"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dustmuffin

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I went out on a first date. Good kino bla bla bla......Kissed closed her. Sat in her Car and Made out. Got a tit out pinched nipple etc. She gave me a hand job. She Wouldn't go back to my place. My son was coming over so I had limited time and didnt press the issue.

I asked her out again. She ignored it for 12 hours we were texting back and forth. She said that she didnt think I would ask her out again because she didnt go back to my place. I told her that I wanted a date and that if she wasn't interested I would move along. No response. I waited two weeks and asked her out again. She said she was busy.

Ok....One week later at about 2 AM she sends me a video of her massaging her tit. Trying to draw me in as an orbiter? Just a crazy b itch? Opinions pls.....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My opinion: She's probably seeking ego validation and had other options... but she did send something

Write her: I missed your booty call

Wait an answer

Ask her on a date over drinks than XXX.

If she flakes.... gotta next
 

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My opinion: She's probably seeking ego validation and had other options... but she did send something

Write her: I missed your booty call

Wait an answer

Ask her on a date over drinks than XXX.

If she flakes.... gotta next
I would do this, but suggest a place within 2 minutes of my place, preferably walking distance. She's never been to his place so wouldn't ask directly, but she needs to put some skin in the game and earn him back.
 

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It's pretty interesting she immediately assumed you'd next her because you didn't get 1st date bang. Ha! This must happen a lot with her? But again we have to remember never believe what actually comes out of their mouth.

She ignored you & then said she was busy. Now she's just fvcking with you for kicks. She probably had a ****ty date were the guy was boring as fvck. 2am, she's drunk & horny for all we know she sent that to 2 or 3 guys?

LiveYourDream nailed it, anything after 10pm is captain obvious. 2am tho fvck that I'm not that desperate for pvssy, Von's response is perfect.
 

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She thinks she can dangle her pvzzy, and here you will come jumping again. And when the puppeteer pulls your strings and relegates you back into her orbit, she will go silent again. Ha.

She had her chance ... twice. NEXT that bytch.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dustmuffin

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I'll send Von's option and let you guys know. I might have nailed her at two. Doesn't mater anyway. I'm usually asleep by midnight..
 

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She thinks she can dangle her pvzzy, and here you will come jumping again. And when the puppeteer pulls your strings and relegates you back into her orbit, she will go silent again. Ha.

She had her chance ... twice. NEXT that bytch.

I'm going to try one more time. No ego involved. I would like to **** her she has a nice body. If she doesn't bite I'll next her.
 

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Ok....One week later at about 2 AM she sends me a video of her massaging her tit. Trying to draw me in as an orbiter? Just a crazy b itch? Opinions pls.....
Sexy pics and vids sent to you in the late evening means she wants you to come over and fvck her. This is what you should have done.
 

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If all you want is sex with her, who cares if she will go silent afterwards?

Heck, that's the best arrangement to have with a woman.
You missed it. There will be no sex. She sought only attention and got it. A DJ's currency is his attention, and need not be spent frivolously on poor investments.

Dustmuffin, did she respond?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You missed it. There will be no sex. She sought only attention and got it. A DJ's currency is his attention, and need not be spent frivolously on poor investments.

Dustmuffin, did she respond?
Nope she didn't looks like you are correct.
 

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Thanks guys for your insight and replies.
 

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Personal rule I never answer the phone in any capacity after about 10 pm. I'm either intoxicated, out with another chick, inside of another chick, or catching up on sleep. Nothing good can come of answering the phone in any of those situations.

Also, answering that message is the logical answer. Sometimes the best play is to just do the opposite of what is logical. If you don't answer, her hamster is in overdrive like "wow wtf did I just send him."
 
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