"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So you meet her at the club it goes well she disappears..

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We texted back and forth last night even tried to get her to come over for beer pong she was like im pretty good at it sure you could i said you gotta come so i can kick your butt. She wont reply today i tried texting. What's the deal with women when you meet them out at club and like you but won't talk to you next day? How do you solidfy a woman so she wont ignore you the next day or keep her texting you into the next day? Add her Facebook snap chat? Do what? Follow her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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stop texting and go NC. If you text any more you will look way needy. Really, if you had a great convo last night, you should have held off texting and let her text you.
she may be genuinely unable to respond because she is busy and cant give you the time right now
If she's into you, you will hear from her. If you dont hear from her, feel fortunate because she was not into you and you are not wasting any more of your time..
Did you just meet her last night at the club? If so, were you buying her drinks?
 
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Gotta agree with saz on this one .. anytime you think you've had a really great/positive time with a girl .. cut the time together short and go NC (let her chase).
 
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Your first mistake was meeting a woman at a club.

Clubs are horrible places to meet women. If you must, get there early and make your pitch before she gets inundated with alcohol and surrounded by other horny men.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok i dont just stand there and woman are into me obviously i communicate with them and get them attracted duh
 
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EyeBRollin said:
Your first mistake was meeting a woman at a club.
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This x10

If you didnt **** her that night let it go. My opinion is that the clubs are only good for one night stands. Once you wake up in the morning all women you met the night before should be dead to you.

Shootin4Dreams said:
Ok so what do i need to talk about or text to get her to chase me?
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If a woman is interested in you she will make contact with you. You sent her a text and she hasnt responded? Move on. Ball is in her court. If you keep trying to make contact with her you will come off as desperate.
 
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right now you just need to go NC and not worry about the situation. dont buy ladies drinks at clubs, if you do you wont know if they are interested because you're spending $ on them or they like you. IMO best bet at a club is to generate some interest and then cut the situation off early (when it is positive) by saying "I need to get back to my friends, it was nice to meet you" and see if she offers her number - then you know she is interested. It's fine to ask for her number but that creates a situation where you still dont know if she is interested.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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