“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What do guys with good game look like?

Epicwinguy

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We have all been told that looks don't matter that much and I'm not necessarily arguing, but as far a hypergamy, surely guys who look like they get laid a lot will have better luck. So how can a guy look like "a guy that gets a lot of action," or is it all body language as result of inner game?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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On an average day I'm a 7 or 8 out of 10. I'm not as built as our Espi, but on a good day, I can mix with the best.
 

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To me, if you have strong inner game you should look at least decent.

It isn't hard to go to the gym regularly, it's good for you, and inner game should mean you want to take care of yourself and look after yourself. Obviously imo that extends to dressing well, looking as good as YOU can.

Obviously not everyone is Brad Pitt in the facial department but you don't need to be.

A lot of "ugly guys" are actually just out of shape with a double chin hiding their jawline, poorly dressed, with bad skin and a bad haircut.

If said guy got in shape, cleaned his diet up, got some new clothes and a fresh cut he would probably go from a 4 to a 7.

Bottom line, confident and happy people look after themselves, unhappy people with low self esteem don't (because they don't think they are worth taking care of)

I know there are day game videos of ugly dudes who are out if shape picking up 9s and 10s but I don't buy it, anyone can pay some girl to go along with that on camera, but in the field I NEVER see top tier women get picked up by slobs. Never. These girls have 100s of guys to choose from, you have to do what you can to separate yourself physically.

Just my 2 cents.
 

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We have all been told that looks don't matter that much and I'm not necessarily arguing, but as far a hypergamy, surely guys who look like they get laid a lot will have better luck. So how can a guy look like "a guy that gets a lot of action," or is it all body language as result of inner game?
Its a result of getting lots of sex. The most important thing in this game is ensuring your properly "anointed" by woman. They can sense it.
 

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Its a result of getting lots of sex. The most important thing in this game is ensuring your properly "anointed" by woman. They can sense it.
Going out to battle and you have been "dry" for 3 months or more Is like going out into a battlefield in mediaval days without any ARMOR at all. It's not going to work.

The first thing you need to do is get your d1ck wet in a receptive body. If your target is hot girls, just find someone who likes you more than you like them, maybe 1-2 pts down on looks and **** em good let her suck you. It takes 1-2 weeks of being back in the saddle to be anointed and that will start drying up after a week.

Always be phvcking... Always.
 

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Guys with good game look at women confidently and directly. They touch confidently. They move like they know they are the sh-t. Their body posture says they are relaxed but interested. They don't take woman too seriously.
The aura they give off is "we both know you like what you see. If you put a lttle work in you might get to have me. If you don't someone else will. "
Being fit helps everything... Showing you give a f-ck about yourself (don't dress like a wino) is always good.

The main reason why getting laid helps is it takes away neediness which is the ultimate women repellent. That is also why spinning plates or having a backup booty call helps. You just aren't needy.
Nice clothes and good looks help but I have seen my friend, pudgy balding and not very tall pick up ***** like a champ while tall good-looking giys are geting nothing.
 

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Guys with good game look at women confidently and directly. They touch confidently. They move like they know they are the sh-t. Their body posture says they are relaxed but interested. They don't take woman too seriously.
The aura they give off is "we both know you like what you see. If you put a lttle work in you might get to have me. If you don't someone else will. "
Being fit helps everything... Showing you give a f-ck about yourself (don't dress like a wino) is always good.

The main reason why getting laid helps is it takes away neediness which is the ultimate women repellent. That is also why spinning plates or having a backup booty call helps. You just aren't needy.
Nice clothes and good looks help but I have seen my friend, pudgy balding and not very tall pick up ***** like a champ while tall good-looking giys are geting nothing.
WHen you have affirmation its HARD to do wrong. Everything just flows correctly. That's why I said the first priority is getting your d1ck wet. The "hot girls" everyone is after can wait. Just find someone who wants to give it to you and phvck them often.
 

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So how can a guy succeed if he hasn't been with a girl in a long time and women sense that on a subconscious level?
 

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Chin up, back straight, good eye contact, deliberate and controlled movements. Walk and act like you are made in the image of God, because you are. (Whether you believe, or not). All of this, is the physical manifestation of a good frame. I get immediate results from women of all ages.

Looks for women have more to do with how you carry yourself, but they like a nice azz too. The azz is more like icing on the cake, with frame being the cake itself.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Chin up, back straight, good eye contact, deliberate and controlled movements. Walk and act like you are made in the image of God, because you are. (Whether you believe, or not). All of this, is the physical manifestation of a good frame. I get immediate results from women of all ages.

Looks for women have more to do with how you carry yourself, but they like a nice azz too. The azz is more like icing on the cake, with frame being the cake itself.
THIS...

Walk into every room like you own it...
 

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There was a story in here or another site.....

Everyday you get up and are about to go out is like as if you are about to open a door and enter a room full of people. No one knows you.... No one knows that you may be a bit shy or self conscious.... Your on one side of the door a little weak.... They on the other side of the door not knowing what to expect.

You can enter as the weak AFC and become a wall flower or you enter as an ALPHA that is confident and ready to take care of business.. It's YOUR CHOICE. The way you come though the door will determine the outcome of everything that happens be it relationships or business.

I probably didn't explain it clearly... the point is ONLY YOU can make things happen... it's mental.... from the inside. Open that door and be the confident guy that other will feel positive towards.
 

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So how can a guy succeed if he hasn't been with a girl in a long time and women sense that on a subconscious level?
Change your subconscious.

When you go out think of the best freakiest f-cking you ever did. So what if you haven't had any for a while. Remember when you (insert obscene moment here)... Think about that for a while. Let it put a ****y smile on your face and a little swagger in your step.

Technique 2. Look at a woman (not staring like a zombie) and think of grabbing her hair and completely face f-cking the sh-t out of her. If you look at her with those thoughts in your head you WILL send a completely diffetent vibe than desperation.

Plan C. Jack off just before you go out.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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