"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So my doctor put me on Propranolol (beta-blocker)

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So you can probably already tell where this is going :D

So little sexual interest I love it, I get things done, I'm focused, I see a hot chick and I'm like K. If I'm lucky I'll have one erection a day. But life is bliss right now, don't even want to look at porn, this is so nice.. Going from wanting to 5-7 times a day due to my hyperthyroid to 0 muaahaha I love it. Hopefully there's is no permanent damage, which is why I'm here, I wanted some input from those of you have that have used beta-blockers for an extended time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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did you not want to have a sex drive?
Too strong sex drive leads into sexual desperation, the number one enemy to finding a woman to fvck in the first place. I wouldn't want to feel like having sex every other hour of every day, it's disturbing to getting important things done in life.

@GetFit66 Here's what it does: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Beta_blocker
It reduces anxiety including social anxiety, seems like that's the effect you're noticing. It's said to be a pretty safe substance to use.
 
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My sex drive is low. I can watch porn all day and not get a boner. I am chock full of testosterone. My t level is at about 1000 due to injections. Why is my sex drive so low? I have no clue. I do know that once I start making out with an actual woman my drive increases. I have to have physical presence to desire sex. I do get bored of sex sometimes too. It's funny because I am bored with the women I am ****ing right now. More in the pipeline though.
 

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My sex drive is low. I can watch porn all day and not get a boner. I am chock full of testosterone. My t level is at about 1000 due to injections. Why is my sex drive so low? I have no clue. I do know that once I start making out with an actual woman my drive increases. I have to have physical presence to desire sex. I do get bored of sex sometimes too. It's funny because I am bored with the women I am ****ing right now. More in the pipeline though.
This could be due to your estrogen levels. They could be too high if you arent taking an AI since you said you were on injections. Have your dr run some bloodwork. Your estrogen level is either too high or if you are on an AI they might be too low.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This could be due to your estrogen levels. They could be too high if you arent taking an AI since you said you were on injections. Have your dr run some bloodwork. Your estrogen level is either too high or if you are on an AI they might be too low.
Ty I will do that.
 

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My sex drive is low. I can watch porn all day and not get a boner. I am chock full of testosterone. My t level is at about 1000 due to injections. Why is my sex drive so low? I have no clue. I do know that once I start making out with an actual woman my drive increases. I have to have physical presence to desire sex. I do get bored of sex sometimes too. It's funny because I am bored with the women I am ****ing right now. More in the pipeline though.
doesn't matter about actual T levels (thats how much total test, free and bound to SHBG, which cannot be used unless debound), how much free test do you have? How high is your DHT? How high or low is your estrogen?
 

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Idk the doctor does blood work every six weeks and adjusts accordingly. Right now I'm taking a pill for water retention.
 

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Please keep us updated on this. I'm very interested in beta blockers and @dustmuffin 's testosterone stuff. If there's something that's SAFE that I could take to improve my brain function and/or sex stuff, etc. I'd be interested in looking into it
 

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Please keep us updated on this. I'm very interested in beta blockers and @dustmuffin 's testosterone stuff. If there's something that's SAFE that I could take to improve my brain function and/or sex stuff, etc. I'd be interested in looking into it
I'll ask my doc about it. I do feel much better with the injections. I get one injection a week. I get weighed everytime for water retention and the blood work every six weeks. It costs me about 160 usd a month with insurance.

Some guys on here buy their own testosterone online and inject themselves. It's cheaper that way but I would rather be under a docs care.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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