"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She's trying to press charges

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I was in a relationship with this girl for 3 months ....We ended up breaking up Because I would call her out on her feminist bull crap and she would tell me that I'm tearing her apart . She's insane she told me all her life she's battles with self image and self esteem issue . At one point she thought about suicide after her mom dies. She has an eating disorder and she sees a psychiatrist she even takes meds for anxiety

Fast forward to the ending of our relationship she went to get checked nd she said that she was positive for HIV antibodies but negative for HIV itself .. She showed me screenshots of the test results and details and she insists that I probably Have HIV and gave it to her .

We got into one last argument and we broke up . Two weeks later I went to get checked and I was hiv negative . I tried to let her know about my results but I found out that my number was blocked . So over the next month and s half is tried to contact her to let her know my HIV status . I'd call her from random numbers ,email her and used my friends Facebook to message her .

Then she replies back to the Facebook message saying that she's asked me to leave her alone and that I wouldn't and that if I contact her one more time she will go to the police and press Charges for aggravated harassment in da second degree and that se has proof from all my random calls and voicemails and email . I never intended in harming her or annoying her I didn't even know this such a thing was possible I just wanted to let her know my status for her own sake . What should I do ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hockeyfreak79

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Erase delete everything you know about her and move on with your life. Get tested again in another month or so.

Lesson learned, don't date woman that their mom has passed away. It's sad I know but it haunts them for the rest of life & they will always have issues. Life experience, trust me I know I've been there. Start screening better so you do repeat the same mistakes

How many RED FLAGS did you ignore?
 

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Yea I def won't be hittin her up again bur the thing is she never picked up any of the calls when I called her and I only left her one voicemail .. I called her from 3-4 different numbers ... So wat if another random number calls her which actually isn't me she'll probably think it's me and then proceed to press charges
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm scared out my ass I've never been in trouble with the law or anything man .women are so ****ing evil it wasn't even that serious to be going this far
 

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Yea I def won't be hittin her up again bur the thing is she never picked up any of the calls when I called her and I only left her one voicemail .. I called her from 3-4 different numbers ... So wat if another random number calls her which actually isn't me she'll probably think it's me and then proceed to press charges
I'm scared out my ass I've never been in trouble with the law or anything man .women are so ****ing evil it wasn't even that serious to be going this far
Are you trying to figure out ways to call her from random numbers? She will need proof that it was you that called. So DO NOT DO THAT again.

As for women being evil, she (presumably not all women) just doesn't like you. Take the subtle hints she's given you.
 

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No I wont call her again I'm just saying if she gets a call from a random number she'd probably think it's me.. I'm done with her at this point and I'll never context her again .

She just a Crqzy ***** she would tell me how she loves me how she wants to marry me and have my kids , she even almost got a tattoo of my name I had to stop her . I just got tired of her feminist ways and would argue wit her aboit it and she took that so damn personal
 

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Sounds like this chick has BDP. Read about it. Leave her alone, it's for your own good.
And for the record, never ever admit that you were the one calling from random numbers. You are incriminating yourself. Best of all, don't call. Ever. I mean for life.
 

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She is crazy.... The HIV thing is BS... Just trying to scare/hurt you for dumping her ass. Never contact her again....in any shape, matter or form.

Also if it comes to legal problems.... Remember that the cops are not your friends. Keep your mouth shut and let your lawyer do your talking.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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People don't catch AIDS that easily. Magic Johnson's wife never even got it. Diseases don't spread through incidental contact between a sick person and a healthy person, as Victimologists pretend. Diseases spread when a person becomes a host, by allowing their immune system to become lowered by lifestyle choices such as diet, drugs and lack of sleep. Families get sick from one another because they all eat the same crappy diet.

Meanwhile, unless a girl is pursuing us to some degree, unless dropping her a "Hello" text results in her sending a 4 part text novel as a reply, they are so far from what we are looking for they're not worth thinking about. Run.
 

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I was in a relationship with this girl for 3 months ....We ended up breaking up Because I would call her out on her feminist bull crap and she would tell me that I'm tearing her apart . She's insane she told me all her life she's battles with self image and self esteem issue . At one point she thought about suicide after her mom dies. She has an eating disorder and she sees a psychiatrist she even takes meds for anxiety

Fast forward to the ending of our relationship she went to get checked nd she said that she was positive for HIV antibodies but negative for HIV itself .. She showed me screenshots of the test results and details and she insists that I probably Have HIV and gave it to her .

We got into one last argument and we broke up . Two weeks later I went to get checked and I was hiv negative . I tried to let her know about my results but I found out that my number was blocked . So over the next month and s half is tried to contact her to let her know my HIV status . I'd call her from random numbers ,email her and used my friends Facebook to message her .

Then she replies back to the Facebook message saying that she's asked me to leave her alone and that I wouldn't and that if I contact her one more time she will go to the police and press Charges for aggravated harassment in da second degree and that se has proof from all my random calls and voicemails and email . I never intended in harming her or annoying her I didn't even know this such a thing was possible I just wanted to let her know my status for her own sake . What should I do ?
Stop wasting your time with a b!tch that falsly accused you of giving her hiv. Thank your lucky stars your test came up nevative and move on with your life. The fact that hers came up with it means you probably weren't the only dog to roam the backyard if you know what i mean. Who cares if she talks to you ever again. Consider this a gift horse and walk away.....hiv free.
 
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