is for survival. Men in prehistory only survive when the collective group survives. It is in the best interests of men to fight with your tribe, to the death, because if you lose you are dead anyway. So men have a stake in the maintenance of society as long as society serves their needs. Women can and have survived throughout history by just following behind whomever wins. So you are correct, they survive by passive submission to authority.
Without disciplined authority, women will follow their nature, which is selfish preservation and collection of resources. And if they can't find men that meet their needs, they will vote for government, government is not society, government to women is a means of extracting resources from men that are unwilling to marry them and hand it over willingly. It is not a coincidence that our National Debt rises as women's empowerment increases. Women are left on their own, they will suck up whatever is available, destroy society... and just fall in behind whatever emerges after society collapses.
Women will submit to whomever or whatever can provide them with what they need. However, they will not willingly submit to those they see no value in.
I don't think women are the anti-Christ, they are what they are.... basically grown up children. Just look at what happened on that show "Survivor" when they tried to create gender based teams... the women's team when to complete 'sh!t', look what happened to Black Inner city American when Black women replace men with Government...... it is that we men have failed to protect society. You can no more expect women to be in charge of something and have it work, then you can expect turning things over to a bunch of children. Just like the "Lord of the Flies", society would devolve into stupidity. Jesus... women deep down KNOW this is true... that is why many women voted for Trump and not Hillary... sure they loved the idea that a women could be President but when push came to shove, they would rather have a reality TV star running the country than another chick.Man. We have painted women as the "anti Christ".... Thing is, many men even in the bible where taken down by women. The bible warned men against being seduced by the seductress lures and she will take you down into the bowels of hell and steal your life from you... Without a single feeling...
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
There is nothing 'Black" about a woman's soul. Is a Tiger 'black' because it kills baby animals to survive? Nope, it is their nature. Women are women, it is their nature. It does not serve the tiger to be concerned with the morality of killing: it does not serve women to be concerned about loyalty
Go to Soflobro's thread. He is living proff of THE EXACT OPPOSITE. Read some of Tenacity's statements as well. Some women just ARE psychologically fvcked. It's not women being women, a lot of them have become degenerates when they show their true colors.Women will submit to whomever or whatever can provide them with what they need. However, they will not willingly submit to those they see no value in.
Lost in all the speculation is the idea of becoming... the idea that over and above the base of our material cause is another 'cause' by which we develop [think push and pull]. The base is always violent but not normative; the Romans conquered the barbarians in order to institute a rational law. You could read reason as the development of our rational/ moral instincts in contrast to our natural instincts.Yes and no. Male and female evolutionary tendency is for survival. Men in prehistory only survive when the collective group survives. It is in the best interests of men to fight with your tribe, to the death, because if you lose you are dead anyway. So men have a stake in the maintenance of society as long as society serves their needs. Women can and have survived throughout history by just following behind whomever wins. So you are correct, they survive by passive submission to authority.
Without disciplined authority, women will follow their nature, which is selfish preservation and collection of resources. And if they can't find men that meet their needs, they will vote for government, government is not society, government to women is a means of extracting resources from men that are unwilling to marry them and hand it over willingly. It is not a coincidence that our National Debt rises as women's empowerment increases. Women are left on their own, they will suck up whatever is available, destroy society... and just fall in behind whatever emerges after society collapses.
Women will submit to whomever or whatever can provide them with what they need. However, they will not willingly submit to those they see no value in.
the difference between human beings and everything else is that we are not slaves to our nature, anyone who does anything bad should be judged accordingly, if you can control your masculine aggression and don't get into fist fights every week, there's no reason a woman can't control her emotions/nature and no reason a sociopath couldn't choose not to cause troubleNo... the sociopath does not know any better. They might be a pox on humanity, but a sociopath isn't violating their morality by uncaring behavior... uncaring behavior is their morality. If a man that knows better, picks up a gun and murders another, then their soul, if you believe in such things, is 'black'. If a toddler picks of a gun and kills someone, they don't know any better.
