Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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a cute lady in my meditation class should I ask out?

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She kind of looked at me in class I noticed once. Then after class, I was going up the stairs and she was holding door she said "you dont have to run up here i got the door for you" We talked for a good amount of time about mediation and she showed me an app I told her to text me the name of the app because I don't have my phone on me and she did. she had 2 phones and I made a joke about it singing the Kevin Gates song and she was laughing said thats funny. I told her i'd see her around she seemed nice should I try to invite her out to drinks, I was thinking about calling her tuesday she is 33.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lol for real sound good? invite her out to drinks she seemed alright. I just worry about the reputation with the mediation place.
 

marmel75

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Lol for real sound good? invite her out to drinks she seemed alright. I just worry about the reputation with the mediation place.
So you worry about your reputation because you act like a man and go for what you want? And who the fvck are these people to you? If they have a problem with it it's because they are weak minded people with no balls to do what you did and are jealous of you. Fvck them.

Whenever you choose or don't choose to do something based on other people(except at work where it can get you fired) you have lost.

I never heard of meditation classes...I use centerpointe's Holosync Binaural Beats meditation...that gets really interesting at times...its like you are standing watching two sides of your brain have a conversation about a random topic and then when you emerge from the meditation you have a new understanding of that topic with views you may have never thought about previously...the sh!t can be crazy, especially since there doesn't seem to be a rhyme or reason as to why you get on a topic.
 

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On the topic of Meditation I have been doing it on and off. When I do it, its usually for 20 minutes with some mediation music of my liking from youtube, from there I close my eyes and meditate and listen to my breathing and reinforce positive thoughts My problem is consistently doing it
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Like Nike says... "Just do it"
Rejection is better than regret. You and her are already on civil terms, and you already broke the ice. Strike while the iron is hot or else she will think you are not interested in her. You know what they say about he who hesitates...
 

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jesus christ man kinda sick of these threads asking what should i do when so and so. If you want to f*ck her youll ask her out. if not then you wont. If you do want to and you dont ask her out, guess what? You dont get to F*ck its as simple as that. again, jesus effing christ
 

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A good professor of mine said to me once while applying to scholarships: "always allow someone else to reject you." If you try something, there is a chance you will be rejected, but also a chance you'll be approved. However, no move at all is a 100% chance of rejection. A significant part of meeting women is a numbers game. The math in this situation is clear, so do what you have to do!
 

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jesus christ man kinda sick of these threads asking what should i do when so and so. If you want to f*ck her youll ask her out. if not then you wont. If you do want to and you dont ask her out, guess what? You dont get to F*ck its as simple as that. again, jesus effing christ
Yeah pretty much, but it seems like there are 3 or 4 every day that pop up...same thing over and over...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I have a naked girl in my bed. I was thinking about fvcking her. What do ya'll think?
Better look for more IOI's before you proceed...she might reject you...
 

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We get it, you're knew. But seriously newbs need to read the bible. It's gonna answer all you questions.

in short, yes. She seems interested. Just ask her out and try to put ur d1ck inside her. If you need a step by step process on how to get to that point then please go study the DJ bible before the date so she doesn't go tell the rest of the class you're a fagit who couldn't get in her pants
 
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I was gonna ask her out sunday next mediation class and have her grab drinks with me after class or should i schedule a date for the week??
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I recommend you show up to meditation class with a vibrator in your pants, wrapped around your C!CK. Then when you get close to money-shotting-in your pants, send out a telepathic vibe of sex energy her way.

If she orgasms on the spot, that's a sign from God that you two are meant to be together.

If, on the other hand, somebody calls the cops because you jizzed all over the meditation room, that's a sign from God that she's not as into you as you think.

(Just be careful, this technique is known to backfire. You might inadvertently send your sex-energy-love-bomb to a dude, who'll misinterpret it, and you'll have some long-john-silver blowing up your phone.)
 
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