“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Long Term Female Friends -IOIs after game improvement

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Anyone have any girls they've been friends with start showing IOIs after they moved away from beta and more towards alpha? I've got one who's been touching me a lot more lately than normal. Anyone have a similar experience? And if so, did you decide to convert her into a plate or nah? What were the results?
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Anyone have any girls they've been friends with start showing IOIs after they moved away from beta and more towards alpha? I've got one who's been touching me a lot more lately than normal. Anyone have a similar experience? And if so, did you decide to convert her into a plate or nah? What were the results?
Ex-wife, loved me we had sex every night. I was her "teddy bear" as I was kinda bulky but good looking to her. She was a true "good girl".

Went to army basic training, lost 40 lbs, had abs and muscular. When I came back, she's touching me all the time, grabbing my ass, my legs, always looking. It all makes a difference. Even if they already liked you a lot.

And if you where too "fat" or "smooth" for them, and come back "ripped" and "muscular" their loins will be fired up. Because they are attracted to what they see just like us. It might not be the overriding force in all women, but it really matters.
 

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Anyone have any girls they've been friends with start showing IOIs after they moved away from beta and more towards alpha? I've got one who's been touching me a lot more lately than normal. Anyone have a similar experience? And if so, did you decide to convert her into a plate or nah? What were the results?
tread with caution, you don't want to accidentally get yourself friendzoned(in the bad way) or become an orbiter or make things awkward.

only try and make a move if they do something that makes it extremely obvious you have a shot with them
 

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tread with caution, you don't want to accidentally get yourself friendzoned(in the bad way) or become an orbiter or make things awkward.

only try and make a move if they do something that makes it extremely obvious you have a shot with them
^This is the main concern. She's been a friend of mine since high school. She's fun to hang out with, but I wouldn't say she's GF material, so I don't think I would ever date her. But she is pretty hot. Wouldn't mind smashin' it. Last night we were hanging out in a group and she put her legs up on my lap and naturally I started stroking them. She didn't seem to mind so I worked my way up from her calves to her inner thighs. Still didn't pull away. We sat there like that for a good 30+ minutes. I wanted to escalate further but something was keeping me from doing so.

Now don't take me for some kind of AFC with a case of oneitis, but I genuinely enjoy having this girl as a friend and wouldn't want to **** it up. No romantic feelings for her here. Anyone ever have a sexual relationship with a female friend and still have her around as a close friend when you weren't ****ing anymore? Or did everything get really awkward?
 

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^This is the main concern. She's been a friend of mine since high school. She's fun to hang out with, but I wouldn't say she's GF material, so I don't think I would ever date her. But she is pretty hot. Wouldn't mind smashin' it. Last night we were hanging out in a group and she put her legs up on my lap and naturally I started stroking them. She didn't seem to mind so I worked my way up from her calves to her inner thighs. Still didn't pull away. We sat there like that for a good 30+ minutes. I wanted to escalate further but something was keeping me from doing so.

Now don't take me for some kind of AFC with a case of oneitis, but I genuinely enjoy having this girl as a friend and wouldn't want to **** it up. No romantic feelings for her here. Anyone ever have a sexual relationship with a female friend and still have her around as a close friend when you weren't ****ing anymore? Or did everything get really awkward?
just remember to keep the flirting casual so it seems natural until you're positive you can smash, then you smash.

you're the one who knows her, you should know what your odds of smashing her without causing trouble are
 

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Every long term female friend I have at some point in our 'relationship' has made a pass at me. It is usually when sh!t goes sideways with whoever they are fvcking at the time.

It's up to you what you want to do about it. If you want to have sex with this girl then do it, let her decide what it all means. You just have to be honest about what you want. If she can handle it, well that's on her not you.... Go find other friends.
 

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Friends-with-benefits and friends with benefits are two different things.

If you genuinely are friends, like, two people who rely on each other type friends, then don't bang. If it's just a member of your social circle, then bang.

I lose count the number of female acquaintances who openly flirt with me. Got me in to trouble with the guys theyre attached to on occasion.
 
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