Is it true young marriages fail

[Trainwreck]

why

 

[BackInTheGame78]

why

Lots of marriages fail, however I'd say young ones probably do so at a higher rate because they get to a point where they want to experience other things that they haven't been able to experience due to being married. They want to fvck other people, go out and party, etc...

Most people that age aren't mature enough to handle things that happen in marriage, and all too often these days people at any age turn minor things into a reason for divorce instead of working things out.

 

[Mike32ct]

I have a few theories on why some of them may not work out.

1. Young couples go mostly by looks, so she marries the bad boy, and he marries the princess.

2. They are both at a looks peak and can easily attract other partners, so the urge to cheat is strong.

3. They see a lot of their single friends having fun and hooking up, which adds to the temptation.

3. Money can be tight because they are both early in their careers. That can add stress to the marriage.

Don't get me wrong; I think a young marriage can work out extremely well if you have two young people with good heads on their shoulders. Plus there are certainly benefits to having kids earlier.

 

[sazc]

Same reasons why marriage fail today, because people view marriages as disposable. When people have a disagreements, instead of working it out and finding the compromise, they decide they are incompatible, and get a divorce. Relationships are hard in general. When you involve two people who believe they should get their way, always, without compromise, of course everyone is going to end up unhappy.

I also dont think couples communicate well before getting married. You are supposed to talk freely about money, kids, child rearing, sex, retirement, extended family, health, fitness, savings, vacations, etc, etc, etc. These discussions enable you to know who you are contemplating a life long commitment with - are you really compatible. Seems like most people now a days are afrid to open up and communicate. They go into the marriage without talking thru important topics and, when they encounter a disagreement, a sticking point, see paragraph above.

 

[Poonani Maker]

It's TOTALLY RONALD REAGAN'S FAULT with his SILLY "No fault divorce" legislation passed during his presidency. He even admitted it. Of course, the NEXT president, weak-as5 Bush, would not have stopped the overwhelming pressure to destroy Western civilization. When everything is so right, sentinels or worms and parasites want to infiltrate and take it down.

 

[sazc]

Agree 100% of course by "people" we largely mean women, who file at a rate around 75%.

im going to guess that women file because they are unhappy with their men.

 

[Who Dares Win]

im going to guess that women file because they are unhappy with their men.

Women start divorces becuase they still get his money while not even have to prented to like it at night.

Take away government and law from marriage and forget those stats.

 

[AttackFormation]

It's TOTALLY RONALD REAGAN'S FAULT with his SILLY "No fault divorce" legislation passed during his presidency. He even admitted it. Of course, the NEXT president, weak-as5 Bush, would not have stopped the overwhelming pressure to destroy Western civilization. When everything is so right, sentinels or worms and parasites want to infiltrate and take it down.

They could just say their husband raped them anyway without no fault divorce.

 

[sazc]

Women start divorces becuase they still get his money while not even have to prented to like it at night.

Take away government and law from marriage and forget those stats.

I always laugh when you guys post from the 'all women' behavior perspective. I typically assume immaturity. Learn to moderate yourself.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

One of the top reasons is hanging with single friends or other cheaters too much coupled with alcohol. The alcohol makes the act 2-3 times more likely...

Also not being mature enough to respect what you have and take care of it. Marriage sex can be some of the hottest best sex but both people have to care enough and to keep raising the level.

 

[sazc]

No reason to assume the men are less unhappy, all things being equal. Maybe incentives are different?

yea, idk. I always assumed it was because some men are lazy, or they dont want to appear as if they are failures, and I've come to realize that some men partially define their worth by having a woman/relationship, so they may be more tolerant of a crappy relationship or maybe they think the relationship is 'fine' and it's their chick that is overbearing or needy, so why would they file.

obvs there could be lots of reasons

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Cringe and chode warning. 5:40

Diamond scam, yup I knew this before watching this video. Lost a couple on my ex's ring.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I always laugh when you guys post from the 'all women' behavior perspective. I typically assume immaturity. Learn to moderate yourself.

You are a woman seeking attention in a male seduction forum and it should be me to moderate myself for analizing precise public data?

Mandatory mention of immaturity for disagreeing with your of course, maybe you wanna throw insecurity as well just to be sure?

yea, idk. I always assumed it was because some men are lazy, or they dont want to appear as if they are failures, and I've come to realize that some men partially define their worth by having a woman/relationship, so they may be more tolerant of a crappy relationship or maybe they think the relationship is 'fine' and it's their chick that is overbearing or needy, so why would they file.

obvs there could be lots of reasons

Its called logical calculation (risk/benefit ratio).

