"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I got this strippers number how do I get her out on a date?

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A man could also choose to spend such money on other beautiful women. Why would a man primarily choose to pursue strippers? Is it because as beautiful women, strippers are easier to locate and interact with? A greater challenge somehow? Or are they just more receptive to trading their female attention for financial benefit? Or is just another personal preference, like a man might prefer blondes, brunettes, or redheads? Or is their an ego gratification of some sort, from being with a stripper?
What does "the final frontier of seduction," mean to men? What is it that makes strippers, in particular, the 'final frontier' for men? Or is for only some men, depending on what they perceive as a challenge or ultimately attractive, perhaps?
What creates that experience that "strippers are cool," for you? Is it because... You see them naked without having to game them? They are naked and uninhibited? They are openly sensual/sexual? Because they are beautiful? Because you get to know them and their personalities? Is it because they know how be what a man wants???
Because they are so much more than 5% body fat beautiful females. Because they're confident and when my dads Alzheimer's got bad, my stripper friend shared her story and offered to be my go to person to talk to.

Also, they don't ask me to many questions that they haven't earned a reason to ask.
K?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Because they are so much more than 5% body fat beautiful females. Because they're confident and when my dads Alzheimer's got bad, my stripper friend shared her story and offered to be my go to person to talk to.

Also, they don't ask me to many questions that they haven't earned a reason to ask.
K?
You can't be serious. And they have a lot more than 5% body fat. As a female at 5% body fat you would likely be dead.
 

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OP, you going to give us an update on this or leave us hanging?
 
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Because he feels that if you have to spend tons of money on a chick, they must be something special...he is all about money, how much he spends, how he makes more than everyone else, how his roommate is a loser because he doesn't make a lot, how he spends a lot on his dates, how every hot woman is going out with dudes who spend tons of money on them, etc...just read his posts, you'll get the gist quick enough...not sure I've ever read one of his posts that doesn't revolve around money in some way.

He fails to realize that half of these chicks go out with dudes like that to get nice things, get nothing in return and then call bum ass dudes with no jobs to bang their back out once money bags drops them off at home after spending $200-300 on them to get a kiss on the cheek.

I'm no bum ass dude, but I've been on that end of it, laying in bed laughing about how this dude spent all his money and got nothing while I spent nothing...
True. This guy is unbelievable. Every thread you see a post from him claiming to make 120k a month, claiming to have had sex with 250 women including 39 supermodels. Needless to say he probably once beat up 20 Russian gangsters and escaped the mafia with just a few scuffs. And then he talks down to people for making "less than him". You know, I always envisioned being super rich and successful as more than pseudo-trolling a forum to the tune of 4,000 posts.

It's like the 15 year old virgin in high school that everyone hates because he never stops talking about how much poon he's getting meanwhile he was eating lunch in the bathroom..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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