"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Getting a plate back

Juanto

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I was spinning this plate 3 and a half years ago but in the end I decided to ghost and ended up going into a LTR with another girl. However that is over, and I want to get this plate back into the fold again I invited said plate for a coffee a week ago to which she agreed, it went OK but I didnt escalate (bad move I know).

Have to say, this plate is of a SMV lower than mine, however since I am not spinning any other plates now I feel it can be good for me in order to keep me in the game and more confident for the more attractive women that do come along in the near future.

So, should my next invitation be a dinner at my place, for example? Surely if she agrees that is a good sign? If she doesnt, should I then discard this plate?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tony197

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IMO, coffee without escalation into dinner at your place is too big of a jump. I'd advise having drinks near your place, and do the 'ol "Let's go back to my place for a night cap" routine.
 

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Dinner at your place is a good idea. You could also ask her out for drinks.

What ever you do don't forget to escalate. If she shoots you down just move along. Dosent hurt to give her a try
 

Juanto

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Dinner at your place is a good idea. You could also ask her out for drinks.

What ever you do don't forget to escalate. If she shoots you down just move along. Dosent hurt to give her a try
She accepted the invitation, so lets see how it goes.
 
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