No need for mental masturbation, its really that simple if something gets you a free reward you do it, if something costs your house and half your salary you dont.

 

[Alvafe]

yea, idk. I always assumed it was because some men are lazy, or they dont want to appear as if they are failures, and I've come to realize that some men partially define their worth by having a woman/relationship, so they may be more tolerant of a crappy relationship or maybe they think the relationship is 'fine' and it's their chick that is overbearing or needy, so why would they file.

obvs there could be lots of reasons

yeah mens are lazys, funny mens are lazy when tehy need to and are active when needed, I know more woman who can't cook to feed thenselfs then men, I know mens living alone in clean good places, and woman who live alone and well, not even when me and my brother was sleeping in the same bedroom was that messy.

and that is not only men, kid, woman too, society like to define you on what job, car, partys,travels and relationship you have, or serious why you think the thing like instagram and facebook even exist?

 

[Who Dares Win]

yeah mens are lazys, funny mens are lazy when tehy need to and are active when needed, I know more woman who can't cook to feed thenselfs then men, I know mens living alone in clean good places, and woman who live alone and well, not even when me and my brother was sleeping in the same bedroom was that messy.

and that is not only men, kid, woman too, society like to define you on what job, car, partys,travels and relationship you have, or serious why you think the thing like instagram and facebook even exist?

Do not expect any logic from her, as you can read from her answer she explains someone behaviour by his feeling and not his reasoning and logic.

Thats basically what she does, I also wonder the reason for her to be here despite the ego boost of being accepted in the "lions den".

 

[Alvafe]

Do not expect any logic from her, as you can read from her answer she explains someone behaviour by his feeling and not his reasoning and logic.

Thats basically what she does, I also wonder the reason for her to be here despite the ego boost of being accepted in the "lions den".

I still put the fact and use logic against her, its not really to change her way of thinking or feeling, is just to make it know for anyone else who read to have a more direct idea.

i'm more willing to prevent others to belive in certain points of view I find wrong or incomplete then really changing the person opnion,
that is one reason I prefer people who quote what I say here then just mark like, a quote at least is someone challeging my idea and that helps to improve me or others.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Agree 100% of course by "people" we largely mean women, who file at a rate around 75%.

Proud to say I filed for mine.

 

[logicallefty]

You either gotta

1)Snag her in her late teens, early 20s. Build a diamond strength frame... If you are the one to take her V card all the better. Be smarter than her. Make her respect you so much that she borderline fears you. Then you might have a chance at a marriage that might survive through her 30s.

2) Snag her in her very late 30s but preferably early to mid 40s, when she has gone through all of her 30s crap and is at that point that the world is showing her that her poo-poo does stink just like everyone else's and that her cooter' currency has decreased from what it once was..


If you are going to get with a woman before her 30s and you haven't built that diamond strength frame and you think you can marry her and live happily ever after, then you are a damn fool. 30s women are bad news!!! I have said this before... And I will keep saying it.. Around 33-35-37 if you haven't built that frame to be diamond tough women particularly this age will cheat, leave you, or combination thereof. The are not marriage material at this age what so ever unless you have done #1 above. Don't take my word for this. Just go survey the people you know. You will likely find that 1) most marriages were ended by the woman 2) the said marriages ended when the woman was in her 30s. 3) She has either cheated, found someone else, or both

 

[Roober]

I could say yes and no...

There are couples who start young, get married young, have a family and do it well. I would say those are about 1 in 10,000 marriages. Most couples get pregnant, settle, or just get comfortable with someone, then get married. These are the ones that tend to fail. 20's are such a critical growth period for men and women, and it is hard to find someone during that age that will grow with you and be the person you want...I beginning to blieve that 30's are the best time to find someone as you have the experiences, know what you want, and understand what it takes to make relationship works...

 

[sazc]

You are a woman seeking attention in a male seduction forum and it should be me to moderate myself for analizing precise public data?

Mandatory mention of immaturity for disagreeing with your of course, maybe you wanna throw insecurity as well just to be sure?


Its called logical calculation (risk/benefit ratio).

No need for mental masturbation, its really that simple if something gets you a free reward you do it, if something costs your house and half your salary you dont.

Who the fvck us seeking attention anywhere? I'm posting like you are posting. I have no need for any extra attention, get the fvck over yourself.

It's called 'being mature' when you can discuss topics without assigning blanket statements. It's that simple.