"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What do guys with good game look like?

Epicwinguy

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We have all been told that looks don't matter that much and I'm not necessarily arguing, but as far a hypergamy, surely guys who look like they get laid a lot will have better luck. So how can a guy look like "a guy that gets a lot of action," or is it all body language as result of inner game?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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On an average day I'm a 7 or 8 out of 10. I'm not as built as our Espi, but on a good day, I can mix with the best.
 

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To me, if you have strong inner game you should look at least decent.

It isn't hard to go to the gym regularly, it's good for you, and inner game should mean you want to take care of yourself and look after yourself. Obviously imo that extends to dressing well, looking as good as YOU can.

Obviously not everyone is Brad Pitt in the facial department but you don't need to be.

A lot of "ugly guys" are actually just out of shape with a double chin hiding their jawline, poorly dressed, with bad skin and a bad haircut.

If said guy got in shape, cleaned his diet up, got some new clothes and a fresh cut he would probably go from a 4 to a 7.

Bottom line, confident and happy people look after themselves, unhappy people with low self esteem don't (because they don't think they are worth taking care of)

I know there are day game videos of ugly dudes who are out if shape picking up 9s and 10s but I don't buy it, anyone can pay some girl to go along with that on camera, but in the field I NEVER see top tier women get picked up by slobs. Never. These girls have 100s of guys to choose from, you have to do what you can to separate yourself physically.

Just my 2 cents.
 

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We have all been told that looks don't matter that much and I'm not necessarily arguing, but as far a hypergamy, surely guys who look like they get laid a lot will have better luck. So how can a guy look like "a guy that gets a lot of action," or is it all body language as result of inner game?
Its a result of getting lots of sex. The most important thing in this game is ensuring your properly "anointed" by woman. They can sense it.
 

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Its a result of getting lots of sex. The most important thing in this game is ensuring your properly "anointed" by woman. They can sense it.
Going out to battle and you have been "dry" for 3 months or more Is like going out into a battlefield in mediaval days without any ARMOR at all. It's not going to work.

The first thing you need to do is get your d1ck wet in a receptive body. If your target is hot girls, just find someone who likes you more than you like them, maybe 1-2 pts down on looks and **** em good let her suck you. It takes 1-2 weeks of being back in the saddle to be anointed and that will start drying up after a week.

Always be phvcking... Always.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Guys with good game look at women confidently and directly. They touch confidently. They move like they know they are the sh-t. Their body posture says they are relaxed but interested. They don't take woman too seriously.
The aura they give off is "we both know you like what you see. If you put a lttle work in you might get to have me. If you don't someone else will. "
Being fit helps everything... Showing you give a f-ck about yourself (don't dress like a wino) is always good.

The main reason why getting laid helps is it takes away neediness which is the ultimate women repellent. That is also why spinning plates or having a backup booty call helps. You just aren't needy.
Nice clothes and good looks help but I have seen my friend, pudgy balding and not very tall pick up ***** like a champ while tall good-looking giys are geting nothing.
 

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Guys with good game look at women confidently and directly. They touch confidently. They move like they know they are the sh-t. Their body posture says they are relaxed but interested. They don't take woman too seriously.
The aura they give off is "we both know you like what you see. If you put a lttle work in you might get to have me. If you don't someone else will. "
Being fit helps everything... Showing you give a f-ck about yourself (don't dress like a wino) is always good.

The main reason why getting laid helps is it takes away neediness which is the ultimate women repellent. That is also why spinning plates or having a backup booty call helps. You just aren't needy.
Nice clothes and good looks help but I have seen my friend, pudgy balding and not very tall pick up ***** like a champ while tall good-looking giys are geting nothing.
WHen you have affirmation its HARD to do wrong. Everything just flows correctly. That's why I said the first priority is getting your d1ck wet. The "hot girls" everyone is after can wait. Just find someone who wants to give it to you and phvck them often.
 

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So how can a guy succeed if he hasn't been with a girl in a long time and women sense that on a subconscious level?
 

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Chin up, back straight, good eye contact, deliberate and controlled movements. Walk and act like you are made in the image of God, because you are. (Whether you believe, or not). All of this, is the physical manifestation of a good frame. I get immediate results from women of all ages.

Looks for women have more to do with how you carry yourself, but they like a nice azz too. The azz is more like icing on the cake, with frame being the cake itself.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Chin up, back straight, good eye contact, deliberate and controlled movements. Walk and act like you are made in the image of God, because you are. (Whether you believe, or not). All of this, is the physical manifestation of a good frame. I get immediate results from women of all ages.

Looks for women have more to do with how you carry yourself, but they like a nice azz too. The azz is more like icing on the cake, with frame being the cake itself.
THIS...

Walk into every room like you own it...
 

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There was a story in here or another site.....

Everyday you get up and are about to go out is like as if you are about to open a door and enter a room full of people. No one knows you.... No one knows that you may be a bit shy or self conscious.... Your on one side of the door a little weak.... They on the other side of the door not knowing what to expect.

You can enter as the weak AFC and become a wall flower or you enter as an ALPHA that is confident and ready to take care of business.. It's YOUR CHOICE. The way you come though the door will determine the outcome of everything that happens be it relationships or business.

I probably didn't explain it clearly... the point is ONLY YOU can make things happen... it's mental.... from the inside. Open that door and be the confident guy that other will feel positive towards.
 

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So how can a guy succeed if he hasn't been with a girl in a long time and women sense that on a subconscious level?
Change your subconscious.

When you go out think of the best freakiest f-cking you ever did. So what if you haven't had any for a while. Remember when you (insert obscene moment here)... Think about that for a while. Let it put a ****y smile on your face and a little swagger in your step.

Technique 2. Look at a woman (not staring like a zombie) and think of grabbing her hair and completely face f-cking the sh-t out of her. If you look at her with those thoughts in your head you WILL send a completely diffetent vibe than desperation.

Plan C. Jack off just before you go out.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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