"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

TMK's Jungle Journey 2016

TheFixer14

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 15, 2016
Messages
351
Reaction score
149
Age
34
Haha, if you say so.

When you are just going to be yourself and stop playing some character?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

TheMonkeyKing

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2014
Messages
2,327
Reaction score
1,419
Haha, if you say so.

When you are just going to be yourself and stop playing some character?
I lay pretty much my whole life out here for all to see. You think I've just made this stuff up? Oh silly me, I forget you're in 'entertainment', and apparently unsuccessfully so; you must know all about playing in character :D

Maybe you could read the whole thing and learn a thing or two.
 

TheFixer14

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 15, 2016
Messages
351
Reaction score
149
Age
34
I lay pretty much my whole life out here for all to see. You think I've just made this stuff up? Oh silly me, I forget you're in 'entertainment', and apparently unsuccessfully so; you must know all about playing in character :D

Maybe you could read the whole thing and learn a thing or two.
LOL, you have no idea who I am. I'm no celebrity and I want to achieve great success. But acting in seven films writing, producing, directing and starring in two live action shorts, two animated shorts that have been in festivals and got distribution, appearing in two TV shows, have a book of short stories published, and being in four plays is pretty damn good for a 24 year old. Not to mention I am developing a film and just pitched my first animated TV show to the same company that made Adventure Time. Everyone who I've met in this industry has told me that I am far ahead of my peers.

Jealous?
 

TheMonkeyKing

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2014
Messages
2,327
Reaction score
1,419
In short, no. You don't know me either and I've had plenty of success of my own, both on a national and international scale.

I've met (true) entertainers, dated actresses and singers, and met their sappy beta male hangers-on, of which there are of course plenty.

It strikes me that you do want to date, but can't date the women you want, where I can; or at least I am making efforts to do so as shown herein. It also strikes me that you're not as successful as you could have been, or at least don't have the personality to back up your talents, as you're bemoaning the lack of online attention only earlier today.

You clearly are talented, so sort your fcking head out, stop wasting your time typing diatribe at me and get on with it.
 

TheFixer14

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 15, 2016
Messages
351
Reaction score
149
Age
34
In short, no. You don't know me either and I've had plenty of success of my own, both on a national and international scale.

I've met (true) entertainers, dated actresses and singers, and met their sappy beta male hangers-on, of which there are of course plenty.

It strikes me that you do want to date, but can't date the women you want, where I can; or at least I am making efforts to do so as shown herein. It also strikes me that you're not as successful as you could have been, or at least don't have the personality to back up your talents, as you're bemoaning the lack of online attention only earlier today.

You clearly are talented, so sort your fcking head out, stop wasting your time typing diatribe at me and get on with it.
I think it's cute how you try to cut me down in all of your posts. "True" entertainers? Like circus clowns.

I laid out in that thread I wrote on being done with dating why I don't want to date. In short, the ROI isn't worth it for me. Could this change? Sure. But that's what I felt was right. And honestly I've been happier not focusing on women the last few weeks.

As for the second part, perhaps. But success is purely a mindset. There are millionaires who are suicidal while there are people who work at McDonalds and loving every second of it.

I am where I am supposed to be at this very moment. And I'll get to where I want to go in due time. Part of that has to do with me not dating and focusing that energy into my work. Look up sexual transmutation.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

TheMonkeyKing

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2014
Messages
2,327
Reaction score
1,419
Good. Now we're starting to get somewhere. It's only taken ten or so posts on both our parts. I'm not quite as stupid as your think I am, you know.

If you think about it long and hard (pardon the pun), if you actually do learn to read between the lines of common script, you'll see that this whole site, this whole manosphere ethos is about sexual transmutation. It's certainly the primary aim of this thread, if nothing else. I am simply starting to incorporate women back in to my life again, having experienced similar revelations as yourself, even only last year.

If you're in the ROI, you could come over here to London and we could go for a pint. Maybe.
 

TheFixer14

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 15, 2016
Messages
351
Reaction score
149
Age
34
Good. Now we're starting to get somewhere. It's only taken ten or so posts on both our parts. I'm not quite as stupid as your think I am, you know.

If you think about it long and hard (pardon the pun), if you actually do learn to read between the lines of common script, you'll see that this whole site, this whole manosphere ethos is about sexual transmutation. It's certainly the primary aim of this thread, if nothing else. I am simply starting to incorporate women back in to my life again, having experienced similar revelations as yourself, even only last year.

If you're in the ROI, you could come over here to London and we could go for a pint. Maybe.
Sexual transmutation is about using your sexual energy in other areas of your life instead of cumming and wasting that energy on sex.

So the main cause of this site is going against sexual energy when you break it down.

Eventually I'll get horny and go on dates again. Going on dates is not a big deal. Women approach me and and almost always receptive to me. That's why I am taking this hiatus. I want to date women that I actually care about and vice versa.

And sure if you cover the first round.
 
Top