"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Approaching the End

Augustus_McCrae

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A question for the Red Pill guys who have decided to never marry (Poon King, Deesade, etc.).

What do you think the future holds for you as an old guy (70's, 80's)? For example, do you anticipate that you'll keep spinning plates until you die?

I ask this because I've been mulling it over for myself (Red Pill, will never marry again, will be 60 this year).

-Augustus-
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bigneil

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I expect to be like Donald Trump. I will be 70, married to a hot girl 25 years younger, a Billionaire and President. Otherwise I'll settle for sad and lonely.
 

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What's wrong with having a steady girlfriend for the rest of your days?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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C00lAF

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I will probably get cancer or get hit by a car before that age hahahahaha,no seriously there is lots of polutants in the air,and keep in mind that ww3 or some **** might happen and you will be pretty busy and will die in an intresting way.
 

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I work with old folks.....

Trust me at 70-80 years old you will have bigger priorities/problems than worrying about chasing tail.
 

Augustus_McCrae

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Dingo,

Are you tell me that I'd better get as much azz as I can now because in 10 years it will all go to shiz? :eek:

-Augustus-
 

Dingo

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Augustus....

Always get as much azz as you can....

In all seriousness gang....

Only a very small minority of seniors get to enjoy "the golden years". Like cars things wear out and fall apart.... And most of those that have some enjoyment it's because they have the financial means and health to live a independent life.

Old age is not for sissies.... Save your money and live as healthy as you can.
 

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A question for the Red Pill guys who have decided to never marry (Poon King, Deesade, etc.).

What do you think the future holds for you as an old guy (70's, 80's)? For example, do you anticipate that you'll keep spinning plates until you die?

I ask this because I've been mulling it over for myself (Red Pill, will never marry again, will be 60 this year).

-Augustus-
If you are so inclined to continue chasing tail, you could still do it into your 70s. I will say that, personally, I think if you decide to do this to make sure to always keep your health in top shape. When you get older, never let younger women suspect that you couldn't keep up with or be unable to satisfy them. I know Joe Biden or Bill Clinton are both kinda creepy, but those guys still got sex drive. Hell there's still plenty of women that would still have sex with Bill despite him looking like he's been on hard drugs for years.

Did I emphasize to take care of your health?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ChristopherColumbus

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I think of the end,
Each and every day,
Of where to and what for,
And enter on the fray,
Where this day is a part,
A fragment of the whole,
To make of life an art,
Where I will play my role.
 
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ubercat

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I know a few guys who play competitive sports in their 60s. Injuries normally get them. Augustus I think regular yoga and weights practice would be a great investment for you in the next 10 years. Flexibility and mental calmness make a big difference to how people age.
 
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