Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why do females want to visit France, even alone?

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Seems to me, the home is where the heart is.

And you're taking pics of a dyck shaped structure that men created.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Billtx49

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Both France and Italy are looked at by quite a few women as being very romantic places. If they are alone they see it as a place for lightning bolt type stuff to happen..… "I just saw him on the street and it was automatic!"
- Fantasies
They will be looking for more than historic sites to take pics of while they are there…
 
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El Payaso

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Herd mentality.
 

foreverAFC

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its because most women are stupid and still have romantic feelings about Paris from all the hollywood movies they watched over the years, they dont know that Paris actually looks like this because of their lefist ideas and willingness to let in all kinds of immigrants who cant be cared for...
 

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I know a couple of japanese girls who went to france recently. When one of them was telling me about it, she seemed to excited to burst her bubble. When she came back she told me how scary it was. Most of the bad stuff about France isn't on mainstream news, (or FB which is where most ladies get their news these days).

But this:

Both France and Italy are looked at by quite a few women as being very romantic places.
and this:

Herd mentality.
are the main reason.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sazc

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I'm off to Rome in March. Don't burst my bubble!!!!!
 

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Yep. I visited France a couple of times maybe 5-6 years ago. The first trip Paris really was the romantic cosmopolitan city that the movies make out. Even then on the train to Versailles we went past a bloody enormous slum refugee camp.

The second trip there were Africans and Arabs everywhere doing the customer service jobs. And none of them seemed friendly. Now I m not putting any interpretation on that. The causes are no doubt complex. That s just what I experienced.
 
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I know one thing for sure, of all the European girls out there, French girls seem to be in love with non-white guys. Almost every black, asian, or minority in general I've known who has gone there has pulled hot French girls. Knew a Hispanic guy that looked like dude from That 70s Show who had a threesome with two hot French blondes, they were all over him from the get go.
 

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FB and Travel Channel only show so much of France. Boosts airline travel revenue. There you go.
 

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For the same reason Japanese girls come to America and Canada - to get some penis. Paris to these ladies is like Colombia to white middle-aged gringos ; )
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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I was at this Olympic and Paralympic training site and there were these Spanish kids who spoke a little bit of English. One of the kid's told me "You know how Paris is the city of love?" And I said "yeah", he told me "Don't believe it. It not true". And I remember how French people hate Americans and all that and asked him why. He basically said because they are all arrogant and how no one in Europe likes them hahaha.
 

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Cause they've heard about French guys and how good they are in bed in all their fantasy books...and they want to experience it for themselves first hand...

Why else would they go by themselves? They want to get d!cked down like a slut with no witnesses and then go about their life like it never happened afterwards and pretend they are a "good girl" to the unsuspecting boyfriend...
 

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France has 8 borders. For anyone who is really into traveling the world, it's stragicly placed. There are cities, country sides, villages, mountains, the sea. There are historical places and castles. Then there is all this food. That's not even touching on the art. Of course there are a lot of people that don't know any of this and how valuable it should be on your traveling bucket list, who only see this romantic version of what movies portray that the city of lights and lovers would have you strolling along underneath the Eifle tower. But that tower is what remains of the world's fair. My grandfather fought on the shores of Normandy. I'd like to see where he landed. Joan of arc, with all her schizophrenia, helped put a rightful king on the throne, and she was captured and put to death for it. I'd like to see where she came from.
 
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