GF wants sex all the time

[Tortendieb]

Hey guys, has none of you had that situation before? When I'm with my girl for the weekend, for example, we'd have sex twice in the evening, and then again in the morning. Then she'd fix us some breakfast but afterwards she immediately wants sex again! Every bloody time, all the time!

I'm serious, after I bust a nut I'm just not horny anymore. I can still get it up, I can deliver a good performance, but I don't want to all the time. She'd just cling to me, kiss me nonstop (which is actually annoying if you're not horny) and wait for me to initiate sex.

Maybe I have a low sex drive, but sex is effort on my part. In fact it's a chore to do it "properly" more than once. Once the horniness is gone I'm just doing it for her. The situation annoys me, but I fear she'd think something's wrong if I tell her I want less sex.

Haha, I sound like a typical woman now do I. Anyway how does the Don Juan solve the dilemma?

 

[Tortendieb]

Also, I want to stop associating sex with work, that's not sexy and sounds very unhealthy in the long run.

 

[resilient]

...she immediately wants sex again! Every bloody time, all the time!

First world problems, says what DJ?

 

[sazc]

Baby, why you on the computer tuping on the internets? Get back to bed, I'm horny, I wanna sex again!!!!

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Use your fingers till she can't handle anymore orgasms.

Seriously wish I had this problem right now haha

 

[Tortendieb]

She don't want the fingers or a quickie, she wants the real deal, and I don't want to spend another 20 minutes. She's like a cat, way too hungry for affection.

I guess it's just a matter of communication, I'll do whatever I'd rather do at the time or leave. Alternatively I'll try to make her play a more active part.

 

[Tortendieb]

Baby, why you on the computer tuping on the internets? Get back to bed, I'm horny, I wanna sex again!!!!

OMG it's you!? How did you find me?

...

OK if you make me a sandwich

 

[pyros]

I have the exact same 'problem' with the girl I am currently seing. She is horny all the damn time, and like in your case, she initiates sex by kising me a lot eventhough I am not horny bescause I had an orgams ten minutes ago, so it is annoying.

What can you do? I dont know lol.

As you said, I usually give her more than once orgasms eventhough I cvmmed before and I dont feel like having sex again...but other times I just give her only one orgasm and tell her I had enough and call it a day.
You are not obligated to perform so much everytime you know?

 

[The Duke]

Send her over to my house!

 

[Billtx49]

Alternatively I'll try to make her play a more active part.

Are you saying she's like a starfish in bed or you're the only one doing the physical activity?

 

[Tortendieb]

Are you saying she's like a starfish in bed or you're the only one doing the physical activity?

She's not a dead fish, but I usually dominate her and I like it this way. I guess this has kind of set the standard for us. Sometimes I move her on top, but it doesn't turn me on very much.
Anyway I figure - if I have the time to spare, then why not have sex some more. Maybe the solution is as simple as to instruct her to get better at teasing & foreplay... she's gotta seduce me a bit more

 

[Billtx49]

She's not a dead fish, but I usually dominate her and I like it this way (when I'm horny). I guess this has kind of set the standard which she expects. Sometimes I move her on top, but it doesn't turn me on very much.
Anyway I figure - if I have the time to spare, then why not have sex. Maybe the solution is as simple as to instruct her to get better at teasing & foreplay... she's gotta seduce me a bit more

Yes, get her on more of a 50/50 for the entire process. Let her work at seduction.

 

[Juanto]

Dont orgasm every time you have sex. Only do it when you are sure it will be the last sex session of the day with her. This way your desire and hardness will get bigger and bigger

 

[El Payaso]

And the problem is...?

 

[sazc]

OMG it's you!? How did you find me?

...

OK if you make me a sandwich

ha ha, I made you a sammich. eat it and lets fvck!

 

[sazc]

She don't want the fingers or a quickie, she wants the real deal, and I don't want to spend another 20 minutes. She's like a cat, way too hungry for affection.

I guess it's just a matter of communication, I'll do whatever I'd rather do at the time or leave. Alternatively I'll try to make her play a more active part.

she needs to get to the gym and burn off all this excess energy

 

[Julian]

Heres a tip, DONT BUST EVERYTIME


I smash my chick for 20 min on my lunchbreak just for fun and some cardio and pleasure. She gets off, I get some good feels and then eat and back to work taking care of business. Then that night Ill be horny AF and rdy to smash...so we will bang and at that point ill bust an passout. Everyones happy. The next day Ill be ready...first sesh I wont bust nuts just bang her out. Ill finally bust that night. Its also sweet cuz you blow huge and bishes love it.


Edit- Doing this does not cause blue balls. IDK why but it just doesnt. Like if you are making out with a chick and are ready to bang and get hard, and you cant..then you get blue balls...but the act of having sex somehow soothes chit down there..idk.

 

[Roober]

Agreed with other guys. Don't busy a nut every time. I had a girl over that I laid the first time And I swear she could have gone all friggin night... I only bust a nut once over the course of 3 hours... Every time we stopped, she was on me within 5 minutes again...

 

[Juanto]

Maybe we should open a new thread called no-bust, to encourage the good practice of not busting nuts during sex

 

[wifehunter]

Is nice, yes???

Maybe gensing?