Clueless2k16
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Want the real TRUTH? Read and learn
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
old_skoolr
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Would actually like to know if she has been approached by a hot guy before?
$50 says its never happened and shes not aware that she is uggo as well.
$50 says its never happened and shes not aware that she is uggo as well.
Clueless2k16
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shes not alone, many women if not the majority thinks like this. even in the comments section, many people agree with her.
i dont think she's a uggo, this is just how women see the guys they arent attracted to.
i dont think she's a uggo, this is just how women see the guys they arent attracted to.
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
Trust me shes ugly
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Tictac
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More pain shopping @Clueless2k16 ?
JohnChops
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"If you’re not hot, we see right through your so-called “confident” act and know exactly what you’re doing. It’s laughable."
"Without good looks, your “awesome personality” is worthless for anything but platonic friendship,"
Let me see a picture of the girl who wrote this. I guarantee you, she is fat, ugly, or a tumblr skinny chick.
"Without good looks, your “awesome personality” is worthless for anything but platonic friendship,"
Let me see a picture of the girl who wrote this. I guarantee you, she is fat, ugly, or a tumblr skinny chick.
Who Dares Win
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I suppose the guys spamming and trolling in the comment section there its us.
DiegoSantori
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"We ARE visual, just like you are. We only want GOOD LOOKING guys to approach us."
She's right. Women are visual. Human beings are visual. Good looking face = Good genetics.
I once heard one of those RSD guys say "Men are visual. They are attracted to beautiful women. Women are not visual. They are attracted to your icyness, your indifference." Granted, indifference can be an attractive trait but claiming that women are not visual is just terribly wrong. Have you ever heard women talk to each other? When they talk about guys, they only mention their looks. "Damn, he's so hot. I love his hair and his blue eyes." If women were not visual, Justin Bieber and all those male models would be poor.
She's right. Women are visual. Human beings are visual. Good looking face = Good genetics.
I once heard one of those RSD guys say "Men are visual. They are attracted to beautiful women. Women are not visual. They are attracted to your icyness, your indifference." Granted, indifference can be an attractive trait but claiming that women are not visual is just terribly wrong. Have you ever heard women talk to each other? When they talk about guys, they only mention their looks. "Damn, he's so hot. I love his hair and his blue eyes." If women were not visual, Justin Bieber and all those male models would be poor.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
marmel75
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Attraction is very fluid. As she sits and types this in its true. As she stands in a club and is approached by a guy in the club like this with enough skill, those feelings change rapidly. Basically it's the feelings you are able to provide in the moment that count not ones as she sits and rationalizes them to herself later.
dustmuffin
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I didn't bother reading it......Waste of time. I will continue to approach women and if they think I'm creepy so be it. I don't give a rats ass what they think.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Well that sucks. I am pretty sure most women ARE like this, though not 100%. I just hope that evolution somehow rids itself of such horrible people.
Also, if she were to hear about you from her social corcle how you've done all these great things and stuff, and sees you as a genuinely cool dude who isn't aesthetically pleasing, then she prolly would still want to fvck you cuz her perception would of you would change and she would look at you in a more attractive way. I believe this can inly occur over time though. Looks are pretty much the firestarter of attraction after all.
Also, if she were to hear about you from her social corcle how you've done all these great things and stuff, and sees you as a genuinely cool dude who isn't aesthetically pleasing, then she prolly would still want to fvck you cuz her perception would of you would change and she would look at you in a more attractive way. I believe this can inly occur over time though. Looks are pretty much the firestarter of attraction after all.
Serenity
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She's right about one thing though, she can be attracted to whatever man she wants. Luckily so can men. I wonder how she will react if she's attracted to a man and he isn't attracted to her, I seriously doubt she's going to respect it at the same level she demands respect for her preferences.
I find it amusing to think it's nobodies business who I'm attracted to. I can be attracted to whatever the fvck I want, I can choose based on skin color, religion, income and weight if I want to. On that note I'm definitely not attracted to whatever woman wrote that post, she won't have to worry about me, I won't even touch her with a pole.
