"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Attracting unavailable girls

Konada

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I'm becoming more aware that I keep attracting unavailable girls to me, especially attached girls. I constantly have these girls flirting with me with a clear knowledge that they have a boyfriend

Its like I have an inbuilt radar which attracts me to them and also they fly to me like flies is to horsesh!t, what's going on?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Glassguy

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Perhaps they are just being nice and you are taking it as them flirting.
 

marmel75

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I'm becoming more aware that I keep attracting unavailable girls to me, especially attached girls. I constantly have these girls flirting with me with a clear knowledge that they have a boyfriend

Its like I have an inbuilt radar which attracts me to them and also they fly to me like flies is to horsesh!t, what's going on?
No such thing as an unavailable girl. It all depends on your skills and timing. There is a point or points in every relationship where a woman is willing to or even looking for other c0cks to jump on...you just have to know how to get to that point and be there at the right time. In this case, timing is more important than skill often times.
 

daddymonsterpoodle

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If you are giving a vibe as a sexual man branch swingers will sniff that out.. It is sometimes surprising who responds.
 
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