"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Not sure if personal trainer at gym is interested...

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Long story short, I've been single for almost 2 years now, never really been interested in dating, more so just into myself and being the best version of me.

Of course with this, I'm completely oblivious/not aware of the "obvious signs" from women, as like I said, just into myself.

I joined a new gym back in August, and through continual workouts, I eventually started noticing a particular personal trainer. Every so often I'd ask her for the weight belt, sometimes make a comment about the music, but never really went further.

Lately though, seems like there have been some 'signs' and I'll list them;

1. I'll catch her looking at me during a workout
2. She'll find her way to walk by me even if it seems out of the way
3. I've passed her in the hallway before and both smiled
4. Shot hoops (have a basketball court at the gym) and missed a shot, she threw the ball back to me

Earlier today I was about to squat and right before I went under the bar, she was heading my way, but as soon as I got under the bar, she diverted her course, almost as if she was going to say something but then didn't...

I mainly go to the gym just to work out and have a good time, listening to tunes and what not. Just curious if this trainer might be intrigued / possibly interested in me. It should be noted that a ton of dudes try and hit on her, and I don't.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Long story short, I've been single for almost 2 years now, never really been interested in dating, more so just into myself and being the best version of me.

Of course with this, I'm completely oblivious/not aware of the "obvious signs" from women, as like I said, just into myself.

I joined a new gym back in August, and through continual workouts, I eventually started noticing a particular personal trainer. Every so often I'd ask her for the weight belt, sometimes make a comment about the music, but never really went further.

Lately though, seems like there have been some 'signs' and I'll list them;

1. I'll catch her looking at me during a workout
2. She'll find her way to walk by me even if it seems out of the way
3. I've passed her in the hallway before and both smiled
4. Shot hoops (have a basketball court at the gym) and missed a shot, she threw the ball back to me

Earlier today I was about to squat and right before I went under the bar, she was heading my way, but as soon as I got under the bar, she diverted her course, almost as if she was going to say something but then didn't...

I mainly go to the gym just to work out and have a good time, listening to tunes and what not. Just curious if this trainer might be intrigued / possibly interested in me. It should be noted that a ton of dudes try and hit on her, and I don't.
Ask her.
 
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