Girl in no-contact makes a strange move...

[ByronicHero]

Yeah. I was friends with this girl I liked who lives in another country and tired of the situation I told her that I would like to date her (this was around January). Sure, this is a beta mistake. But I thought that the alternative option was to have her in the social networks with the temptation of gossiping her that it entails, and that was even more distressing than a no-contact. We spoke on whatsapp, she rejected me and we ended up angry with each other. Results: I deleted her in facebook and she blocked me in whatsapp (and me too). The point is that since mid August I can see her profile picture in whatsapp, which possibly means that she unblocked me (I still have her blocked). What do you think it is the point of this strange action? Sure Id like to learn from you how to handle this particular situation but my biggest aim is to know the underlaying reasons so I can acquire a better understanding of the female psychology.

Im not planning to unblock her, if she wants sth she can add me in fb. But in the event that she would get in contact with me, I wouldnt be sure of what to do.

I would like to add up that during this year she wasn't keen on talking, always with poor excuses...but in some certain moments she has made comments like "you like girls like me hihi", "if you were in my country I would like to hang out with you" or "-If you were a Spanish girl (im spanish) I would probably ask you out. -If you asked me out I would probably accept hihi", "youre always good, youre a handsome boy". Are this kind of comments positive or are sort of friendzoning tools? Have you guys had any similar experience?

Thanks in advance, Im awaiting a cheeky debate.

 

[marmel75]

This is a stupid post. She has no interest. Get other women in your life so you can stop fixating on some chick that lives no where near you. Ridiculous.

 

[Bayne05]

New Members must read the DJ Bible first before posting. You will find the answer you seek there.

 

[ByronicHero]

This is a stupid post. She has no interest. Get other women in your life so you can stop fixating on some chick that lives no where near you. Ridiculous.

Well, I havent said that I have no other woman in my life. Neither I desire to have her. Im simply wondering what intentions may underlay in that unblocking. But you can stay disrespectful if that makes your life enjoyable.

 

[Reykhel]

Sometimes it's really interesting to observe, that what we initially perceive as a "problem" turns out not to be a problem at all and it actually reveals something that we never would have initially guessed to be the REAL problem....

With respect, your post couldn't be more irrelevant or insignificant if it tried.....

The real issue at play here is your faulty, out of date paradigm.......

I have nothing but empathy for you, because you are really at the beginning of your personal development / game education........you really have a lot of work to do........starting with you.....

When you recognize that, and put yourself on the path to rediscovery and personal evolution, you will find "problems" such as you stated above
will probably not materialize to begin with, and if they do, they will quickly melt into insignificance....

 

[ByronicHero]

hahaha ok guys, im beginning to feel embarrased because of my post, which may be a turning point for reading the whole dj bible, so Id rather leave the post fall and do some reading before I continue posting. I was unsure about opening it. is there any way to edit/delete threads?

 

[dude99]

Yeah. I was friends with this girl I liked who lives in another country and tired of the situation I told her that I would like to date her (this was around January). Sure, this is a beta mistake. But I thought that the alternative option was to have her in the social networks with the temptation of gossiping her that it entails, and that was even more distressing than a no-contact. We spoke on whatsapp, she rejected me and we ended up angry with each other. Results: I deleted her in facebook and she blocked me in whatsapp (and me too). The point is that since mid August I can see her profile picture in whatsapp, which possibly means that she unblocked me (I still have her blocked). What do you think it is the point of this strange action? Sure Id like to learn from you how to handle this particular situation but my biggest aim is to know the underlaying reasons so I can acquire a better understanding of the female psychology.

Im not planning to unblock her, if she wants sth she can add me in fb. But in the event that she would get in contact with me, I wouldnt be sure of what to do.

I would like to add up that during this year she wasn't keen on talking, always with poor excuses...but in some certain moments she has made comments like "you like girls like me hihi", "if you were in my country I would like to hang out with you" or "-If you were a Spanish girl (im spanish) I would probably ask you out. -If you asked me out I would probably accept hihi", "youre always good, youre a handsome boy". Are this kind of comments positive or are sort of friendzoning tools? Have you guys had any similar experience?

Thanks in advance, Im awaiting a cheeky debate.

She sounds like she is immatuere and wants to play with you for her own entertainment. Sounds like she has no interest in you except as an orbiter.

You already nexted this girl. Why do you care what she thinks and does.

 

[Reykhel]

hahaha ok guys, im beginning to feel embarrased because of my post, which may be a turning point for reading the whole dj bible, so Id rather leave the post fall and do some reading before I continue posting. I was unsure about opening it. is there any way to edit/delete threads?

There's no reason to feel embarrassed.

If you wish to get from London to Paris, logically you must accept that you are, in fact, in London, and start your planning and your route from there.......

I think you see the metaphor. We start we we are at and we move forward. In pursuit of personal development and greatness it is futile to compare yourself with others, for you see, we are all on different stages of the spectrum....

You'll begin to see, that real game, begins and ends.....with you.

 

[marmel75]

Well, I havent said that I have no other woman in my life. Neither I desire to have her. Im simply wondering what intentions may underlay in that unblocking. But you can stay disrespectful if that makes your life enjoyable.

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Nothing personal...just tired of people having delusional relationships with women in foreign countries they've never met posting on here like they've been together 5 years and just got dumped...you don't need to say anything about not having other women, it's blatantly obvious by you even caring abut her doing something as insignificant as unblocking you...it's not a relationship if you aren't fvcking regularly, and if she isn't going to be fvcking you regularly find someone that will

 

[devilkingx2]

Yeah. I was friends with this girl I liked who lives in another country and tired of the situation I told her that I would like to date her (this was around January). Sure, this is a beta mistake. But I thought that the alternative option was to have her in the social networks with the temptation of gossiping her that it entails, and that was even more distressing than a no-contact. We spoke on whatsapp, she rejected me and we ended up angry with each other. Results: I deleted her in facebook and she blocked me in whatsapp (and me too). The point is that since mid August I can see her profile picture in whatsapp, which possibly means that she unblocked me (I still have her blocked). What do you think it is the point of this strange action? Sure Id like to learn from you how to handle this particular situation but my biggest aim is to know the underlaying reasons so I can acquire a better understanding of the female psychology.

Im not planning to unblock her, if she wants sth she can add me in fb. But in the event that she would get in contact with me, I wouldnt be sure of what to do.

I would like to add up that during this year she wasn't keen on talking, always with poor excuses...but in some certain moments she has made comments like "you like girls like me hihi", "if you were in my country I would like to hang out with you" or "-If you were a Spanish girl (im spanish) I would probably ask you out. -If you asked me out I would probably accept hihi", "youre always good, youre a handsome boy". Are this kind of comments positive or are sort of friendzoning tools? Have you guys had any similar experience?

Thanks in advance, Im awaiting a cheeky debate.

unblock her but don't say anything to her and don't add her or keep her added on anything, don't view or check her profile, nothing.

if she reaches out to you proceed from there if you think you have a shot for whatever reason.