She should just print that post and hand it out to all men, it sure would keep them away. However not for the reason she thinks, rather because even the most hardcore beta would run for his life before getting more involved with that crazy b!tch.
I find it amusing to think it's nobodies business who I'm attracted to. I can be attracted to whatever the fvck I want, I can choose based on skin color, religion, income and weight if I want to. On that note I'm definitely not attracted to whatever woman wrote that post, she won't have to worry about me, I won't even touch her with a pole.
She should just print that post and hand it out to all men, it sure would keep them away. However not for the reason she thinks, rather because even the most hardcore beta would run for his life before getting more involved with that crazy b!tch.
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Maybe she thinks she is always gonna be in her "league".
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
taiyuu_otoko
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Nobody gets that angry without a reason. She's probably pissed because the ONLY guys that approach her are ugly dudes.
And she probably THINKS she's hot enough to attract hot guys.
Of course, it's not HER fault. It's those ugly guys who keep approaching her.
(one of those "it's not me it's the market" arguments)
And she probably THINKS she's hot enough to attract hot guys.
Of course, it's not HER fault. It's those ugly guys who keep approaching her.
(one of those "it's not me it's the market" arguments)
yungballa
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Maybe looks do play a bigger part than we think, at least for some females. Maybe they don't.
I need a girl to be good looking for me to be attracted to her. She doesn't have to be perfect looking, though... no one's perfect, everyone is flawed. Also, this isn't Build-A-B1tch work shop, (at least where I live) you won't have models walking around left and right.
In my book, as long as I think you're okay looking and your personality is great, you're attractive in my book.
Who's to say females aren't the same? I know plenty of females who go crazy over a guy solely for their looks. They'll have a crush on them for long periods of time just because of the way they look. They'll want to fvck him without even meeting/socializing wiht him because of his looks. There was this guy I knew who used to go to my school, and I know several girls who would just go crazy when he was in their presence. It was all because the girls thought he was so good looking.
Anyways, I don't think none of this sh1t matters. If you're the type of guy who's bothered by how visual women are, just improve your looks. Simple as that. And if that's not helping, drop the girls who you KNOW are interested in you... and just pursue the ones you KNOW are interested. Easy.
I need a girl to be good looking for me to be attracted to her. She doesn't have to be perfect looking, though... no one's perfect, everyone is flawed. Also, this isn't Build-A-B1tch work shop, (at least where I live) you won't have models walking around left and right.
In my book, as long as I think you're okay looking and your personality is great, you're attractive in my book.
Who's to say females aren't the same? I know plenty of females who go crazy over a guy solely for their looks. They'll have a crush on them for long periods of time just because of the way they look. They'll want to fvck him without even meeting/socializing wiht him because of his looks. There was this guy I knew who used to go to my school, and I know several girls who would just go crazy when he was in their presence. It was all because the girls thought he was so good looking.
Anyways, I don't think none of this sh1t matters. If you're the type of guy who's bothered by how visual women are, just improve your looks. Simple as that. And if that's not helping, drop the girls who you KNOW are interested in you... and just pursue the ones you KNOW are interested. Easy.
Amer1group
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I agree with you; but the difference is that for us, as ImTheDoubleGreatest! said, looks are a firestarter. But she used them to dehumanize ugly guys and deny them the possibility to improve. She also lost credibility when she said "I can get what I want", she ignored that looks are relative from man/woman to man/woman, and she also ignored our power to NEXT her. Even if the men in her life are too ugly, those men are necessary to uncover crazy b!tches like her.
Clueless2k16, I don't know if you are the one who wrote that article or if you brought it here to prove something, be I don't get what do you want people here to tell you.
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Clueless2k16, I don't know if you are the one who wrote that article or if you brought it here to prove something, be I don't get what do you want people here to tell you.[/QUOTE]
I was wondering the same thing.
Clueless2k16, I don't know if you are the one who wrote that article or if you brought it here to prove something, be I don't get what do you want people here to tell you.[/QUOTE]
I was wondering the same thing.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.