You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You say she is a 5.5. The ratings say she is a 9.9. 9.9/5.5 = 1.8. It's called Mathematics and you obviously don't understand it. You see, you don't get to declare her rating. Ratings are based on consensus. Show us a hotter girl if you ever saw one.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I already posted a hotter girl
That girl who you never met in the photo that was officially marked as doctored? She rated 98 in looks but got hammered on the smart and trustworthy (my favorite girl scored 91, 74, 99 (264 total, ranked #1 out of 33 pictures), not 18, 14, 98 (130 total, ranked #20 out of 33 pictures - most of me!). I'll give you credit. But she is less hot, officially.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You've dated a blonde hotter than the woman who rated 99 in looks? The girl whose photos rated #1 and #2 overall (photos that I was in btw) is a dime a dozen? Prove it. You're all talk like nobody else.
Given how much you BS, I can see that.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Just let it go, its too a simple thing that you can't comprehend. Your ego is bigger than your intelligence that is for sure. Enjoy upping averging everyday bar sloots as 10s, with your statistics and small sample sizes. If that was the case in this thread she would average out to a 6.5. And she probably has make up on in those pictures ha
Well, to be fair, Neil, you did make this thread and ask people to rate her. There are a lot of pretty girls in the world. But calling her a dime a dozen is a little harsh. Expecting reasonable responses from an internet message board is like expecting ice cream from a cow. Most threads I've seen where someone posts their idea of a 9 or 10, there are always guys coming along who rate them a 4 or 5. Nevertheless, I find this type of thread to be a lot of fun, so I hope to see more of them.
If we give you enough rope you'll hang yourself.Just let it go... she would average out to a 6.5. ha
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
40 people over 2 pictures voted her in the hottest 1%. 4 out of 5 people consider her VERY attractive. It's called the 99 percentile you moron. The hottest 1%. Look it up. Her score was actually 100 until the last vote. I'm not even dating her, I just know a beauty when I see one (and it's a selfie which makes her nose look larger but to no effect on her rating).
Wow are you a whiny brat, and not very smart either
Winner! Biggest hypocrite and most likely to be a fat woman on welfare: PeasantLayer.
You win you are the king!
