"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Haha, if you say so.

When you are just going to be yourself and stop playing some character?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Haha, if you say so.

When you are just going to be yourself and stop playing some character?
I lay pretty much my whole life out here for all to see. You think I've just made this stuff up? Oh silly me, I forget you're in 'entertainment', and apparently unsuccessfully so; you must know all about playing in character :D

Maybe you could read the whole thing and learn a thing or two.
 

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I lay pretty much my whole life out here for all to see. You think I've just made this stuff up? Oh silly me, I forget you're in 'entertainment', and apparently unsuccessfully so; you must know all about playing in character :D

Maybe you could read the whole thing and learn a thing or two.
LOL, you have no idea who I am. I'm no celebrity and I want to achieve great success. But acting in seven films writing, producing, directing and starring in two live action shorts, two animated shorts that have been in festivals and got distribution, appearing in two TV shows, have a book of short stories published, and being in four plays is pretty damn good for a 24 year old. Not to mention I am developing a film and just pitched my first animated TV show to the same company that made Adventure Time. Everyone who I've met in this industry has told me that I am far ahead of my peers.

Jealous?
 

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In short, no. You don't know me either and I've had plenty of success of my own, both on a national and international scale.

I've met (true) entertainers, dated actresses and singers, and met their sappy beta male hangers-on, of which there are of course plenty.

It strikes me that you do want to date, but can't date the women you want, where I can; or at least I am making efforts to do so as shown herein. It also strikes me that you're not as successful as you could have been, or at least don't have the personality to back up your talents, as you're bemoaning the lack of online attention only earlier today.

You clearly are talented, so sort your fcking head out, stop wasting your time typing diatribe at me and get on with it.
 

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In short, no. You don't know me either and I've had plenty of success of my own, both on a national and international scale.

I've met (true) entertainers, dated actresses and singers, and met their sappy beta male hangers-on, of which there are of course plenty.

It strikes me that you do want to date, but can't date the women you want, where I can; or at least I am making efforts to do so as shown herein. It also strikes me that you're not as successful as you could have been, or at least don't have the personality to back up your talents, as you're bemoaning the lack of online attention only earlier today.

You clearly are talented, so sort your fcking head out, stop wasting your time typing diatribe at me and get on with it.
I think it's cute how you try to cut me down in all of your posts. "True" entertainers? Like circus clowns.

I laid out in that thread I wrote on being done with dating why I don't want to date. In short, the ROI isn't worth it for me. Could this change? Sure. But that's what I felt was right. And honestly I've been happier not focusing on women the last few weeks.

As for the second part, perhaps. But success is purely a mindset. There are millionaires who are suicidal while there are people who work at McDonalds and loving every second of it.

I am where I am supposed to be at this very moment. And I'll get to where I want to go in due time. Part of that has to do with me not dating and focusing that energy into my work. Look up sexual transmutation.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good. Now we're starting to get somewhere. It's only taken ten or so posts on both our parts. I'm not quite as stupid as your think I am, you know.

If you think about it long and hard (pardon the pun), if you actually do learn to read between the lines of common script, you'll see that this whole site, this whole manosphere ethos is about sexual transmutation. It's certainly the primary aim of this thread, if nothing else. I am simply starting to incorporate women back in to my life again, having experienced similar revelations as yourself, even only last year.

If you're in the ROI, you could come over here to London and we could go for a pint. Maybe.
 

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Good. Now we're starting to get somewhere. It's only taken ten or so posts on both our parts. I'm not quite as stupid as your think I am, you know.

If you think about it long and hard (pardon the pun), if you actually do learn to read between the lines of common script, you'll see that this whole site, this whole manosphere ethos is about sexual transmutation. It's certainly the primary aim of this thread, if nothing else. I am simply starting to incorporate women back in to my life again, having experienced similar revelations as yourself, even only last year.

If you're in the ROI, you could come over here to London and we could go for a pint. Maybe.
Sexual transmutation is about using your sexual energy in other areas of your life instead of cumming and wasting that energy on sex.

So the main cause of this site is going against sexual energy when you break it down.

Eventually I'll get horny and go on dates again. Going on dates is not a big deal. Women approach me and and almost always receptive to me. That's why I am taking this hiatus. I want to date women that I actually care about and vice versa.

And sure if you cover the first round.
 
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