All true answers are simple. If explanations get too complicated you are on the wrong track. Don't make things too complex... There are always exceptions... but that which is typical is what you SHOULD expect. Over thinking sh!t is much worst than just acting on the typical.Lost in all the speculation is the idea of becoming... the idea that over and above the base of our material cause is another 'cause' by which we develop [think push and pull]. The base is always violent but not normative; the Romans conquered the barbarians in order to institute a rational law. You could read reason as the development of our rational/ moral instincts in contrast to our natural instincts.
As for all the speculation, the Greeks invented that. Best to start reading some Aristotle and Plato to put [post] modern thought in some context. You might then gain an appreciation of aesthetics, moral philosophy, art and human history... as opposed to just natural history.
And as for the black and white dichotomy painted between men and woman, where men are us and women are the 'other', this is pure ideology. The fact is that all humanity, whether man or woman, lies on a spectrum where at one end our moral/ rational potential is fully developed and at the other it is not. According to a thinker such as Aristotle, not even the mass of men achieve this potential. And it is not necessarily ruled out that women couldn't.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You miss the point... society punishes men for following our nature (we get tossed in jail if we behave aggressively) in today's society women ARE NOT punished for following her nature (hyper-gamy and disloyalty). Sure human beings can rise above their nature, but why would they if there are no consequences to just doing what comes naturally?the difference between human beings and everything else is that we are not slaves to our nature, anyone who does anything bad should be judged accordingly, if you can control your masculine aggression and don't get into fist fights every week, there's no reason a woman can't control her emotions/nature and no reason a sociopath couldn't choose not to cause trouble
man is not a slave to his nature, beasts are.
Go to Soflobro's thread. He is living proff of THE EXACT OPPOSITE. Read some of Tenacity's statements as well. Some women just ARE psychologically fvcked. It's not women being women, a lot of them have become degenerates when they show their true colors.
I am not really trying to describe the relationship between tigers and what they eat, just trying to illustrate that nature is what it is... no reason to hate tigers from following their nature, just like there is no reason to hate women for following theirs. Read what I just said, don't hate women for being women, BUT PRAISE women who can somehow manage to rise above theirs. But the fvcking problem with that is the chances are that if you find a chick that is cool and will not screw you over... she's likely NOT what most men would consider HOT. The really hot chicks typically (I did not say all of them) have been totally screwed up by dudes... we line up to kiss the @sses because they are hot.Hey
I totally get your Point. But no prey of the tiger would ever consider to get in to a relationship with a tiger or spining plates with a tiger. Prey runs like hell if it sees a tiger and therefore does not have to bother about the tigers morality. All the prey needs to know - as it does instinctly - is that the tiger is after it.
But that can bot be the wanted effect: run like hell if you see a woman. At least that would be MGTOW.
But the problem is, that ISN'T female nature to be disloyal. 'Emotional' may be one, but doshonesty and disloyalty is not. It is not inherent to any creatures nature because it woupd be detrimental to their species survival. The closest thing to disloyalty in nature is antisocial animals. And many antisocial animals are in jeapordy of going extinct.I am not really trying to describe the relationship between tigers and what they eat, just trying to illustrate that nature is what it is... no reason to hate tigers from following their nature, just like there is no reason to hate women for following theirs. Read what I just said, don't hate women for being women, BUT PRAISE women who can somehow manage to rise above theirs. But the fvcking problem with that is the chances are that if you find a chick that is cool and will not screw you over... she's likely NOT what most men would consider HOT. The really hot chicks typically (I did not say all of them) have been totally screwed up by dudes... we line up to kiss the @sses because they are hot.
I don't have a problem with MGTOW philosophy. I understand that much better than male stooges that go around kissing women's @sses... trying to figure out how to get into relationships with them... that behavior makes no sense to me. 100 years ago it made sense for men to get into relationships with women, but why in the fvck would a man do this today, it is much better to just have fun and move onto the next before things get serious.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.