How do I make my gf lose weight

[The Duke]

it is really all about knowing yourself first and then deciding what you are looking for (what's important physically and in a personality) setting standards and refusing to wane

AMEN! If more people took this approach, they would achieve better dating results.

I've tried to get past my desire for physical beauty and dated a few HB7's but I can never stay interested in one.

 

[Trainwreck]

She's aware that she's on warning status if she doesn't lose any weight. She has a goal for May lol.

 

[wifehunter]

Put the fork down!!! Fattie!

Depending on how fat she is... Tell her, If you stop looking like a woman, I'm going to have to go find one.

I don't really think any of this will go over well. Lol!

Take her to the gym, and if she lives with you, go low carb in the fridge.

 

[Trainwreck]

The effort needs to start today though.


If she hasn't lost half the weight by mid- March, she has no intention of trying and just putting you off for now.

That's what I'm thinking. I know this summer will be hard to reach her, so if she hasn't made an effort then I'm not going to deal with it lol.

 

[AttackFormation]

I want to make my girls gain weight. Seriously. How would you do that?

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

I want to make my girls gain weight. Seriously. How would you do that?

Cook well.

 

[sazc]

Cook well.

Excellent advice!

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Be like my dad:

"*****, you should stop eating."
"Why?"
"You're getting fat."

 

[Reykhel]

or is it futile

This is easy, however, you're asking the wrong question.....

You want to know if her fitness and health (long term goals) are in line with your expectations (for relationship game)......bearing in mind that bytches communicate move covertly........you could mention the amount of people who suffer from heart attacks these days...AND
mention that you feel the HEART is the most important muscle.....

.....listen to her answer, for wrapped inside will lie her motivations.........

 

[bigneil]

Get her off grain. Get her on a raw diet. 50% green diet. Local and organic produce. Grass-fed, bone-in meat only, 3 day detox fast with Zand kit. Fresh squeezed grapefruit juice first thing in the morning on empty stomach (or melon).

 

[Champ Slice]

A real man wouldn't bodyshame his girlfriend.

You obviously don't love her.

I am obviously not a real man. Lol.

 

[TheFixer14]

Is she actually fat? Sounds like you are white. As a black guy I don't mind a thick woman. There is a difference between being shapely and fat.

You can't expect your woman to be a model or something unless of course she actually is.

 

[Champ Slice]

Is she actually fat? Sounds like you are white. As a black guy I don't mind a thick woman. There is a difference between being shapely and fat.

You can't expect your woman to be a model or something unless of course she actually is.

Hopefully he understands the difference between thick and fat. I hope we all do.

I cant bang these skinny brauds. I feel like I would break my ham off inside of them.

 

[Trainwreck]

Is she actually fat? Sounds like you are white. As a black guy I don't mind a thick woman. There is a difference between being shapely and fat.

You can't expect your woman to be a model or something unless of course she actually is.

she's borderline thick/skinny, but she was skinny when we first started dating.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

she's borderline thick/skinny, but she was skinny when we first started dating.

And you don't want it going further in that directions. Encourage her to get in there with you because it will improve the quality of her life.

 

[TheFixer14]

she's borderline thick/skinny, but she was skinny when we first started dating.

Then I don't see the issue. Just make sure she at the least maintains. Women are people too. They lose and gain weight. As long as she looks good to you what does it matter?

 

[TheFixer14]

Hopefully he understands the difference between thick and fat. I hope we all do.

I cant bang these skinny brauds. I feel like I would break my ham off inside of them.

That's how I feel. Most of the women that I date are athletic to skinny. But thick women get me off the most.

 

[Atom Smasher]

You need to work out yourself, (I haven't read the entire thread, you may be doing this already), and let her see you checking out thin women, but do it very subtly. Subtle signs are a smash over the head to women. Just let her see you looking at them briefly.

She may well get the hint.

First and foremost, is she actually fat? Is she settling into her normal weight? Is it something that really turns you off, or is it something you can accept as long as it levels off?

Like espi said, when a woman gets fat she will blame anything and everything under the sun as an excuse as to why she "can't" lose weight. But you need to determine if she is actually fat or if you're just worried about the trend.

 

[Ronaldo7]

Get another woman.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Or have less sex with her... She might get the hint.