logicallefty
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One of my buddies sent me this this morning and challenged me to do this. I accepted. I don't normally forward memes but this one is SoSuave post worthy..
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Keeping It Real / Opener
- Thread starter logicallefty
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
yep that's the attitude you need to have to be successful with women
confident , funny, whitty and an element of not giving a fvck
everything you say to them should be based around those principles
confident , funny, whitty and an element of not giving a fvck
everything you say to them should be based around those principles
That's pretty funny. Passed a girl at the grocery store last night looking at the nutritional facts of a box of saltine crackers. I said looks like you're having a great dinner tonight. She laughed and we chatted and number closed.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
logicallefty
Moderator
if she got snippy could say " oh OK well I heard they are hiring " and walk away.