When she's too shy, and inexperienced. (Mexican plate)

[wifehunter]

Sometimes its like talking to wall (coldness), then other times, after the initial interaction... I feel like she wants to eat me like a steak!!!

WTF... So frustrating at times! The only consistency is cold then warm. Maybe I'm being impatient.

It would be nice to say a warm hello, and get a warm hello back!

Could be anxiety...

 

[dustmuffin]

If it works out in the end why worry about it? She will probably warm up more as she gets to know you. Are you having sechs?

 

[wifehunter]

If it works out in the end why worry about it? She will probably warm up more as she gets to know you. Are you having sechs?

It's been over a year. She should be warm enough...If I'm going to ask someone out, I'd like to know if I'm going to have a good time, or if she's just going to be a bump on a log.

(No s3x, till I'm confident that I'm going to spend the rest of my life with this person)

I may just spin the new plate for now. I'm exhausted.

 

[Igetit!]

It's been over a year. She should be warm enough...

A year? You've been saying "hi" and making small talk with this girl for OVER a year now?

Then you say,"She should be warm enough". Warm? After a year,she should be burnt to a crisp by now.


Why is it taking so long to ask her out? Honestly though,after MORE THAN 12 months,I don't think she's probably interested. Far as the coldness you said you feel from her in your first post,it's probably just annoyance. She probably has an inkling that you're interested,but after a year of tapdancing and beating around the bush without getting to the point,she's likely annoyed.

Maybe that's the "coldness" you say you feel from her at times.

If I'm going to ask someone out, I'd like to know if I'm going to have a good time, or if she's just going to be a bump on a log.

Ok,uhhhh....and you haven't been able to determine this after more than a year of being in contact with her? It's 2017...so....you've been trying to decipher if you'd have a good time out on a date with her since 2015?

damn


At this point,personally,I think you should move on. Or to put it another way,sh1t or GET OFF the pot.

How do you determine if you'd have a good time on a date with a girl BEFORE actually going out on a date her anyway? I'm curious.

I may just spin the new plate for now. I'm exhausted.

You're exhausted,huh? Heh,yeah...after a year of tapdancing...yeah,you should be.

 

[wifehunter]

It's been tough being homeless... It's also hard to ask girls out in my situation, so I've just been seeing them.