"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi,

I wanted to introduce you to a youtube channel I discovered that really offers a new approach on pickup, being less direct, more appreciative, caring more about how the girl is feeling, showing empathy and vulnerability and over all come off as more natural and more socially calibrated. I'm gonna show you one of his day game infield breakdown but feel free to check the rest of his content as I thought it really brings a fresh way of doing pickup to the table.



Let me know what you think and how do you compare it to your own game.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Guys I see that here a lot of guys have trouble getting dates so this is the most efficient way to text a girl and see her on a date :


Everyone should watch that
 

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Guys I see that here a lot of guys have trouble getting dates so this is the most efficient way to text a girl and see her on a date :


Everyone should watch that
The ones who have trouble getting dates are the ones who refuse to listen to basic advice that is continuously given in posts, in articles, in the DJ Bible, etc.

And as to the first post, flakes are flakes. I'd rather have a non interested woman flake than be interested enough to go on a date but not enough to fvck me. What's the point?

Once again, the answer is stop trying to make uninterested women interested and spend that time simply finding interested women to begin with.
 

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He posted the infield of the date following that pickup, pull included, if you guys are interested :
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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