Hanging out with girlnfrom social circle

[Prodoge]

Recently something happenend and i need to talk to this gurl about it to get some answers.

Today I texted her basically saying:
"Hey, when is the next time we will see each other? Got to have a talk with you."

She answerd :"Whenever you want"

After texting back and forth about this subject a little i texted her:" I'll tell you what, tomorrow afternoon we go to *lake name* for a walk and we can talk about this"

She agreed off bat.

Is she expecting something from me? In other words does she believe it is a date?

For me it clearly is not, the purpose of this is to get some information out of her.

And I forgot to mention that in the past I was interested in her but when I asked her out she found excuses not to go.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I don't think she will think it's a date. She will think you are being weird, saying you have to 'have a talk' with her about something that can't be said over text. What you should have done instead is ask her out on a proper date.

There are two things, as is TMK's way:

-NEVER, EVER verbally explain your interest in a woman. You must covertly SHOW her how you feel, by dating her and fcking her in the right way.

-It is never a man's job to bring up the 'relationship' status, regardless of whether it's just friends, or something more. The woman is the gate-keeper of the sex and the man is the gate-keeper of the commitment.

Gotta be honest man, depending on what you were planning to 'say', I think you're gonna have a hard time saving this one.

But for me it is no date! Lol
I really need to talk to her

FFS man, go and have your girly little 'talk' then, and stop wasting my time.

 

[Prodoge]

I don't think she will think it's a date. She will think you are being weird, saying you have to 'have a talk' with her about something that can't be said over text. What you should have done instead is ask her out on a proper date.

There are two things, as is TMK's way:

-NEVER, EVER verbally explain your interest in a woman. You must covertly SHOW her how you feel, by dating her and fcking her in the right way.

-It is never a man's job to bring up the 'relationship' status, regardless of whether it's just friends, or something more. The woman is the gate-keeper of the sex and the man is the gate-keeper of the commitment.

Gotta be honest man, depending on what you were planning to 'say', I think you're gonna have a hard time saving this one.

But for me it is no date! Lol
I really need to talk to her

 

[Bingo-Player]

what do you need to talk to her about ?

the subject may hold clues as to whether SHE see could see it as a date or not

for example if you are asking her about work or some other serious subject then no she probably wouldn't consider it a date

however if it is just about you 2 then yes she could potentially see it as a date .....

 

[Prodoge]

FFS man, go and have your girly little 'talk' then, and stop wasting my time.

Listen, she is the only one who has the answers to my questions. I can't talk to my closest male friends or my parents because they simply couldn't answer me. No need to become aggressive about it.

I am really starting to believe certain people on here have some issues other than not being able to pick up girls...

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Some of us are fed up with answering the same old questions that have been done a thousand times before; your original post bordered on 'let me fckn google that on your lazy ass behalf' dude. I was gracious enough to humour you for at least one response however.

You provided half the story in your original post, only for it to turn out you only see this girl as a 'friend' anyway. Therefore you're either suffering a massive case of denial, or you are ignorant as pig sh!t. I dare say it's a sad combination of both.

One of the moderators needs to lock this thread down; it's fckn worthless crap.

 

[CMNILS87]

It's a date.... Anytime you hang alone with a girl and get info from her, it's a date. Especially relaxing at s lake and going for a walk.

 

[Yewki]

Is she expecting something from me? In other words does she believe it is a date?

I don't understand why you care what she thinks, if you yourself don't even call it a date